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marieToo -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 8:49:08 PM)

LnM:

Thank you very much. [:)]




RiotGirl -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:09:10 PM)

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Well, those are a lot of interesting responses, and I'm hearing from a few people that the way the world is being visibly mismanaged must have something to do with what's going on. That was my suspicion too. There are always going to be differences of opinion; there's always going to be hatred and intolerance; but I've noticed that just coexisting peacefully seems harder today in the U.S. than it did ten years ago.


just to screw with you some more.. this one could give two whits over a rolling donut about the mismanagement of the world.  Its been mismanaged for a long time.. will be for a long time.  Goverment screwing us over?  Cops screwing us over?  Religion screwing us over?  Money being taken from us?  Money ill spent?  Roman's going around making slaves out of other societies? 

Heck.  The world's been screwed for as long as its been around.. and it will be.  Couldnt ever figure out where all the "Suprise" and "shock" from others came from.  Its a fact of life.  Just like the folk that gotten eaten by a couple of gators.  Heck ppl, it happens.  Ppl die.  The world is about money and nobody is ever fucking straight up.  Evil runs rampant and the world is going to hell.  Why are ppl so stunned?  Stunned enough to be upset?  Did you all like just walk out of Fairytopia or something?  Might find some understanding then.  Whats that chicks name.. the girl that was like on life support that her husband wanted to take away and the family didnt?  Seemed the whole world was outraged.. such a controversy.  Whats the big deal?

Do ppl not die every day?  Are ppl not murdered every day?  Does our goverment follow its own laws?  Nooooooooo  So another one bites the dust.  Does anyone ever contemplate that mass amounts of ppl DAILY are murdered/killed?  It.. um.. happens.  The world is a fucked up place to live in and i've known that for eons.  Are you all like slowly lagging behind.. catching up or something?  Aye, its abit disapointing, but take heart its been this way for eons.  Doubt its any worse eons ago when kids in scotland where being kidnapped right out of their parents noses and sold off as indentured servants(slaves). 

Look.  The world is screwed.  People in general are screwed.  Thats just the way it is.  Our government really doesnt give two shits about the people either.. it cares about money.  Thats what politics are about.  Not all this flowery bullshit.. its about money.  How each politican can get more money in his or her own pocket.  Everything is about money.  People are inherently screwed.  And its not more money for you.. or the common ppl.. its for them.  Thats all they care about.  Just cos their in some high official place does not exclude them from the human race.  They are human after all and humans.. people in general.. are all about themselves.  So much so, they usually dont give a fuck who they hurt or what they have to do to get what they want. 

want your car.. they'll blow your head off for it..

you get the point aye?  Yeah its like "visible" now.  Thank God for that.  Tired of walking around spouting off and everyone not having a fucking clue and looking at me like i've lost my mind.  One of the better days, was when that girl, whats her face.. they decided to pull the plug and my mother was shocked.  My oh so goverment, high ranking officalized mother.  It was about time for her to finally catch a clue.  The goverment doesnt fucking care.  ITS ABOUT MONEY.  yet not for you.  Been saying for years upon years now.. that the goverment is just a legalized form of the mafia.  And its damn true.  Nobody gives a fuck about you.  The world in general really doesnt.  They dont care who you are, where you come from, what you think or what you do.  They dont care.  Because the world isnt about you.. its about them.  The world, people, they care about themselves and could give two whits about you other then what your good for. 

an x.. who was british.. made an astonishing discovery when landing in the US and spending over a year here before he spouted it off  "all americans do is talk about themselves"  Like somebody cares. 

Get over it and move on.  Bush sucks.. so what.  The war sucks.. so what.  things suck so what.  Whatcha gonna do about it?  Anything other then sit on a damn forum and bitch?  Yeahhhhhhh.. go out and try and do something about it.  LOL  It wont happen.  Nobody cares. 

Just sick of hearing about ppl whinge about the world.  No anger here.. just rage - let out in small amounts so as to not eventually explode and move the world forward towards armagedeon = )  la la lalalalalaaaaaaaaaaaa rofl





juliaoceania -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:15:59 PM)

Like aileen says... I need to get laid...lol




pahunkboy -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:18:18 PM)

Cool post.  Hardened, but true.

[gasps about the cops part...lolol]




Evanesce -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:19:39 PM)

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What are all these viewpoints and opinions that people are wrongly labeling as intolerant?


Well, I was recently labeled "clueless" for holding the opinion that "safe calls" aren't nearly as effective in terms of preventing someone from being harmed as many people seem to think they are.




Kedikat -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:23:24 PM)

Besides my other post here.
I think we have been sold the concept of entitelment/number one/survival of the fittest. The only time I pay attention to advertiseing is to see how the particular ad is trying to play me. They all use psychology. So much of it is eiter praying on our self doubts, or stroking our egos. You deserve this, or you are not up to par without this.
But for luxury items we are told we are so great, we deserve the greatest toy. In other aspects of life we are told we are great despite any effort to achieve it or evidence to the contrary.
Our egos are inflated to a fragile level. And on the other hand, always subtly assailed.
Anything that is contrast to us is an attack on our fragile ego. So we counter attack. And is so often evident in our 24/7 media assault, it isn't content that matters. So any attack or counterattack is valid. Right or wrong is of no importance.

You are number one! Take all that is rightfully yours! lash out at any who might burst that thin bubble. You have the rights, with no obligations or work. Be all you can be, on credit.

On edit: Just this afternoon before writing this. I bought a widescreen TV on payments. GUILTY! But at least aware and admitting of it.




ArtCatDom -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:25:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

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PMS I agree with the ladies. No one is getting laid enough and they all have PMS. even the guys LOL


GOOD LORD whats all the hype about when it comes to getting laid.  God gave every human being two hands.. twice the fun eh? 



Enough Yoga and it's triple the fun!! [:D]

*meow*




ArtCatDom -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:28:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

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LaM said:  Why is everyone so angry . . .  


Take your pick:

1.  George Bush.

2.   This country has too many goddamn .... (insert your favorite ethnic group, gender, sexual preference or animal, here).

3.  You can't get a nice clean fuck without first taking a blood test, a background check and signing a waiver of liability.

4.   Lawyers.

5.   Voyeurs.

6.   We STILL don't have the flying car!

7.   Iraq.

8.   Brittany Spears.

9.   I'm STILL mad as hell and I'm not going to take it any more. (Peter Finch, R.I.P.)

10. Gasoline north of $3.00/gallon by September 1.

GO AHEAD, ADD YOUR OWN.

I need a drink. --- E.


11. Tom Cruise won't come out of the closet. (Or that fruity little club.)

12. Neither I, nor no one I know ever wins the lottery.

13. Utility companies insist we pay bills. The greedy bastards!

14. Shoes never get comfortable until they're at the point where it's time for a new pair.

*meow*




ArtCatDom -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:33:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Yes, they are calling it "intermittent explosive disorder".  Will it be added to the DSM?


*flips out in a rage throwing cybspacian electrons in a terrible tantrum of fury and petulance*

I hope so ... I need those meds soon ... one day we'll have a med for everything! A pill for anger! A pill for boredom! A pill for penis malfunc... wait we have that one.

*meow*




RiotGirl -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:45:32 PM)

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Cool post. Hardened, but true.

[gasps about the cops part...lolol]


lol trying to get a rant going on about cops?  Damn the cops generally.  Seems all the men with little penis's had to go become a cop to make up for it.  Learned long ago that the cops would rather shoot your cat outta tree then help get it down.  Drives Master nuts how one feels about the police.  When one has had to beg the cops to do something about something clearly illegal.. or one has had to beg cops to Not send a 16 year old home with her mother (mind we showed the cops the lump on the girls forhead from when i had to forcefully stop the mother from attacking the girl, in my god damn apartment) and the cops said "well we're gonna send her home with her mom, we dont want to deal with it"  Like WTF?  Or one has literally seen cops lie through their teeth on the stand.

Screw em.  Thought we had a break in the other day.  Heard running across the roof, the dog went ape nuts.. scared the living hell out of moi.  Think the cops were called?  Naaaaaah.. no need, had some one pull a 9.  Much safer lol

Tho did have 2 good experiences with em in this life.  Generally they're just overly power hungry fools.  They did a study some university once.  Half a class was inmates, the other half gaurds.  Then it was switched.  No matter which side was inmates.. it all went the same way.  Ja know, cops have the power to destroy your life if they so choose.  At a moments notice even.  Why on earth, would anyone trust anyone.. let alone be around some one who has so much power they could ruin, literally, the rest of your life?  False charges, convictions arent like all that rare.  Neither is death really.  Hell i watched a cop screw my best friend.. who was 17 at the local park once.....  slut that she is [:D]




RiotGirl -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:46:55 PM)

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*flips out in a rage throwing cybspacian electrons in a terrible tantrum of fury and petulance*

I hope so ... I need those meds soon ... one day we'll have a med for everything! A pill for anger! A pill for boredom! A pill for penis malfunc... wait we have that one.

*meow*


when they gonna come out with the pill they had in Brave New World?




TolerableCruelty -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 10:47:37 PM)

I think we're just all misunderstood...

how about a group hug ?

T.R.




Kedikat -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 11:02:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

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  Nobody gives a fuck about you.  The world in general really doesnt.  They dont care who you are, where you come from, what you think or what you do.  They dont care.  Because the world isnt about you.. its about them.  The world, people, they care about themselves and could give two whits about you other then what your good for. 


I deleted a lot. But I do think that in general the majority of the world does care. They just don't know how much power they really have. They have been numbed to believe they have none. They know that to make it better that they have to care about each other. But feel it doesn't matter or work. But it does and it can. The tiniest minority make the rules through the power we let them have. With a communal casual shrug, we could shake the leeches off.

The time is coming round again that it will happen. The minority has put the majority into such a state of stress and hopelesness that the big bitch slap will happen. It has over and over again through history. The powerful forget the responsibility and wisdom it takes to keep it. The giant mass of the powerless see the power left unattended. They take it back for a while, then get as lazy and complacent as the powerful.

The majority knows in their bones it is a world where it takes the many to make a go of it. Individual effort moves us ahead, the majority works to keep us there. Some manipulate it to the detriment of all.

Vive la revolution, the sequel Part Etc......Coming soon to a society near you.




MistressLorelei -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 11:27:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Kedikat

I deleted a lot. But I do think that in general the majority of the world does care. They just don't know how much power they really have. They have been numbed to believe they have none. They know that to make it better that they have to care about each other. But feel it doesn't matter or work. But it does and it can. The tiniest minority make the rules through the power we let them have. With a communal casual shrug, we could shake the leeches off.

The time is coming round again that it will happen. The minority has put the majority into such a state of stress and hopelesness that the big bitch slap will happen. It has over and over again through history. The powerful forget the responsibility and wisdom it takes to keep it. The giant mass of the powerless see the power left unattended. They take it back for a while, then get as lazy and complacent as the powerful.

The majority knows in their bones it is a world where it takes the many to make a go of it. Individual effort moves us ahead, the majority works to keep us there. Some manipulate it to the detriment of all.

Vive la revolution, the sequel Part Etc......Coming soon to a society near you.



I don't know... I think people, in general care about just a few people, and they disregard the rest.  People will do anything for a few and nothing for many.  We live in a society where we are made to feel unimportant by most.  Your boss cares more about profit than his employees, your doctor makes you wait in a waiting room for hours, the guy at the mall just stole your parking space, and the mall store just charged you 10 times what your purchase was worth.  You waited an hour to get a table at a restaurant, and the waiter screwed up your order. 

I have been to church a few times with friends....  and found it ironic how everyone exchanged lovely 'peace be with you's, and then when church was over, the parking lot was road rage central.

If people aren't made to feel loved by a few who would give their left kidney to them.... they don't learn to love themselves. These people aren't going to give a rat's ass about anyone else. Most people who 'hate', hate themselves first and foremost.




Lordandmaster -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 11:34:12 PM)

RiotGirl--Actually, I agree with most of what you're saying.  I'm asking why people are so pissed off these days, and I think at least part of the answer can be found in posts like yours.




BreakMeShakeMe -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 11:43:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I've been on Collarme for about two years.  Some people have been on here longer than that.  I have about 3,500 posts.  A few people have more than that.  But I've been here longer than most and have posted more than most.  And I've observed something lately.

People seem to be fucking ANGRY.  I don't understand it.  Why is everyone so angry, and where is all the intolerance coming from?  Every other thread seems to be about race or immigrants.  When it's not about that, it's usually some soap opera about a couple or a threesome that no one actually knows, but how they're doing something that's atrocious and horrible, and why they all need to be hanged by the balls for it.  Yeah, we always had people who thought their way was the only way; we always had people who went out of their way to offend everyone--but lately it's just gotten out of hand.  The threads go on and on, and eventually they just become mud-slinging contests.  Thirty pages about a household that no one even knows personally?  (That thread was finally pulled, thank God.)  Now page after page about political correctness?  Immigrants ordering in Spanish in a cheese steak joint?  Whether Jews are better lawyers or Chinese better wholesalers?

Look, if people enjoy arguing about this stuff, God bless, I'm not trying to start a revolution.  I contribute to those threads too.  I'd just like to understand where people get all the time and venom to expend condemning others on an ANONYMOUS INTERNET CHAT BOARD?  Why is everyone so upset?


LordandMaster... I really want to thank you for this post. When I joined CM back in Nov... it didn't take long for others to flame in my first post about a small problem I had with being new to CM and having  a dom try to get me to submit right away. All I tried to do was be polite and what I considered respectful... till the time came to be ugly. I had only been on here for less than 48 hours and didn't know about the block features. (Learned to love that sucker now though...lol)

Anyways... after the first few weeks. I noticed a change coming over me that really I didn't like.. trying to fit in on these boards. Then I noticed that no matter what I said...I was wrong. Or how I said it was wrong. Even though it was my own personal views on things.. I was always wrong. And mostly because I might of said "we" or "us" instead of "I".  So it got to the point I did start getting angered over being flamed because someone wth more education... (or so they like others to think they have) didn't like my wording. So I finally decided if you don't like the way I talk.. tuff. Can't say I like that attitude anymore than the other either.

But as to your statement of intolerance... I got hit with it like a brick wall. Over the past 7 months on here... I've been inlightened.. changed my tune somewhat... but I had lost track of ME... trying to make others more happier with my postings. Now that I've found me again...and so don't care what others like or not about my postings... i'm happier with myself on here again. I still try to be respectful of others... but i'm on here to meet and chat and debate with new people...and have some fun.... not let some Proper protocol... or politically correct twit ......spoil my fun no more.

When I screw up... I own up to it...and have publically in post on threads where I screwed up.  And when I feel I'm not in the wrong... I stand up for myself in that aspects as well. I'll be the first to admit i'm not highly educated... I'm schooled... i'm an ex trucker with a I don't give a damn attitude. I'm highly street smart and educated in survival. I don't need nor want someone coming along who thinks they're better than me... trying to tell me I'm wrong everytime I turn around. I don't when I think they're wrong.. I look at their opinions.... see how they think about it... and agree to disagree.

Yep there was a time on here I didn't. But thanks to you...and a few other long time CM members... I do go outta my way to make sure my wording is more acceptable. But thanks to you...and a few others... I can still post my opinion...and not worry about offending someone... because they disagree with me. I just smile and go about my business. That... I learned from you...and Misstress...and MHOO. The 3 of you taught me when to back down... before it becomes a flame war. And not be suckered into one either. So now i'm more picky about the threads I do post in.

So again I thank you... you really said on your OP alot that I had been thinking of lately. And it makes me know... others see it as well.

Have a great summer... and may you and yours be safe.... and happy always...

Jessica




BitaTruble -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/9/2006 11:47:01 PM)

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I hope so ... I need those meds soon ... one day we'll have a med for everything! A pill for anger! A pill for boredom! A pill for penis malfunc... wait we have that one.

*meow*


::takes notes:: OK, we need some Xanax for Art and some Xtacy should alleviate the boredom. Viagra or Cialis? Have a preference? Perhaps some Levitra?

Oh.. and some Soma for Riot.

That should do it.

Now, there are two less angry people.. but..

I still have fucking menopause.. so I'm planning on being pissed off until 2010 at least.

[;)]

Celeste




mgdartist -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/10/2006 12:07:43 AM)

well it's been made obvious to me no one here really cares what a noobie thinks, nonetheless...
I never dreamed till i came here that the bdsm community would be so pacifistic in general. The original posters lament actually surprised me. I like to keep it real in everyday life, and am the kind of guy people think is dour, and maybe unhappy. While im not really, i do detest pleasantries, and have been known to say, when casually asked how i'm doing; "halfway shitty" Anyone who knows me knows thats my backhanded sarcastic way of saying im allright, while rebuking them for again daring to insult me with their tired pleasantries. They don't really care how i am most of the time, and if they really did, sure coulda fooled me.. My best friend in the world is so, because whenever he calls, the first thing i hear is "hey dickhead" such realness and bland impoliteness actually make my day. Why? because im so fucking sick and tired of people who are so fucking fakey-ass and nice all the time. Those with heavy cases of PMA can actually invoke me into being abusive if im not careful and get myself away from them asap. No, I don't win a lot of popularity awards, and most either love me or hate me, but i dont care.
I'm a dom. im sadistic (sometimes that means I'm mean as a snake) for real.
Deal ffs.
mgd




BitaTruble -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/10/2006 12:17:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mgdartist

well it's been made obvious to me no one here really cares what a noobie thinks, nonetheless...
I never dreamed till i came here that the bdsm community would be so pacifistic in general. The original posters lament actually surprised me. I like to keep it real in everyday life, and am the kind of guy people think is dour, and maybe unhappy. While im not really, i do detest pleasantries, and have been known to say, when casually asked how i'm doing; "halfway shitty" Anyone who knows me knows thats my backhanded sarcastic way of saying im allright, while rebuking them for again daring to insult me with their tired pleasantries. They don't really care how i am most of the time, and if they really did, sure coulda fooled me.. My best friend in the world is so, because whenever he calls, the first thing i hear is "hey dickhead" such realness and bland impoliteness actually make my day. Why? because im so fucking sick and tired of people who are so fucking fakey-ass and nice all the time. Those with heavy cases of PMA can actually invoke me into being abusive if im not careful and get myself away from them asap. No, I don't win a lot of popularity awards, and most either love me or hate me, but i dont care.
I'm a dom. im sadistic (sometimes that means I'm mean as a snake) for real.
Deal ffs.
mgd



Maybe no one gives a shit what you think because of your fucked up, piss poor attitude. ::shrugs::

Have a nice day.

Celeste




mgdartist -> RE: Why are people so angry and hostile? (6/10/2006 12:25:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

ORIGINAL: mgdartist

well it's been made obvious to me no one here really cares what a noobie thinks, nonetheless...
I never dreamed till i came here that the bdsm community would be so pacifistic in general. The original posters lament actually surprised me. I like to keep it real in everyday life, and am the kind of guy people think is dour, and maybe unhappy. While im not really, i do detest pleasantries, and have been known to say, when casually asked how i'm doing; "halfway shitty" Anyone who knows me knows thats my backhanded sarcastic way of saying im allright, while rebuking them for again daring to insult me with their tired pleasantries. They don't really care how i am most of the time, and if they really did, sure coulda fooled me.. My best friend in the world is so, because whenever he calls, the first thing i hear is "hey dickhead" such realness and bland impoliteness actually make my day. Why? because im so fucking sick and tired of people who are so fucking fakey-ass and nice all the time. Those with heavy cases of PMA can actually invoke me into being abusive if im not careful and get myself away from them asap. No, I don't win a lot of popularity awards, and most either love me or hate me, but i dont care.
I'm a dom. im sadistic (sometimes that means I'm mean as a snake) for real.
Deal ffs.
mgd



Maybe no one gives a shit what you think because of your fucked up, piss poor attitude. ::shrugs::

Have a nice day.

Celeste


see, i like that.
you felt like saying something bitchy and did it.
i am definately starting to like you...
think i really have a fucked up, piss poor attitude?
darn.
[:D]
mgd




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