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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 12:48:00 PM   
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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 12:53:00 PM   
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Those little birthday candles that fit into the hub of a needle are actually paraffin and that is why they burn down as quickly as they do. The problem was not the type of wax but the close proximity at which the wax dripped onto the body. Paraffin wax melts between 130-150 degrees Fahrenheit (enough to cause a second degree burn) but because it is usually dripped from a reasonable distance it has cooled down considerably by the time it hits the body. Normal birthday candle hubs are petal shaped to collect the wax. A needle hub isn't.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 12:53:05 PM   
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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 12:57:52 PM   
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FR: I saw those photos and I was horrified.

I had a mistake happen to me involving a very small burn years ago and it got infected and landed me in the hospital for 7 days.

So when I saw these photos, I could not believe it.

People really do need to think about what they are doing; the smallest injury could kill you. The doctor told me if I waited even one more day to go the doctor I would have died; all from a small mishap.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 12:59:31 PM   
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Those little birthday candles that fit into the hub of a needle are actually paraffin and that is why they burn down as quickly as they do. The problem was not the type of wax but the close proximity at which the wax dripped onto the body. Paraffin wax melts between 130-150 degrees Fahrenheit (enough to cause a second degree burn) but because it is usually dripped from a reasonable distance it has cooled down considerably by the time it hits the body. Normal birthday candle hubs are petal shaped to collect the wax. A needle hub isn't.

I had hoped that, too. Unfortunately, that was not the case. Some twit bought the birthday candles at the grocery and used them to light someone up. I light paraffin votives on people regularly. That is the candle directly placed on the skin. No, I don't burn them to the bottom, but I do turn them into a human candelabra.

I think it was partially type of wax and a mix with the heat that would be conducted through metal. Burns like that aren't uniform otherwise. The scene could have been conducted safely. It wasn't here.


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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:00:47 PM   
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On the topic of education I'm just going to throw this out there. Pariffin candles burn at a lower temp if they are first frozen. And don't get the word frozen wrong I mean freeze them for months before you use them. Freezing them also makes them less likely to drip.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:07:40 PM   
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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MariaB

Those little birthday candles that fit into the hub of a needle are actually paraffin and that is why they burn down as quickly as they do. The problem was not the type of wax but the close proximity at which the wax dripped onto the body. Paraffin wax melts between 130-150 degrees Fahrenheit (enough to cause a second degree burn) but because it is usually dripped from a reasonable distance it has cooled down considerably by the time it hits the body. Normal birthday candle hubs are petal shaped to collect the wax. A needle hub isn't.

I had hoped that, too. Unfortunately, that was not the case. Some twit bought the birthday candles at the grocery and used them to light someone up. I light paraffin votives on people regularly. That is the candle directly placed on the skin. No, I don't burn them to the bottom, but I do turn them into a human candelabra.

I think it was partially type of wax and a mix with the heat that would be conducted through metal. Burns like that aren't uniform otherwise. The scene could have been conducted safely. It wasn't here.



Plus birthday candles have a hardening agent, stearic acid, to keep them from bending. It has a high melt point, so they burn hotter.


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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:18:19 PM   
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Those burns would have happened with any sort of candle. It wasn't the candle, it was the flame being to close to the skin and cooking it.. like slow roasting over a spit eventually cooks the meat. The odds are that neither the top nor the bottom would have been aware of the damage being done, especially if they were pumped full of scene chemicals and flying. A lot of scat happens to the meat before it's cooked and well before anything noticable is happening. Think in terms of crock pot and you'll get the idea of why the bottom might not have stopped the scene and why the top might not have realized the consequence of the action.

Had those needles been at a 90 degree angle rather than the 20 or so degree angle they appear to be .. there would have been little evidence of the play other than happy memories. Misplaced needles and a failure to understand the science of cooking caused those burns.. not the 'kind' of candles which were used.

Those are not wax burns.. they are slow-cooked fire burns. A very easy fix is to place the candles at 90 degrees to the skin. The extra length gives the wax time to cool before it drops and elevates the flame to a level that won't cook the skin.

Next time, they'll know better and I do hope this doesn't put anyone off from playing with needles and wax because it can be done and you can even get amazing pics from safer play if that's the purpose of the play.

(Wonders if computer will stay on long enough to even post this!)






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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:29:57 PM   
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Bita, thank you for the link and obtaining permission.

I just can't imagine doing that to someone.


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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:31:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Link to Pics - (by permission)


fr


Those burns would have happened with any sort of candle. It wasn't the candle, it was the flame being to close to the skin and cooking it.. like slow roasting over a spit eventually cooks the meat. The odds are that neither the top nor the bottom would have been aware of the damage being done, especially if they were pumped full of scene chemicals and flying. A lot of scat happens to the meat before it's cooked and well before anything noticable is happening. Think in terms of crock pot and you'll get the idea of why the bottom might not have stopped the scene and why the top might not have realized the consequence of the action.

Had those needles been at a 90 degree angle rather than the 20 or so degree angle they appear to be .. there would have been little evidence of the play other than happy memories. Misplaced needles and a failure to understand the science of cooking caused those burns.. not the 'kind' of candles which were used.

Those are not wax burns.. they are slow-cooked fire burns. A very easy fix is to place the candles at 90 degrees to the skin. The extra length gives the wax time to cool before it drops and elevates the flame to a level that won't cook the skin.

Next time, they'll know better and I do hope this doesn't put anyone off from playing with needles and wax because it can be done and you can even get amazing pics from safer play if that's the purpose of the play.

(Wonders if computer will stay on long enough to even post this!)








Well I was going to ask if these two were extreme sadist and masochist until the post was linked and I read it. I was only going to ask because I used to know a bottom years ago who is an extreme masochist that she liked having her nails pulled off and all kinds of horrid things that are just to the point that she even makes me shriek.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:34:07 PM   
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That's horrifying!

From what I'm reading there, the Top was the DM?

Geezus...

I feel so bad for the Bottom who was burnt, but both should have known better, IMO. Stuff like this happens when people stop thinking with what's between their ears. Very sad.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:47:51 PM   
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Actually, I am going to do just a bit a disagreeing about the type of candle.

Birthday candles of the type they used are meant for birthday cake. Not only are they made of paraffin, they tend to have a ton of dye so they won't fade during storage plus many have an additive that keeps them from going out. Which means they burn even hotter than normal paraffin candles of the same size.

None of them is recommended for wax play.

Here's a good basic website:

http://www.kufs.org/waxplayinfo.htm


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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:52:18 PM   
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Thanks for the link Bita. I can now understand why this went horribly wrong. I was thinking they used diabetic short needles and had the candles standing upright, not laying horizontally along the skin.
Those burns look more like 3rd degree. I also read that the Domme hasn't checked in to make sure this woman is okay..... bloody disgusting.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:52:39 PM   
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I've had birthday candles used a time or two on me, but they also were held at a far enough distance that by the time it landed on me, it was cooled down enough to not cause major burning.

But yeah, when I saw the photos I was also thinking that looked more like cooked meat and not burns like you normally see. My question is, why did the bottom not say something like "stop, there's something wrong"? Unless she was gagged? I mean when Master and I play and I start to feel something is wrong I just tell him and he fixes the problem. If I'm gagged he will notice my fists pounding or the way I move my body and head. So sorry but I also have to fault the bottom as well as the top in such situations.


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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:56:06 PM   
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The Domme in question posted a comment about the pic. Near the end.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 1:57:14 PM   
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I have used different colored birthday candles many times when it comes to wax painting on the skin. The English birthday candles are made from low melting point paraffin wax and the colors are the same colorants they use in children's crayons. Sounds like American birthday candles are very different to the English variety.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 2:07:47 PM   
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Wow those pictures are brutal.

When I first read LadyPact's description, I thought that it didn't sound like that silly a mistake to make - after all, I can see people not realising there are different types of candles with different melting points etc... I think I underestimated the damage.

Bita's explanation about slow-roasting makes perfect sense as to how the burns were caused, I still find it hard to believe that didn't feel horrendous, but I guess they must have been flying high.

Wow. Just wow.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 2:15:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Two quotes immediately came to mind.

Stupid is as stupid does.

and

You can't fix stupid.

The reality........you will NEVER keep stupid people from doing stupid shit. Otherwise, they wouldn't have anything to argue about down in the P&R section.


Ditto....

Will add... These type of people make me look intellgent by comparison. So I am happy for their existence, I just keep my distance from them.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 2:41:46 PM   
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I am absolutely horrified. I literally have nothing else to say.

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RE: Why does this happen? - 8/8/2012 2:42:48 PM   
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I had thought the burns were more from the heat transferance from the candles to the metal needles....(this occurred to me after finding out how quickly the heat transferred from the ignition of my car to the car key after the car had been sitting in the hot sun all morning...).

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