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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:20:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		It was a Gigi's cupcake. Banana Cream Pie. I remember. They have so much icing on top of them, it's hard to eat the whole thing.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:20:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		What a crazy question. Who wouldn't choose fucking over food?

Unless the fucking sucked. Then all bets are off.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:25:50 PM   
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What a crazy question. Who wouldn't choose fucking over food?

Unless the fucking sucked. Then all bets are off.


Well, I meant extended periods of little to no food. Not just half a day - like a few days to a week prior, continuing through a whole weekend sometimes. It's like the sex substituted for food or something - just wondering if there was a physiological reason for loss of appetite during long periods of sexual arousal. I probably didn't word the question correctly the first time.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:25:55 PM   
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What a crazy question. Who wouldn't choose fucking over food?

Unless the fucking sucked. Then all bets are off.


You just defined what happened to my past marriage...


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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:27:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		So what's wrong with fucking while eating? I have bent her over and banged her lights out while she was eating from a doggy dish on the floor. But to your point, yes, I have camped out in bed for the weekend with nothing more than a few gallons of apple juice and nothing better to eat than each other. Never really went without food more than 2 or 3 days though.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:27:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have had marathon weekend sex sessions and you are right, you are not hungry for food. You just have to eat to keep your strength up.

But it makes perfect sense that if you are so aroused in one sense, you may not be craving food for comfort; if that is what you mean. But regular food for fuel, I think you have to take a break.



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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:30:31 PM   
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Unless the fucking sucked. Then all bets are off.


Ive had one too many bad bed partners - Im like "get the fuck outta here" (Theres nothing worse than a lousy lay) - "and while youre headed out the door, would you mind passing over that bag of cheetos?"

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:31:45 PM   
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So what's wrong with fucking while eating? I have bent her over and banged her lights out while she was eating from a doggy dish on the floor. But to your point, yes, I have camped out in bed for the weekend with nothing more than a few gallons of apple juice and nothing better to eat than each other. Never really went without food more than 2 or 3 days though.


Nice imagery....:)

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:35:56 PM   
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always time to eat.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:44:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I googled and found this:
"According to research done by Michael Liebowitz, a research psychiatrist at the New York State Psychiatric Institute, when we feel attracted to a person of the opposite sex, it triggers a neurotransmitter called phenylethylamine (PEA) which combines with dopamine and norepinephrine to create pleasingly positive feelings toward the other. This “love molecule” can prompt euphoria, increased energy, loss of appetite, and less need for sleep"

That's what happens! It's completely normal.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:47:41 PM   
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I'm sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong place - I haven't posted before.

Is it common to choose to have sex (and play...etc. - all that kinky stuff) and not eat for long periods of time? Like, eventually I'll eat of course. But there are times when I've gone days without really eating because I'm too busy having sex, or thinking about how I'll be having sex later. Just curious to see if anybody else does it.



eerr...no, can't say this has ever happened to me. Personally, you sound like a sex addict. See a therapist.


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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:49:47 PM   
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eerr...no, can't say this has ever happened to me. Personally, you sound like a sex addict. See a therapist.



Oh goodness - I'm not a sex addict. It doesn't cause any problems with my life, other than a loss of appetite sometimes. And according to the doctor man in NY that I quoted, it's a chemical thing in our brains that happens to everyone.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:51:49 PM   
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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:53:03 PM   
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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 9:54:25 PM   
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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 10:02:59 PM   
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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 11:18:06 PM   
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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/19/2012 11:50:12 PM   
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Is it common to choose to have sex (and play...etc. - all that kinky stuff) and not eat for long periods of time? Like, eventually I'll eat of course. But there are times when I've gone days without really eating because I'm too busy having sex, or thinking about how I'll be having sex later. Just curious to see if anybody else does it.

Well. I suppose congratulations is what you are looking for.

Congratulations.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 12:13:21 AM   
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Ha - yeah, I do eat eventually - it's just if I get super horny sometimes I just won't eat. Which seems weird to me. I was hoping there was some kind of biological reason that someone here would know about.


I am reminded of the mammalian diving reflex. When a mammal's face is covered by cold water the animal automatically slows its heart rate and lowers air usage.

Another reflex is the human refractory period, where after orgasm the human cannot orgasm again and stimulation becomes uncomfortable, painful, or even ticklish. (Tickling is another reflex all together). Almost all men have this reflex. Women with this reflex tend to experience it as hypersensitivity in the clitoris. Some women do not have a refractory period, which correlates highly with multiple orgasms. The scientific name for this phenomena is "lucky broad."

I would wager that after sex Searain does not need to stop for a few minutes. If you continue to feed your lust for pleasure, the flood of dopamine (the chemical that makes love and chocolate feel so right) continues. The body stores dopamine in comparatively high amounts, so using orgasms to release more than the body can process leaves a reserve to deal with. Ergo, hunger is not felt until long after sex ends. If this is the case, Searain would be hungry after a quickie sooner than after a long, grueling, multi-orgasmic sex marathon.

The post coital refractory period, which Searain may refuse to/be unable to incite is when dopamine begins to subside and it is replaced by serotonin (the gluttony chemical of the mind, giving us a satiated warm fuzzy sensation).

There is a less attractive answer. You might be a legitimate nymphomaniac. Commonly nymphomaniacs do not enjoy sex, they say it fulfills a craving and gets them back to normal. Much the same way heroin abusers no longer "get high" but try to "get well." If you're using sex because you feel weak, anxious, depressed without it, then you might want to seek professional psychiatric help.

Most likely, you're a fit young gal who enjoys the reward of physical pleasure more than the reward of eating (arguably another physical pleasure).

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 6:33:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: searain

I'm sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong place - I haven't posted before.

Is it common to choose to have sex (and play...etc. - all that kinky stuff) and not eat for long periods of time? Like, eventually I'll eat of course. But there are times when I've gone days without really eating because I'm too busy having sex, or thinking about how I'll be having sex later. Just curious to see if anybody else does it.


Um... some would call that addiction...

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