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Are dominants "allowed" to cry?

No, dominants are like super heros. You never see them cry do you.

10% (9)

Yes, dominants are still humans and humans get upset sometimes.

55% (48)

I don't care if she cries I just don't want to see it happen.

2% (2)

Maybe sometimes if it is over something important.

6% (6)

Sure, it is kind of sexy to get to see the other side.

2% (2)

No, but I only say that because it hurts me to see her upset.

3% (3)

I agree with you saying he needs beat with a hammer.

18% (16)

Total Votes : 86

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RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 9/8/2012 8:06:46 PM

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So far, something new everday on this site.As a Master I've been raise not to cry , yet I've got my limits that require a salty, wet release across my face. Not to say it can't be brought about by various methods. I agree we are all human, though some of us are less Human than others.

Prynsin

Wow, no wonder I have issues... my parent's raised me as a boy, even a child and not a Master... dammit, I was fucking doomed from the very beginning. The bastards!!!

I now hate my parents for setting these roadblocks before me...

But the real question is, are you CRYING because you now hate your parents for setting the roadblocks? After all, it's the sort of thing to be expected of someone who was not raised to be a Master.

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RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 9/8/2012 8:07:02 PM

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less humans then others....?

Wait, are you saying there's people actually mutating or something? Getting antlers or maybe, humans with unicorns?

*Gasp*

*grabs the camera*

Where ? WHERE I ASK YOU?!?!

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RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 9/8/2012 8:08:18 PM

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OMG

*falls over*

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RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 9/8/2012 8:09:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: SlipSlidingAway

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ORIGINAL: CRYPTICLXVI

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ORIGINAL: slaneeshianpryns

So far, something new everday on this site.As a Master I've been raise not to cry , yet I've got my limits that require a salty, wet release across my face. Not to say it can't be brought about by various methods. I agree we are all human, though some of us are less Human than others.

Prynsin

Wow, no wonder I have issues... my parent's raised me as a boy, even a child and not a Master... dammit, I was fucking doomed from the very beginning. The bastards!!!

I now hate my parents for setting these roadblocks before me...

But the real question is, are you CRYING because you now hate your parents for setting the roadblocks? After all, it's the sort of thing to be expected of someone who was not raised to be a Master.

I know... the ex-sub even had screamed at me once that "You are not a real dominant."

Not a real dominant, not raised as a true master, I am all types of fucked up... better tell DeviD there are fucking red flags all over the place and run like hell!!!

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RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 9/8/2012 8:13:00 PM

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RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 9/8/2012 10:36:48 PM

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I'm pretty damn sure I know the answer to this question but it keeps bringing up an arguement with someone I know that firmly believes a sub should never see his lady cry. That it is a sign of weakness and that she is not really a dominant. Personally I think he needs beat in the face with a hammer for thinking a title can remove human emotion but I would like all of you to chime in with what you think as well.

Ahh. So you mean domme. The rules for men and women are not exactly the same. People cry because of an overflow of strong emotions. What does it say about you if you cry all the time?

"On the day the army is ordered to make a decisive battle, soldiers may sit crying with tears wetting their garments, some may lie down there with tears flowing down their cheeks*. But if you throw them into a position where there is no way for them to retreat, they will be undaunted, as brave as Zhuan Zhu or Cao Gui*." Sun Tzu

* Soldiers weep because they are so stirred.
* Zhuan Zhu: a famous hero in the Spring and Autumn Period; Cao Gui: another famous hero in the same period.

People cry sometimes.

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RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 9/8/2012 11:16:43 PM

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I vote we're superheroes.

But don't let that stop you from bashing him with a hammer, though perhaps one might want to aim for something other than the face. The police always get miffed about that. They much prefer when the hammer has been applied everywhere else. Makes identifying a former moron a lot easier.

LaTigresse put it perfectly in post #26. There are times when it's inappropriate to cry, and the impetus to do so may not persist till the appropriate time arrives, but there's no inherent problem in crying. To occasionally cry from anger is also familiar, and one can use either to defuse the other (crying to bleed off adrenaline, for instance, is an undervalued technique among men, it seems, while using anger to shield against- or buffer off- grief appears overvalued).

That someone doesn't get it, indicates they have an unrealistic stereotype in mind. Education and remediation can be effected by keeping them in a drawer, neatly folded, when one isn't enjoying the perks of the stereotype of an unmovable, inhuman monster. Almost invariably, they will discover a preference for a real human with emotions and inhibitions in no time at all.

Instructive Domme: "Is this really what you were looking for?"
Enlightened Sub: "(sob) No-ow, bifftweff. (sob)"

Or the equivalent in written form, using a pen taped to whichever limb has some remaining mobility.

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RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 9/10/2012 1:46:55 PM

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Yes, they're "allowed", and when it happens, it's powerful.

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RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? - 10/31/2012 1:58:33 PM

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It is NOT a sign of weakness to cry. It is a sign of good mental health to cry when there is reason to. There are in fact toxins that are only released from the body through tears.

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