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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 7:16:54 AM

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I so love you, Sunny....

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 7:31:13 AM

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Great post sunshinemiss :)

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 7:48:02 AM

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yeah... and you masturbate a lot.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 7:48:36 AM

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Yep I can, and at the moment I have. I am pregnant and my husband is scared of doing anything to hurt our baby. So we have left all kinkiness behind until baby is here and I am healed. It was sad watching him actually packing away our toys. I am still submissive simply because that is who I am.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 7:49:58 AM

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Hmm...

My fetishes aren't my life, they're a part of it, albeit an important part.

But so is Sailing, walking, reading.

Could I live without books, sure. But if I was obliged to live without books, despite being right next door to a library... that would burn.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 7:58:34 AM

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yeah... and you masturbate a lot.

There is some truth to missing what I don't have. But if I focus on that, I'll be miserable. Not really my cup of tea, misery.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 8:02:02 AM

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Hmm...

My fetishes aren't my life, they're a part of it, albeit an important part.

But so is Sailing, walking, reading.

Could I live without books, sure. But if I was obliged to live without books, despite being right next door to a library... that would burn.

I love that. Right there.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 10:24:08 AM

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Crazy. Are you being meen to my HHH? Because I will cut a bitch, just saying.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 11:41:40 AM

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nah and don't wanna

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 11:49:40 AM

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nah and don't wanna

please learn to use the QUOTE function.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 11:57:48 AM

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Hey! She wouldn't change me.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 12:07:53 PM

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Can you wash it from your mind and set yourself free?

I am already free. Doing what I do is what allows me to be free. So why would I want to do away with it and cage myself?

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RE: Can you live without it? - 7/31/2012 12:09:00 PM

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Hey! She wouldn't change me.

Wouldn't change you to what?

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RE: Can you live without it? - 8/1/2012 8:32:00 AM

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As someone who has been into the spanking fetish for as long back as I can remember, I know exactly how it fills my daydreams and idle hours. In the past, I have tried to live without it. To cast the monkey off my back and embrace the vanilla world. My efforts were far from successful.

Do you think that you could leave whatever fetish you have behind? Can you wash it from your mind and set yourself free? Or are you a slave (pun intended) to the desires that are tattooed onto your psyche?

Some of my fetishes and fetish interests (like feet, bondage, domination, capture, control) go back to my earliest memories, from long before I knew or understood the sexual element, and I spent many years of anguish over my "enslavement", and tried plenty of times to set myself free, after all I'm a Dominant, very much into control. At our inner core we contain our opposite, though, it is what allows us to relate to our flip-side.
But it was all only ever denial (and not the river in Africa), and often, while I was playing "vanilla", I would simply find myself fantasizing about my true interests anyway.
By the time I was in college, I deliberately majored in Psychology, studied up on the load of claptrap around this sort of thing and came to own and fully accept myself as I am, garnering a whole lot more BDSM interests along the way, since then I have picked up quite a few more, I indulge myself in them any time I get the chance, they are erotic, arousing, exciting, fulfilling, the best!

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RE: Can you live without it? - 8/1/2012 10:17:53 AM

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I entered into CM because even though I had never experienced them, I had some BDSM-y desires.

What I discovered via meeting [my] Master was far beyond any of the experiences I had with my first encounters.

D/s with Him has become more important than any of my fetishes.
[My] love for Him is such that were He to suddenly turn vanilla (which given His personality I don't think will happen), I would still want to be in a relationship with Him.

And should this relationship end, I don't think I will seek another.

Why?
Because the context of specificity has become very important to me.
The specific dynamic I have with Him.

Without it, none of the kink would matter now.
No fetishes are as important.

What matters to me is that He has become [my] Master and I don't see myself giving that title to anyone else.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 8/1/2012 10:48:15 AM

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Hey! She wouldn't change me.

Wouldn't change you to what?

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RE: Can you live without it? - 8/1/2012 10:54:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

I entered into CM because even though I had never experienced them, I had some BDSM-y desires.

What I discovered via meeting [my] Master was far beyond any of the experiences I had with my first encounters.

D/s with Him has become more important than any of my fetishes.
[My] love for Him is such that were He to suddenly turn vanilla (which given His personality I don't think will happen), I would still want to be in a relationship with Him.

And should this relationship end, I don't think I will seek another.

Why?
Because the context of specificity has become very important to me.
The specific dynamic I have with Him.

Without it, none of the kink would matter now.
No fetishes are as important.

What matters to me is that He has become [my] Master and I don't see myself giving that title to anyone else.

Are you sure you ain't the lilone in a sockpuppet?

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Because this sounds exactly like how some of our private conversations go...

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RE: Can you live without it? - 8/1/2012 10:56:57 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

I entered into CM because even though I had never experienced them, I had some BDSM-y desires.

What I discovered via meeting [my] Master was far beyond any of the experiences I had with my first encounters.

D/s with Him has become more important than any of my fetishes.
[My] love for Him is such that were He to suddenly turn vanilla (which given His personality I don't think will happen), I would still want to be in a relationship with Him.

And should this relationship end, I don't think I will seek another.

Why?
Because the context of specificity has become very important to me.
The specific dynamic I have with Him.

Without it, none of the kink would matter now.
No fetishes are as important.

What matters to me is that He has become [my] Master and I don't see myself giving that title to anyone else.

Are you sure you ain't the lilone in a sockpuppet?

Grins
Because this sounds exactly like how some of our private conversations go...

I will take that as a compliment!
Thank you, Kana.

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RE: Can you live without it? - 8/1/2012 9:09:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

I entered into CM because even though I had never experienced them, I had some BDSM-y desires.

What I discovered via meeting [my] Master was far beyond any of the experiences I had with my first encounters.

D/s with Him has become more important than any of my fetishes.
[My] love for Him is such that were He to suddenly turn vanilla (which given His personality I don't think will happen), I would still want to be in a relationship with Him.

And should this relationship end, I don't think I will seek another.

Why?
Because the context of specificity has become very important to me.
The specific dynamic I have with Him.

Without it, none of the kink would matter now.
No fetishes are as important.

What matters to me is that He has become [my] Master and I don't see myself giving that title to anyone else.

Are you sure you ain't the lilone in a sockpuppet?

Grins
Because this sounds exactly like how some of our private conversations go...

lol..that does sound like our conversations. You've ruined me for all other men!

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RE: Can you live without it? - 8/1/2012 9:21:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

I entered into CM because even though I had never experienced them, I had some BDSM-y desires.

What I discovered via meeting [my] Master was far beyond any of the experiences I had with my first encounters.

D/s with Him has become more important than any of my fetishes.
[My] love for Him is such that were He to suddenly turn vanilla (which given His personality I don't think will happen), I would still want to be in a relationship with Him.

And should this relationship end, I don't think I will seek another.

Why?
Because the context of specificity has become very important to me.
The specific dynamic I have with Him.

Without it, none of the kink would matter now.
No fetishes are as important.

What matters to me is that He has become [my] Master and I don't see myself giving that title to anyone else.

Are you sure you ain't the lilone in a sockpuppet?

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Because this sounds exactly like how some of our private conversations go...

lol..that does sound like our conversations. You've ruined me for all other men!

I understand (and fully appreciate) that feeling!

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