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IrishMist -> RE: For new subs. (8/14/2012 6:27:45 AM)
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
I borrowed this from a young lady named magdalena82. It's entitled "How I Know You're a Shitty Dom".
You are pushy, even when you barely know me.
Your first message to me is a generic copy and paste job you send to every single female you come across.
Your first message to me is you telling me I would a) better serve you by being on my knees and naked, or b) be smart to address you as Sir or Lord.
Your first message to me includes a pejorative such as bitch or slut.
You attempt to make me feel guilty when I don't do exactly what you say or answer you quickly enough or at all.
You insult me when I don't return your amour (has that ever made a sub want you, really?).
You consider D/s an escape from vanilla life where you have poor interpersonal relations.
You ask to talk on the phone or meet within a few exchanges, and get angry when I tell you I am not comfortable with that yet.
You consider experienced subs "jaded" and prefer the company of newbies under the guise of "teaching and guiding" them. The reality is they are the only ones who don't know you are full of shit.
When I give you my limits you immediately disregard or attempt to cross them. This is not you being Dominant, this is you being a disrespectful asshole.
You tell me "good" subs have few/no limits.
You ask things of me which you would never consider reciprocating (e.g oral sex, massages, rimming, foot worship, housework, etc).
You consider D/s a sexual relationship only, and your messages become very sexual quickly.
You view Fetlife and fetish events as a meatmarket.
You tell me I am not collared because I haven't found a "real" Dom yet (i.e. you). It isn't going to get you very far if you insult my past partners, whom I still love and respect. You are implying I have poor judgement, which I don't.
You expect me to be monogamous to you yet you immediately tell me you want a passel of slaves, implying you are just too much of a Dommy Dom to not share yourself with a multitude of women.
I could go on and on, and will add to this list as my experiences with finding a suitable partner continue. Rest assured I laugh every day at the absurdity of some men I come across!
Interesting
Personally, I would be more apt to stay away from someone who felt the need to post something like this as advice...no matter if it was done in humor or not.
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