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LadyConstanze -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:38:22 AM)
Why not simply have him wear a butt plug and female lingerie under the clothes, or painted fingernails, thing is while it is humiliating for him, there is no point in rubbing everybody's face in it, I think the fact that he has the plug puts him in the right mindspace and I can't imagine that it's going to be comfy to walk around with a plug up your ass... You can always whisper in his ear "What if they knew... Best clench and keep it in..."

GreedyTop -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:38:30 AM)
re: Elgin's second post on this thread, I have to agree with Otter.

ElginSub -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:39:20 AM)
I have had some looks and some smiles from women that have taken notice. I have heard snickers and comments about being a man. I am a masculine male when not in submission. I am alright with the looks and comments, At one store a woman walked up to us and said good boy to me and told Mistress that she was doing a wonderful thing. I have also noticed women pointing and nodding approval. Kind of the old thumb-up While in Macy's one day a sales lady walked up to my Miistress and told her that she has perfect skirt and top that would look great on me. She agreed and after trying it on in front of the clerk and Mistress.i promptly paid for it and carried the bags.

ElginSub -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 11:06:40 AM)
wearing the butt plug is an excellant itea. the wiggle with the walk would be fun to watch.

TNDommeK -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 11:17:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana quote: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? Have him be seen in public squandering his hard earned loot on an unoriginal Mistress who can't even come up with her own ideas. That should be humiliations galore. Aaaaaand Kana for the win!!! My thoughts exactly.

Lucifyre -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 12:07:28 PM)
Awwe, you guys being snarky aren't any damn fun. I was going to suggest the same thing LadyC did about the butt plug, but if you want to add even more humiliation to the mix and you're into it, fix up half a bag of a warm soapy enema and have him (or you do it to him) take the enema and expell right before you go out. Then have him wear a big thick pad in his panties to catch anything that might leak so you don't have to deal with a mess. If he expells properly there won't be any leakage but using the soap without a rinse afterwards will give him the feeling for a few hours that he may have more to come...out in public it doesn't involve anyone else nonconsentually but he is WELL aware how you violated him before you left to go out. I promise he will wear a blush for you the entire time you're out. Add to that the buttplug, plus a cockring the lingerie and the pad...great combination for a very humiated subbie <grin> Oh, and before I forget...take him SHOE shopping with you, while in the store it's his job to kneel in front of you and help you try on several pairs of shoes and then buy a couple of the prettiest ones for you. Back to our regular scheduled snark programming ;) Enjoy! Lucifyre.

PeonForHer -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 12:26:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucifyre Oh, and before I forget...take him SHOE shopping with you I was under the impression she wanted to humiliate the lad, not give him life-long PTSD by taking him through every male's most hideous nightmare!

PeonForHer -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 12:28:12 PM)
Heh. Cartoon I saw once: Chairs placed outside a women's changing room in a department store. Above them was a sign that read, 'Please give up these seats to a boyfriend who's even more bored than you are'.

Lucifyre -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 12:30:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: Lucifyre Oh, and before I forget...take him SHOE shopping with you I was under the impression she wanted to humiliate the lad, not give him life-long PTSD by taking him through every male's most hideous nightmare! Well, she DID ask for suggesstions... I enjoy bringing the Little Domme out to play on occassion ;) Lucifyre Oh, and yes, I would take a male sub shoe shopping exactly as I described. Mmmm sushi lunch, new shoes, someone to carry my bags and Yes Ma'am me all afternoon A foot massage in the middle of the mall on those display massage chairs...OMGFUCKYES! Can't wait till all this god damned swelling goes down...Luci is gonna be on the hunt! DELISH!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 6:21:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Shaiyax Hi my fellow dom ladies x I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering is there any tips youse have found that really make an impact? x Shaiya "Hi my fellow Domme ladies x, I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering are there any tips you have found that really make an impact? (It's not entirely complete....but....an improvement).

Baroana -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 6:23:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: Shaiyax Hi my fellow dom ladies x I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering is there any tips youse have found that really make an impact? x Shaiya "Hi my fellow Domme ladies x, I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering are there any tips you have found that really make an impact? (It's not entirely complete....but....an improvement). Actually, I take issue with that. "Domme" is a controversial term that not all Dom women like. Edited to add: Oh yeah, and here in Jersey, "youse" is an acceptable form of address [;)]

PeonForHer -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 6:31:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BaroanaxEdited to add: Oh yeah, and here in Jersey, "youse" is an acceptable form of address [;)] It's also acceptable in Northern Ireland, where the OP's based, as well as other places in the UK. To all: Blimey folks, she's only 19. Don't be too harsh!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 6:32:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Baroana quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: Shaiyax Hi my fellow dom ladies x I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering is there any tips youse have found that really make an impact? x Shaiya "Hi my fellow Domme ladies x, I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering are there any tips you have found that really make an impact? (It's not entirely complete....but....an improvement). Actually, I take issue with that. "Domme" is a controversial term that not all Dom women like. Edited to add: Oh yeah, and here in Jersey, "youse" is an acceptable form of address [;)] I actually now speak for all Domme's....so it's perfectly okay.

Baroana -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 6:42:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer Heh. Cartoon I saw once: Chairs placed outside a women's changing room in a department store. Above them was a sign that read, 'Please give up these seats to a boyfriend who's even more bored than you are'. I don't think you are quite picking up what's being put down with the shoe shopping suggestion, Peon.

mistressbri60501 -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 7:03:49 PM)
A few ideas, I make my subs wear child themed shirts, or a nice one piece with something childish on it, hold his hand at all times, A pacifier around his neck which at times make him suck it, talk to him quietly but always as a baby or youngster. Also you may dress him in all pink or any other girly color. Ribbons in his hair. There is nothing worst then being treated like a child in public. Hope these help.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 9:11:06 PM)
I feel the same way as OttersSwim about the cross-dressing in public thing. Otherwise, I would also stick to non-kinky humiliation if you must humiliate in public. Involving 'nillas in kink non-consensually is so not cool. I think the ideas about the lingerie department, feminine hygiene products, denture supplies, etc are good ideas. NBMG

LadyConstanze -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 7:34:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistressbri60501 A few ideas, I make my subs wear child themed shirts, or a nice one piece with something childish on it, hold his hand at all times, A pacifier around his neck which at times make him suck it, talk to him quietly but always as a baby or youngster. Also you may dress him in all pink or any other girly color. Ribbons in his hair. There is nothing worst then being treated like a child in public. Hope these help. In public that would mean I am involving people into my scene that didn't give consent, I'm not easily offended but that would offend me if I was out with kids, a bit uncool... I think there are more effective and "less in your face" ways to do that, adult diapers under the clothes and just stuff that makes a guy squirm, letting him carry a bag from a lingerie company, if there is a huge age difference calling him daddy...

Marielle4u -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 1:30:49 PM)
I have had them go and purchase enema bags, dress completely like a man but with the addition of pink shiny lip gloss, go to a restaurant with a table cloth that hangs down over the sides and make him take his pecker out and have dinner like that, although nobody else can see, it did the trick for him...

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 1:33:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: mistressbri60501 A few ideas, I make my subs wear child themed shirts, or a nice one piece with something childish on it, hold his hand at all times, A pacifier around his neck which at times make him suck it, talk to him quietly but always as a baby or youngster. Also you may dress him in all pink or any other girly color. Ribbons in his hair. There is nothing worst then being treated like a child in public. Hope these help. In public that would mean I am involving people into my scene that didn't give consent, I'm not easily offended but that would offend me if I was out with kids, a bit uncool... I think there are more effective and "less in your face" ways to do that, adult diapers under the clothes and just stuff that makes a guy squirm, letting him carry a bag from a lingerie company, if there is a huge age difference calling him daddy... hahahahahahahahaha....that reminds me of a funny story....about 2 years ago I was dating a wonderful woman 17 years my junior, we went to the ocean, had a reservation for a great hotel suite on the beach, view of the ocean, casino in the bldg., great place....gonna be a fun weekend, and as we go in to the reservation area, they look at her kind of funny, and then in the same few seconds, the lady takes my license and credit card, she tells me "well Sir, apparently the reservation people didn't think to ask over the phone but you qualify for the senior discount (I was 52 then...they start senior discounts at 50 I think it was), so you get a 30% discount on your room". First time I'd ever been offered a senior discount, so I had that sudden realization "you're old now", I'm with a hot chic, they probably thought I was some kind of sugar daddy....it was just hilarious. We both laughed our asses off...it just seemed like a whirlwind of irony as far as the eye could see.

Baroana -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 1:41:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: mistressbri60501 A few ideas, I make my subs wear child themed shirts, or a nice one piece with something childish on it, hold his hand at all times, A pacifier around his neck which at times make him suck it, talk to him quietly but always as a baby or youngster. Also you may dress him in all pink or any other girly color. Ribbons in his hair. There is nothing worst then being treated like a child in public. Hope these help. In public that would mean I am involving people into my scene that didn't give consent, I'm not easily offended but that would offend me if I was out with kids, a bit uncool... I think there are more effective and "less in your face" ways to do that, adult diapers under the clothes and just stuff that makes a guy squirm, letting him carry a bag from a lingerie company, if there is a huge age difference calling him daddy... hahahahahahahahaha....that reminds me of a funny story....about 2 years ago I was dating a wonderful woman 17 years my junior, we went to the ocean, had a reservation for a great hotel suite on the beach, view of the ocean, casino in the bldg., great place....gonna be a fun weekend, and as we go in to the reservation area, they look at her kind of funny, and then in the same few seconds, the lady takes my license and credit card, she tells me "well Sir, apparently the reservation people didn't think to ask over the phone but you qualify for the senior discount (I was 52 then...they start senior discounts at 50 I think it was), so you get a 30% discount on your room". First time I'd ever been offered a senior discount, so I had that sudden realization "you're old now", I'm with a hot chic, they probably thought I was some kind of sugar daddy....it was just hilarious. We both laughed our asses off...it just seemed like a whirlwind of irony as far as the eye could see. Ehh... um...really? You were 52, checking into a room with a 35 year old hottie, and that was the first time it occurred to you?

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