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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 4:22:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: SongofSirens

You heard the real truth. Do you care? Sure some will.
Some will attack me. I never had to tell the real truth but I did.
That is all that counts.

That's all that counts? Not in My book.

I get that you feel really proud of yourself that you fooled everyone. Sorry, but intentionally fooling people sure as shit doesn't revolve around the truth. You certainly weren't as honest as you could have been. As soon as you created this profile, it was your intention to be a fraud.

While you are sitting smug thinking of the lesson that you taught all of us, I'll tell you about the other part that comes with it. That reinforcement, once again, the people on these boards are going to hesitate helping somebody with a new profile. The next person who comes here genuinely needing the advice that people here can give, isn't going to get as much of it because we'll just be waiting for some douchecanoe to go "ha-ha" fooled you. Since you want to talk about how bad you felt when people answered your other threads, just how bad do you think somebody is going to feel when it gets to the point where nobody will help anyone who is new anymore?

You may not have liked the advice that you got during your first round because it was delivered to you with a clue by four. Think about that for a minute though. You still walked away with what you needed so that you would never make that mistake again and more knowledge than what you came with. In your small way, you took a notch out of people being willing to give that advice when the next person comes and needs it. Congratulations!

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 4:43:36 AM

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Chatter, I wasn't mean to you. I didn't call you names. I did nothing that asked for you to be this rude to me. What I said here I meant and all my kindness to you has now done is remind me why I am rarely kind to people. Thank you for making things clear and allowing me the ability to now lump you in with 97% of the rest of the people on the planet as being unworthy of kindness. I didn't judge you before but now I have.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 4:59:59 AM

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Everything was the TRUTH.

What kind of person would do this? Me.

Act like you are me posting, see how you would react. I have never been a subnissive for one EVER before this. I was so lost and you all treated me like shit. I dont put up with shit and I go off. I am never afraid. I dont play games. But Guess I was suppose to. You all act like you accept, but you dont. You hurt me so bad. I came back to show you how misdirected you are.
Anyway that is the story , dont like it, tough.

You are never afraid? Come off it. Everyone is afraid at some point; to not be afraid is to be insane. Oh wait, I guess that does describe you.

You don't play games? Sister, you make my manipulative ex husband look like a straight shooting Bobbsy twin.

We hurt you? We hurt you b/c we told it straight, and honesty is the one big thing YOU can't handle. Can you really not see that stable, mentally well people don't create socks to make up a story and get revenge on STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET !!

You need therapy, and your meds adjusted, and I am wondering why your husband, if he is so supportive, is not helping you with both those things.

I am not saying this b/c I hate you, I feel sorry for you -- again.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 5:04:58 AM

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Actually, there are direct lies on the other thread. Things such as "I asked him again yesterday" with a posting date of July 21. Unless chatterbox is still in contact with the house clean and blow job guy as of two weeks ago. That's just one example. I skimmed the other thread and found a few references to present, rather than past tense.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 5:09:11 AM

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Everything was the TRUTH.

I was nice to you on both of your chatterbox24 threads until I learned you omitted that you are in a 20 year marriage and have small children. Apparently you have not yet learned about lying by omission.

I'm one of the few people who enjoys being consistently nice and helpful towards new posters and now you've poisoned that for me.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 5:17:22 AM

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For people needing context:

Chatterbox24 Master does not want sex

This is my first post to collarme. Thank you for listening.
I have been involved in a relationship with my Master for a little less then 2 years. I see him one a month or so. Both have conflicting busy schedules and some distance or we would see each other more often.
This is my first experience as a sub/slave. I fought it for the first year, being called a slave, to me it was degrading and refused my Master for a long time. I had no idea when I first met him he was into this lifestyle and I didnt know a thing about it until my connection with him. Although I fought his way for some time he never left me, and I never left him because the attraction is beyond any I have ever had with anyone in my life. THe mental and physcial attraction is intense. I many times wanted to end it but just couldnt, thoughts of him stay with me constantly.
My Master is pleased with the changes he has seen in me, and wants to collar me now. As crazy as I am about him I have concerns. THe thought of ending it with him is unimaginable at this point.
He has never shown any interest in pleasing me, it has always been him. He has never even seen me naked. When I visit he likes for me to kneel and please him, I only stay a brief time (an hour or hour and a half) then he tells me to leave after I do some house work for him. At the beginning of our relationship I told him I wanted sex, but he ignorred those requests and told me to go out and compare. I was so furious I did and guess what I came back, even though he has never pleased me sexually or touched me sexually ever. Not even a kiss. During this time I had not submitted and decided I wanted to be his slave. Outside of our visits he keeps in contact me everyday and is concerned about my life. He tells me he is steaked in our relationship.
He wants to collar me soon and told me to think about the words I want to say to him. He told me it would be "an intimidate ceremonious event" Could this mean he might finally have sex with me or please me in some way? I have spend the last 3 to 4 months being a superior slave after my decision I could live without him. I have spent alot of time trying to make up for the time I was an EXTREMELY DIFFICULT SUb to train. Giving him gifts, telling him how wonderful he is, being faithful etc.
I asked him once "WIll we ever have sex?" and he said I can not answer that. But also keep in mind he told me once he preferred worship over sex. I take my collaring very seriously and need some advice!!!! I dont think I can go without sex forever. I dont know how to approach questioning him either. He does not like excessive questioning. Thank you!

Chatterbox24 Update on Master does not want to have sex

I dont know if you all remember me or not. I posted about concerns over my Master not wanting sex and wanting to collar me anyway about a month ago.

I felt I needed to get out of the relationship because I felt I was doing everything, and he was doing nothing. Gifts for him, wanted to start a bank account together even though Im married, only allows a Bj etc. after 2 yrs. Ring a bell?
The narricist and the BPD? lol. You all thought my story so ridiculous I had to be a troll?
Some people had a problem with me getting on here and sharing my concerns, but I used no names so its still virtually private. He would just have a fit if he knew I was on here again lol.
Anyway, this wednesday I am proceeding with the collaring. It was suppose to be two weeks ago but I wouldnt do it until I felt ready if i ever felt ready.
Not one person has ever agreed with this relationship, who I have discussed it with. I quit discussing it like I once did, and have went with my own thoughts. Everyone was telling me i was brainwashed. But I cant seem to give him up and actually get alot of pleasure from giving to him. He withholds sex but its ok. He told me dont put the cart before the horse. I found after much thought he is actually right, Im not even ready for sex with him, and I decided it actually makes it better we havent had it. In the past I was notorious for getting what I want and soon being bored with someone. By withholding sex from me I have actually stayed interested and was forced to get to know him. When I examine the relationship, he has changed in the two yrs, and does tell me alot more then he used too. So this very slow relationship, really has been to my benefit. I really am nervous about getting financial involved with him but I have decided to do it, I will start slowly then see how that goes. I actually want to do it, I have a deep desire to want to trust him and so I will do it.
If I get burnt, "live and learn" but I care so much for him I have to know.

SongofSirens Desperate need of advice

I would really appreciate any honest, staight forward advice about a relationship I have. I am ashamed to say Im having trouble finding my own answers, and was hoping peoples perspective might open a door.
I am a slave without full disclosure from my master. When I ask certain questions he will either ignor them, or say you will know what you need to know. We have a internet/real meeting relationship and live in different towns. We see each other every 2 to 3 weeks. The biggest question he ignors is how many others are there, if any. He will not answer. I think this is something he should share with me. AM I wrong? He and I have been through so much and his denial of various questions makes trusting him very difficult. Is not trust the foundation of a healthy relationship.
I really wonder how other's whether sub or dom would feel about it. Why somoene would not share information and why, when I say Im okay with whatever the answer is.

You frame the OPs completely differently and wonder why you get different responses? Pfft.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 5:51:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: SongofSirens

This is Chatterbox24.
And this is how easy it is to fool people. All you have to do is indulge in their weaknesses. Its all about approach, wording etc.
You people were very mean to me. Judged me so harshly. Its true, I am flawed very flawed. And I am okay with that. I am still good.
I am the same person as I was before just approached everything differently thru research.
I can tell the same story 10 different ways and it all be the truth.
The lesson.............dont judge a book by its cover. Dont judge period.. Dont be a hypocrite. When you think you are smart there is always someone smarter, kinder and more patient. And it is not me.

Madam,
I don't know you from a can of paint. I don't know who Chatterbox 24 is either. Don't know that person (you?) from a can of paint. What I *do* know is that the responses I give are generally pretty darned kind. As long as I'm not being played that is. A few months ago we were all played. I called the person on it in a very simple way. And yes, people were not kind and gentle with me. I didn't feel a need to create a new identity and chastise them. I handled it. I continued to be decent.

Remember that post I made on this thread? Also about being decent? About being proud of the way one handles a difficult situation? I can say I was decent. I can say I'm proud that I handled your question the way that I did. I have a beautiful, clean mirror here in my home. To me, that is the most important thing in this entire thread.

Good luck to you, Madam.
sunshine

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 6:46:27 AM

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@op. you are correct , it is totally about how things are said and written. Respect others and they will respect you.

I am sure that if you left your profile the original way (without revealing it is a sock account) you could have posted forever and become a nice addition to the forum. I would also have bet that this sock account would have become your main account and the original one , turning into a sock.

Bottom line , you get what you give and I hope that the nice respectful sirene in you will still be around.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 6:51:28 AM

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Great advice and support is always available to genuine people here.

So plant your little victory flag in front of your keyboard and smile broadly.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 11:50:54 AM

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I had a feeling in my gut.

I had a hard time believing there were two grown women so desperate to be doormats, and so emotionally immature.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 5:35:47 PM

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Well I'll be damned. I thought for sure that the time I got back online this thread would have been locked, poofed, or moved.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 5:59:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Well I'll be damned. I thought for sure that the time I got back online this thread would have been locked, poofed, or moved.

I thought so too, i thought that sock puppet threads were a no no since The Great Disturbance.

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RE: Sweet Revenge - 8/4/2012 6:30:54 PM

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I had to look at this one. There are people on site with multiple accounts because they may be looking for different things, and I remember one poster saying she had a few, but was getting different perspectives. Those socks are allowable. I came in to review this one, because 1) it is not a "harmless" sock, and actually was started with the intent to cause strife on the boards. If it would have been harmless or any of a multitude of other things, it would have been allowed. By the own admission of the OP, however, it was started with the intention of deceit and the intent to cause strife on the boards. This thread is locked.

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