DesideriScuri -> RE: Poverty programs (8/23/2012 12:06:26 PM)
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It's follows the adage, "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink." You can follow the adage if you like. I'll follow the evidence thanks. What evidence? Here is exactly what you said: quote:
In my observation, the critical factor in many (if not most) recoveries is emotional support from the addict's circle of friends family professional health carers etc. While it is certainly true that nothing will help someone who doesn't want the help and support, the number of successful recoveries achieved without adequate emotional support is minimal. Post#51. Nothing I have stated disagrees that a good support system will lead to the best results in addicts trying to recover. But, we have to go back to what Heretic stated. quote:
You'll have to catch me on the right thread, at the right time, Erie. I can tell you all about addiction, and the first thing I'll tell you about successful recovery is that it must be an individual act. Support is really nice, but not mandatory, and all the rehab in the world is pointless, for someone who doesn't really want to stop. Post#42. Not mandatory = Not required for success. Since you have already stated that success can be had without a support group, it can't be a requirement for success. No one disagrees that it helps and is important. But, even you have stated that if the person doesn't want help or support, it will be useless in his/her recovery. Heretic's premise is that the individual has to make the decision to stop before any support, rehab, etc. will be helpful. Regarding leading a horse to water, leading the horse to the water is the job of the support group. If the horse isn't thirsty, it ain't drinking, regardless of your leading it to water. If an addict doesn't want to stop, your support and rehab isn't going to force the addict to recover. You have stated it in your own posts. You have used your own words.
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