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OsideGirl -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:34:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita So, my "bad" and naive opinion takes away my right to post in this forum? quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita It's great that you have an opinion. In fact, everyone has one. Everyone also has an anus, and it emits fecalmatter. Much like your opinion. C: So, you're offended by someone saying pretty much the same thing you did.

LaTigresse -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:37:24 PM)
Fuck all..........I am a sin loving old bitch! BUT!!!! In my advanced years I have learned to...refine...my bitchiness. It is now a more of an artform, a talent. People actually PAY ME to be da delightfully bossy bitch that I am! Come hither little grasshopper and I will teach you my ways. Seriously chicky, you need to grow a lot longer fuse. Chill the fuck out. Right now you are bouncing off the walls like 10 kinds of attitudinal crazy. It ain't healthy.

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:37:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita My entire rant? Yeah, it was not aimed towards you. So your question aimed towards dominant men was not aimed at dominant men? quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita I could care less about whether or not Im your type. So again, despite the fact that you asked dominant men which type they prefer, you do not care about the answer a dominant man gives you about which type he prefers? quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita The entire point of this thread was to ask if Dominant men would or would not prefer a sub with a strong personality, or a sub who was bold and opinionated. Oh I see, but if a dominant man give you an answer you do not like to hear -that he does not like your type of "strong personality" you tell him that you don't care about what type you like. So in essence, you only want to hear from dominant men who DO prefer strong personalities, and you do not want the question about whether or not there are men out there who do NOT like strong personalities answered. quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita I was asking a very common question. If it's is such a common question, then how come did you not know the answer yet? And if you did know the answer, then why would you ask the question to begin with? Oh right, I forgot, you asked because you only wanted the answers of people that would tell you what you wanted to hear. And the fact that on this forum, you didn't get the standard cookie cutter answers you where expecting, annoyed you to no end. Because you weren't actually anticipating the fact that not everybody would kiss your ass, pat you on the head and tell you how wonderful it is that's you're a, ignorant willful opinionated brat, and that all the guys who figured that out and stayed the fuck away from you are morons. Good luck cupcake. I bet you'll eventually find a guy desperate enough that he'll put up with your passive aggressive attitude long enough to figure out that pussy isn't the end all be all he had though it to be either. I hope that by that time you've learned enough that maybe you'd be ready to relate to other people in a somewhat more mature, sane, and stable fashion, because you've realized that humanity's purpose isn't to cater to your spoiled ass.

LadyPact -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:38:32 PM)
For what it's worth...... You're not going to find a bigger elitist on these boards than Me. What you are saying about these other folks isn't deserved. Step back. Take a breath. I'll help you if I can. In the meantime, take an inventory and see if you need to adjust.

LolaLita -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:40:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita So, my "bad" and naive opinion takes away my right to post in this forum? quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita It's great that you have an opinion. In fact, everyone has one. Everyone also has an anus, and it emits fecalmatter. Much like your opinion. C: So, you're offended by someone saying pretty much the same thing you did. And the same can apply to my own opinion, to quite a few people, apparently.

ARIES83 -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:43:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact For what it's worth...... You're not going to find a bigger elitist on these boards than Me. What you are saying about these other folks isn't deserved. Step back. Take a breath. I'll help you if I can. In the meantime, take an inventory and see if you need to adjust. Qft

LolaLita -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:44:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact For what it's worth...... You're not going to find a bigger elitist on these boards than Me. What you are saying about these other folks isn't deserved. Step back. Take a breath. I'll help you if I can. In the meantime, take an inventory and see if you need to adjust. No one likes feeling attacked. They don't, and I don't. I should have perhaps stated my opinion with more eloquence, I acknowledge that. Sometimes, I come across as aggressive and rude without meaning to. But my intentions are usually good, until I feel threatened.

LolaLita -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:47:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact For what it's worth...... You're not going to find a bigger elitist on these boards than Me. What you are saying about these other folks isn't deserved. Step back. Take a breath. I'll help you if I can. In the meantime, take an inventory and see if you need to adjust. No one likes feeling attacked. They don't, and I don't. I should have perhaps stated my opinion with more eloquence, I acknowledge that. Sometimes, I come across as aggressive and rude without meaning to. But my intentions are usually good, until I feel threatened. I accidentally put my writing in the quote. -_- I'm not mad or upset, I'm just trying my best to state my opinion.

LaTigresse -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:49:07 PM)
Lola here's the dealio. NO ONE here is threatening you! Oh sure, some of us are harsher in conveying our thoughts than others but seriously, you won't find a better group of kinky fuckers, over all. There is one thing you need to learn that you haven't yet. If one person is saying you are being a rude twat and everyone else is saying the opposite, it's probably them that has the problem. If a whole bunch of people are saying similarly, that you are behaving poorly, then it is probably you! Pointing out some issues you could improve upon is sure as fuck not threatening. Come on, you live in shithole fucking Peoria. I've been there. I would think you know threatening when you see it. This place ain't Peoria.

mnottertail -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:54:34 PM)
Now wait a minute here LT. I am considering threatening her, she piques my interest in a very fucking sick sort of way.

LadyPact -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:56:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact For what it's worth...... You're not going to find a bigger elitist on these boards than Me. What you are saying about these other folks isn't deserved. Step back. Take a breath. I'll help you if I can. In the meantime, take an inventory and see if you need to adjust. No one likes feeling attacked. They don't, and I don't. I should have perhaps stated my opinion with more eloquence, I acknowledge that. Sometimes, I come across as aggressive and rude without meaning to. But my intentions are usually good, until I feel threatened. Yeah, I fuck up a lot of times with words, too. Quite often, when I notice that I have an opinion of one, I'm probably wrong. There's no shame in that. We can't be right all of the time. You don't know Me from Adam's off ox. Take My word or don't. It's up to you. Some of the people on this thread straighten My ass out when it's crooked. Sometimes, listening, rather than talking, is how we grow. I haven't read this whole thread, but I've seen some glimpses. With no offense intended, My intuition says that you should sit down, shut up, and pay attention. Don't react. Just think for a while. And, if when that's done, I'll still be here if you'd like to argue.

LolaLita -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:56:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Lola here's the dealio. NO ONE here is threatening you! Oh sure, some of us are harsher in conveying our thoughts than others but seriously, you won't find a better group of kinky fuckers, over all.y There is one thing you need to learn that you haven't yet. If one person is saying you are being a rude twat and everyone else is saying the opposite, it's probably them that has the problem. If a whole bunch of people are saying similarly, that you are behaving poorly, then it is probably you! Pointing out some issues you could improve upon is sure as fuck not threatening. Come on, you live in shithole fucking Peoria. I've been there. I would think you know threatening when you see it. This place ain't Peoria. But why does anyone care about the opinion of a 19 year old girl? Why so mad?

LadyPact -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 2:58:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact For what it's worth...... You're not going to find a bigger elitist on these boards than Me. What you are saying about these other folks isn't deserved. Step back. Take a breath. I'll help you if I can. In the meantime, take an inventory and see if you need to adjust. No one likes feeling attacked. They don't, and I don't. I should have perhaps stated my opinion with more eloquence, I acknowledge that. Sometimes, I come across as aggressive and rude without meaning to. But my intentions are usually good, until I feel threatened. Yeah, I fuck up a lot of times with words, too. Quite often, when I notice that I have an opinion of one, I'm probably wrong. There's no shame in that. We can't be right all of the time. You don't know Me from Adam's off ox. Take My word or don't. It's up to you. Some of the people on this thread straighten My ass out when it's crooked. Sometimes, listening, rather than talking, is how we grow. I haven't read this whole thread, but I've seen some glimpses. With no offense intended, My intuition says that you should sit down, shut up, and pay attention. Don't react. Just think for a while. And, if when that's done, I'll still be here if you'd like to argue.

LolaLita -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 3:00:19 PM)
LOL

OsideGirl -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 3:04:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Lola here's the dealio. NO ONE here is threatening you! Oh sure, some of us are harsher in conveying our thoughts than others but seriously, you won't find a better group of kinky fuckers, over all.y There is one thing you need to learn that you haven't yet. If one person is saying you are being a rude twat and everyone else is saying the opposite, it's probably them that has the problem. If a whole bunch of people are saying similarly, that you are behaving poorly, then it is probably you! Pointing out some issues you could improve upon is sure as fuck not threatening. Come on, you live in shithole fucking Peoria. I've been there. I would think you know threatening when you see it. This place ain't Peoria. But why does anyone care about the opinion of a 19 year old girl? Why so mad? You're confusing sarcasm for anger.

OsideGirl -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 3:05:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Now wait a minute here LT. I am considering threatening her, she piques my interest in a very fucking sick sort of way. Would that be because you're a sick fuck?

mnottertail -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 3:07:01 PM)
Yes. You sort of have to be one out here, n'est ce pas?

LolaLita -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 3:08:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LolaLita quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Lola here's the dealio. NO ONE here is threatening you! Oh sure, some of us are harsher in conveying our thoughts than others but seriously, you won't find a better group of kinky fuckers, over all.y There is one thing you need to learn that you haven't yet. If one person is saying you are being a rude twat and everyone else is saying the opposite, it's probably them that has the problem. If a whole bunch of people are saying similarly, that you are behaving poorly, then it is probably you! Pointing out some issues you could improve upon is sure as fuck not threatening. Come on, you live in shithole fucking Peoria. I've been there. I would think you know threatening when you see it. This place ain't Peoria. But why does anyone care about the opinion of a 19 year old girl? Why so mad? You're confusing sarcasm for anger. Ah.

OsideGirl -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 3:08:21 PM)
True, true, very true...... I think we need a music video....

mnottertail -> RE: Is A Submissive With A Strong Personality A Red Flag? (8/1/2012 3:11:29 PM)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ic87SfqQAAM&feature=related

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