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LookieNoNookie -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 1:57:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Baroana


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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A few ideas, I make my subs wear child themed shirts, or a nice one piece with something childish on it, hold his hand at all times, A pacifier around his neck which at times make him suck it, talk to him quietly but always as a baby or youngster. Also you may dress him in all pink or any other girly color. Ribbons in his hair. There is nothing worst then being treated like a child in public. Hope these help.


In public that would mean I am involving people into my scene that didn't give consent, I'm not easily offended but that would offend me if I was out with kids, a bit uncool...

I think there are more effective and "less in your face" ways to do that, adult diapers under the clothes and just stuff that makes a guy squirm, letting him carry a bag from a lingerie company, if there is a huge age difference calling him daddy...


hahahahahahahahaha....that reminds me of a funny story....about 2 years ago I was dating a wonderful woman 17 years my junior, we went to the ocean, had a reservation for a great hotel suite on the beach, view of the ocean, casino in the bldg., great place....gonna be a fun weekend, and as we go in to the reservation area, they look at her kind of funny, and then in the same few seconds, the lady takes my license and credit card, she tells me "well Sir, apparently the reservation people didn't think to ask over the phone but you qualify for the senior discount (I was 52 then...they start senior discounts at 50 I think it was), so you get a 30% discount on your room".

First time I'd ever been offered a senior discount, so I had that sudden realization "you're old now", I'm with a hot chic, they probably thought I was some kind of sugar daddy....it was just hilarious.

We both laughed our asses off...it just seemed like a whirlwind of irony as far as the eye could see.



Ehh... um...really? You were 52, checking into a room with a 35 year old hottie, and that was the first time it occurred to you?


Never even crossed my mind.




Baroana -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 2:02:55 PM)

Denial ain't just a river in England.




dcnovice -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 2:10:07 PM)

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Denial ain't just a river in England.

Thanks, Nina! [:)]




MissImmortalPain -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 2:15:54 PM)

Send him to buy.....adult diapers, a toilet plunger, condoms, an enema, two large cucumbers and a big cup of coffee all at the same time. And if, like me, you are overly mean when he walks past you trip him. Then point and laugh while he picks the things up.




hlen5 -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 2:21:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

There is something really lovely about calm and controlled. What is that old saying? If you want to get someone's attention, whisper. I gotta say, a man whispered something in my ear a few weeks ago, and it still makes me blush.


What did he say???




TimeLimited -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 3:04:30 PM)

If he mispoke, have him take a swig of Listerine and hold it until such time as you allow him to find a place to expel it (toilet or washbasin). In the meantime, it makes a perfect nonvisible gag.




Baroana -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/19/2012 3:14:15 PM)


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If he mispoke, have him take a swig of Listerine and hold it until such time as you allow him to find a place to expel it (toilet or washbasin). In the meantime, it makes a perfect nonvisible gag.



Or water, if you're not a sadist.




CougarRick -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 1:17:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
Please keep in mind that if you are shopping, there will likely be children, parent, grandparents, folks who are religious, etc in the area.
Is your kink so important to you that you are willing to non-consenually involve other people>??



I can't help but ask; how many dommes exercise the discretion you mentioned. I just ask, because if I end up as someones sub I wouldn't want to do anything publicly that might be detrimental to my education or job if people saw it.

Can a domme/sub relationship be discrete? Are there a wide variety of opinions on this or is there some sort of consensus on boundaries?

Case in point, I would be fully willing to submit 24/7 to a domme, but at the same time in public I wold prefer not to have any of my classmates or co-workers see me all gimped out in some silly suit, getting bitchslapped all over the place? THis is not just because of ego, but common sense as I see it, since it may cause potential social, academic and potential career networks to dry up.

Surely it must occur to a domme that such overt displays of the kink might interfere with their pets ability to hold a job or advance in life.




PeonForHer -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 1:44:58 PM)


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Surely it must occur to a domme that such overt displays of the kink might interfere with their pets ability to hold a job or advance in life.


I'm sure it does, Rick. And they're not going to want you to jeopardise your job either - that would harm their lives, too.




crazyml -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 2:09:35 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

There is something really lovely about calm and controlled. What is that old saying? If you want to get someone's attention, whisper. I gotta say, a man whispered something in my ear a few weeks ago, and it still makes me blush.


What did he say???


Yeah,,,, what did that fucker say to you to make you blush so???




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 2:13:47 PM)

She won't tell me, why would she tell you? She keeps her secrets well, my HHH.




OsideGirl -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 2:22:41 PM)


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Thanks, Otters, I feel the same way, I just didnt want to get ranty and judgmental.


I agree with Otter, too.

I find involving the public and salesclerks in kink without consent to be tasteless.

Someone can be subservient without cramming it down everyone's throat.




crazyml -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 2:22:51 PM)

Well, he must have been a proper domly bastard to have been the cause of such shame.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 2:25:31 PM)

I am positively indignant on her behalf!




PeonForHer -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 2:53:04 PM)


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Yeah,,,, what did that fucker say to you to make you blush so???



That she'd come out of the ladies' with her skirt tucked into her knickers. *titter*




crazyml -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 3:25:27 PM)


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Yeah,,,, what did that fucker say to you to make you blush so???



That she'd come out of the ladies' with her skirt tucked into her knickers. *titter*


And that, brother Peon, is why I maintain that the "Carry-on" movies are timeless. Timeless. ;-)




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 3:59:43 PM)

Havent seen one of those in years! ~nostalgic moment~




sunshinemiss -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 4:05:18 PM)

I'm so glad y'all are enjoying the little Mona Lisa smile that inhabits my lips these days. *smooch*




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 4:08:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I'm so glad y'all are enjoying the little Mona Lisa smile that inhabits my lips these days. *smooch*


Always! [;)]




CougarRick -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/22/2012 5:46:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
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Surely it must occur to a domme that such overt displays of the kink might interfere with their pets ability to hold a job or advance in life.

I'm sure it does, Rick. And they're not going to want you to jeopardise your job either - that would harm their lives, too.



Not only that, but surely she has a job and co-workers. I don't imagine some manager or VP would want her employees to see her walking her pet around playing kink abuse in a public place.




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