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RE: Initial email approach - 7/26/2012 9:48:19 PM   
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RE: Initial email approach - 7/26/2012 11:20:27 PM   
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I think that when one first approaches a woman, here as elsewhere, one has to develop the language of gentleness, sensitivity, and poetry. One has to tease, gently; joke and make the lady smile with one's finest language of romance and seduction. That is the art of Love; it has been thus for an eternity, and it will always be thus. It beats the hot steaming shit out of me why more men don't understand that, to be honest.


Peon, you could not be more right, and I adore you for saying so. There is no quicker way to disarm and open me. Pity so few understand or ever learn how to navigate in such a way.

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 5:22:26 AM   
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I think that when one first approaches a woman, here as elsewhere, one has to develop the language of gentleness, sensitivity, and poetry. One has to tease, gently; joke and make the lady smile with one's finest language of romance and seduction. That is the art of Love; it has been thus for an eternity, and it will always be thus. It beats the hot steaming shit out of me why more men don't understand that, to be honest.


And you want to explain it to the muppets that don't get it?

What the fuck.

Some of us benefit enormously from the fact that so many dudes don't understand this shit.

So, if you don't mind - could you keep your common sense to yourself as your irresponsible <finger quotes>sharing</finger quotes> might result in Me and Mr W above getting less tail.

[ed to fix typo]

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 5:37:55 AM   
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I thought 9 out of 10 of you were, we see enough threads about it out here not to lend it some serious credence.


Well, I know I'm fake. I get told that over and over......



I'm frequently told I'm a "fat cunt". Is that supposed to be a bad thing?


Ooooh...tight...shweeeeet hey ? Once saw a profile of a woman claimed 175 lbs and I swear I couldn't find it all in her one pic and thought her sexy alright.

First words in her profile...'I know I am fat and I am working on it.' I think profilers at least too many, are either on the offensive or the defensive.

We all must look first for a middle ground on what we share. Some are too eager to take the time or see little future in your profile...to invest in it.

So yes, all of these sites as I've said, are...profile sensitive and mine is certainly no winner but am by now...beyond all of that. Maybe someday.

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 6:41:36 AM   
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I think that when one first approaches a woman, here as elsewhere, one has to develop the language of gentleness, sensitivity, and poetry. One has to tease, gently; joke and make the lady smile with one's finest language of romance and seduction. That is the art of Love; it has been thus for an eternity, and it will always be thus. It beats the hot steaming shit out of me why more men don't understand that, to be honest.


Peon, you could not be more right, and I adore you for saying so. There is no quicker way to disarm and open me. Pity so few understand or ever learn how to navigate in such a way.


Thanks, Dusky. But you did read the last line, didn't you?


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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 7:25:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you again for all further contributions, this side of the site certainly seems better.

Kalikshama, I have taken your other suggestions on board and will be looking into them. Taking baby steps myself really!!

Poise, thanks this is a good point. Having looked at quite a few profiles, perhaps because BDSM is really only in the hinterland of my interest, as opposed to a real lifestyle choice or looking for a one to one thing, then I wonder if this site is really going to work for me in that sense. Certainly a train of thought I was pursuing after reading the initial replies to my post and one I will have to have a serious think about...

Thank you also to other posters who I have not named (this really is like an Oscar speech now) who have reiterated what others have suggested. Your contributions are welcome and greatly appreciated.

You lot here really are quite nice, aren't you!! (that is British understatement in case it doesn't come across!!).

Wishing you all a great weekend.

Oh, nearly forgot, "Scrotum Worship" will be my phrase for the weekend. I wonder if it's too late for it to become an Olympic sport? Mmm...

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 8:07:58 AM   
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You lot here really are quite nice, aren't you!! (that is British understatement in case it doesn't come across!!).

Wishing you all a great weekend.

Oh, nearly forgot, "Scrotum Worship" will be my phrase for the weekend. I wonder if it's too late for it to become an Olympic sport? Mmm...


No, we're not that nice Mr W, we're a very judgemental lot here.

You passed muster, that's all.


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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 8:14:37 AM   
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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 12:55:02 PM   
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And sadist subs? Ha, ha, could be interesing!

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 2:24:39 PM   
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I think that when one first approaches a woman, here as elsewhere, one has to develop the language of gentleness, sensitivity, and poetry. One has to tease, gently; joke and make the lady smile with one's finest language of romance and seduction. That is the art of Love; it has been thus for an eternity, and it will always be thus. It beats the hot steaming shit out of me why more men don't understand that, to be honest.

I have to admit that I've had pretty good luck my whole life with women over the age of 30 simply by being genuine, honest, and more interested in getting into their mind than their pants.


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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 6:36:23 PM   
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Seriously, would somebody *please* pick me up on the point that I talk about using one's most refined and poetic language when first approaching a Lady - but then I use the phrase "hot steaming shit"? *Please*? I'm getting a bit dejected here, I have to say. I mean, a simple 'LOL' would help.

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 6:39:17 PM   
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Really, you should stop taking Peon seriously, he's taking the piss half the time he posts, and just being plain silly the rest of the time!

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 6:41:37 PM   
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Seriously, would somebody *please* pick me up on the point that I talk about using one's most refined and poetic language when first approaching a Lady - but then I use the phrase "hot steaming shit"? *Please*? I'm getting a bit dejected here, I have to say. I mean, a simple 'LOL' would help.


But but... your not funny, if I "lol'ed" it would be a lie...
you don't want me to lie do you?

-ARIES

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 6:44:14 PM   
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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 6:45:57 PM   
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But but... your not funny, if I "lol'ed" it would be a lie...
you don't want me to lie do you?

-ARIES


Yes, I *do* want you to lie to me. Get a grip - I was talking about romance. Any other questions?

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 6:47:52 PM   
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Thank you, Lady Hib. You are as an iridescent, heaven-inspired opal in a grey and barren miasma to me, with really excellent norks, as well. :-)


Am I still a diamond, too? ;)

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 7:12:16 PM   
ARIES83


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But but... your not funny, if I "lol'ed" it would be a lie...
you don't want me to lie do you?

-ARIES


Yes, I *do* want you to lie to me. Get a grip - I was talking about romance. Any other questions?

Sorry mate, can't do that. You will have to up your
comedy game, as for the romance ha! my way into
a girls pants isn't to kiss their ass with compliments.
The way into their pants is ABS! and you know dam
well it is!

-ARIES

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 7:16:59 PM   
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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 8:49:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: Duskypearls


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I think that when one first approaches a woman, here as elsewhere, one has to develop the language of gentleness, sensitivity, and poetry. One has to tease, gently; joke and make the lady smile with one's finest language of romance and seduction. That is the art of Love; it has been thus for an eternity, and it will always be thus. It beats the hot steaming shit out of me why more men don't understand that, to be honest.


Peon, you could not be more right, and I adore you for saying so. There is no quicker way to disarm and open me. Pity so few understand or ever learn how to navigate in such a way.


Thanks, Dusky. But you did read the last line, didn't you?



I did, darlin', why? I see nothing there to invalidate what came before it. We're all entitled to a well-timed and well-placed epithet. And anyhow, we all know everything about you is hot and steamy, no?

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RE: Initial email approach - 7/27/2012 8:50:28 PM   
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