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Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:24:46 PM   
DesiresFury


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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:26:01 PM   
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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:26:04 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		What does that even mean? They are male vs female. Just from that aspect there will be differences in how the sexes behave and then as individuals.

So your question is very vague.

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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:26:32 PM   
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Just thought I'd help.
 
 
 
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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:27:09 PM   
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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:27:56 PM   
DaddySatyr


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Alright. Let me try to answer the OP.
 
OP; your question kind of paints a very binary view of what this life is.
 
It's almost as if you think that all female dominants are cut from the same cloth.
 
If the converse were true, then all submissives would be inter-changable.
 
 
 
Peace and comfort,
 
 
 
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< Message edited by DaddySatyr -- 7/25/2012 1:29:57 PM >

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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:29:27 PM   
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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:31:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesiresFury

Are male doms pretty much the same as female doms?

People are not fungible.

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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:33:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr

Boys have a penis. Girls have a vagina.
 
Just thought I'd help.
 
 
 
Peace and comfort,
 
 
 
Michael


USUALLY. We don't need to be all binary yanno! Just saying.


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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:35:54 PM   
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My personal opinion, ninety percent of the time, yes. Don't get Me wrong. Personal preferences play a lot into that. However, if you asked Me to name the ten dynamics on these boards who I feel have the type of authority that I do in Mine or would be the most similar when I think of them in My head, you would get the names of males. (One past dynamic is found more often in women.)

The fantasy stuff tends to paint male and female Dominants rather differently. Those dynamics that are based more on sexuality, rather than authority in particular. I don't really see dominance in that way. I look at it more from the bare basics.



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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:38:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		If we're being serious about actual M/s type stuff, yes, they are the same, though the sexuality might alter the mix somewhat.

I miss MasterFireMaam at these junctures.

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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:38:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr

Boys have a penis. Girls have a vagina.
 
Just thought I'd help.
 
 
 
Peace and comfort,
 
 
 
Michael

And here I was trying to be all good and stuff.

Equipment can always be bought.

Just saying.



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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:44:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
And here I was trying to be all good and stuff.


There's a first. Just kidding.. just kidding. You are 'mostly' good most of the time.. just like me.

quote:

Equipment can always be bought.

Just saying.

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Not the same. I can't pierce a piece of bought equipment and get blood out of it. I can't watch it pulse and throb with desire or anticipation. I can't feel its warm or discern the textures and name the scars should I so desire.

Just saying.



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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 1:49:18 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Not for nothing, Celeste, but when I'm wearing the strap on, piercing it really isn't high on My list.



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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 2:30:54 PM   
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Not for nothing, Celeste, but when I'm wearing the strap on, piercing it really isn't high on My list.



I wasn't thinking of 'wearing' the strap on. LOL Point to you though Ms. Pact!! :;piercing is ALWAYS high on my list! LOL::

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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 2:55:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you everyone. I'm sorry if I was vague. Maybe this will help. If a female is trying to learn more about being a Dom, should she read about both sexes, or just her own?

< Message edited by DesiresFury -- 7/25/2012 2:57:45 PM >

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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 3:07:08 PM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: DesiresFury

Thank you everyone. I'm sorry if I was vague. Maybe this will help. If a female is trying to learn more about being a Dom, should she read about both sexes, or just her own?

Knowledge is power! I would not turn down any good resource. Good luck to you.

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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 3:10:00 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 3:32:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesiresFury

Thank you everyone. I'm sorry if I was vague. Maybe this will help. If a female is trying to learn more about being a Dom, should she read about both sexes, or just her own?


You know, good stuff is good stuff, a good idea isn't male or female...


I vote for reading both, but don't try to overthink and complicate it more than you have to, it's not all about what you have to do, there are a lot of different ways of being dominant, the essential question is if it is right for you and what kind of dom you are.


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RE: Male and female doms - 7/25/2012 3:45:32 PM   
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Are male doms pretty much the same as female doms?


One is generally bald, bearded, bad-tempered and weird. The other is the same, only male.

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