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Are dominants "allowed" to cry?


No, dominants are like super heros. You never see them cry do you.
  10% (9)
Yes, dominants are still humans and humans get upset sometimes.
  55% (48)
I don't care if she cries I just don't want to see it happen.
  2% (2)
Maybe sometimes if it is over something important.
  6% (6)
Sure, it is kind of sexy to get to see the other side.
  2% (2)
No, but I only say that because it hurts me to see her upset.
  3% (3)
I agree with you saying he needs beat with a hammer.
  18% (16)


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Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 2:09:51 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		I'm pretty damn sure I know the answer to this question but it keeps bringing up an arguement with someone I know that firmly believes a sub should never see his lady cry. That it is a sign of weakness and that she is not really a dominant. Personally I think he needs beat in the face with a hammer for thinking a title can remove human emotion but I would like all of you to chime in with what you think as well.

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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 2:12:20 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		yes along with every other human being on the planet. Personally if I never saw my Dom cry I would be concerned that he was emotionless and cold which is not something I want in a man.

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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 2:12:59 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Wow. Anyone who thinks he can get through our life together with me never showing emotion, especially crying, had better just GTFO right now.



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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 2:14:07 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 2:23:06 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

yes along with every other human being on the planet. Personally if I never saw my Dom cry I would be concerned that he was emotionless and cold which is not something I want in a man.


This exactly.


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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 2:24:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I thought I did. And I think I should have made the title is dominant allowed to cry seeing as little wonder pointed out that she expects to even see a man cry from time to time.

Anyone know how to change it?

errrm Never mind. I should pay attention to the button that says edit :|

< Message edited by MissImmortalPain -- 7/26/2012 2:25:37 PM >

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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 2:30:59 PM   
Lucylastic


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Status: offline 		And hes gonna stop us crying how??
I dont cry often, but when I do, there's a reason, I want him to be able to understand and react accordingly
I dont cry and then deny tho...

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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 4:14:38 PM   
CRYPTICLXVI


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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 4:16:05 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:08:07 PM   
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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:09:54 PM   
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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:11:55 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I even have several hammers.

And a big sledge hammer.

And a splitting maul.

And an axe or two.

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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:15:27 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:19:44 PM   
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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:27:17 PM   
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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:36:13 PM   
ReMakeYou


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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:39:11 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		It takes a greater strength of Dominance to be able to have emotions, know how to express them freely, and the power to be a whole human being as yourself than any fucked up/trumped up stereotype. I would never want somebody who couldn't accept Me as a whole person, Myself, rather than who *he* wanted Me to be.



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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:39:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Crying is a human trait, beating with hammers is a fun trait, and I am a fun girl.

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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 7:40:43 PM   
CRYPTICLXVI


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Crying is a human trait, beating with hammers is a fun trait, and I am a fun girl.


I knew I liked you K... hellyeah!

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RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? - 7/26/2012 9:28:07 PM   
Winterapple


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Status: offline 		Dominants, male and female, are allowed to cry.
I would be upset if I saw my Dom cry not because
he was crying but because something had
happened to upset him. Doms can cry when
Old Yeller dies, when their kid graduates,
when music or art moves them and any
number of other things with their domliness
in tact.
There are all sorts of situations in life
where if a person didn't cry or get teary
you'd wonder what the hell was wrong
with them.

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