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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 3:43:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nope. I've gone 2+ years straight having sex twice a day (or more) every single day - but we always stopped for food. If for no other reason, than to prevent chaffing.



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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 3:50:33 PM   
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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 4:02:56 PM   
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mayonnaise then?


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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 4:16:09 PM   
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I'm sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong place - I haven't posted before.

Is it common to choose to have sex (and play...etc. - all that kinky stuff) and not eat for long periods of time? Like, eventually I'll eat of course. But there are times when I've gone days without really eating because I'm too busy having sex, or thinking about how I'll be having sex later. Just curious to see if anybody else does it.



Frankly, I'm baffled why this would even be a choice. I can't imagine being so consumed engaging in or thinking about sex for days and days that I couldn't spare 10 seconds to eat a piece of fruit.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 4:18:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Okay sweetie, now that you've advertised yourself all over the forum as a hot sex bunny, why don't you go make yourself an energy shake or something?

Sorry, mos, no aspersions meant.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 5:07:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nuh uh! You're the hot sex bunny! :)

I did just teach two kickboxing classes in a row, so I need food.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 5:40:02 PM   
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Okay sweetie, now that you've advertised yourself all over the forum as a hot sex bunny, why don't you go make yourself an energy shake or something?

Sorry, mos, no aspersions meant.

Chatte I knew there was a reason I love you and the above is a perfect example of why. Because I was thinking the exact same thing.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 7:33:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: searain

I'm sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong place - I haven't posted before.

Is it common to choose to have sex (and play...etc. - all that kinky stuff) and not eat for long periods of time? Like, eventually I'll eat of course. But there are times when I've gone days without really eating because I'm too busy having sex, or thinking about how I'll be having sex later. Just curious to see if anybody else does it.


Man I'll tell you, that's a tough one.

At 23....food would have lost.

At 50....it'd have been a major dilemma.

At 54, add in Crown Royal with rocks as the definer and I'd be flummoxed.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/20/2012 8:58:36 PM   
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window as I was eating a cupcake.



Get out of my head ARIES!

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/21/2012 2:43:56 PM   
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"According to research done by Michael Liebowitz, a research psychiatrist at the New York State Psychiatric Institute, when we feel attracted to a person of the opposite sex, it triggers a neurotransmitter called phenylethylamine (PEA) which combines with dopamine and norepinephrine to create pleasingly positive feelings toward the other. This “love molecule” can prompt euphoria, increased energy, loss of appetite, and less need for sleep"


I don't stop eating, but do notice decreased appetite whilst in the throes of New Relationship Energy.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/23/2012 7:36:13 PM   
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maybe hours and hours, but not days and days :)

wow, impressive sessions :)

also, pigging out and recharging (for the next round) is all part of the fun for me.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/23/2012 10:13:31 PM   
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Um... some would call that addiction...



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unless of course you'd be interested in "curing" your addiction with hours of intensive treatment involving a certain clown......no....ok,it was worth a try

Any who, never been lucky nuff to pick between Sex or food, but I been known to go days with out eating if I have nuff work to do.

Then again I have a habbit of eat'n nothing but donuts and coffee compulsively if I have to travel/work.

I think it's cuz donuts make me feel like I'm at home.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/23/2012 10:25:22 PM   
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I'm vegan so for me food is not much more than to survive and fuel my body. So often times lately I eat once a day, supplemented by some nuts, fruits or a salad. It has nothing to do with sex. I eat to live not live to eat. Right now I have a plate of tempeh, with a quinoa salad since I haven't eaten all day.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/23/2012 10:44:50 PM   
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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/23/2012 11:13:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Anecdotally speaking, the human body was designed to be capable of operating quite well on one solid meal per three days coupled with a light snack when needed. It is capable, under duress, of operating on little to no food for periods of a little over a week before it becomes significantly damaging to one's health, and for much longer periods, sometimes several months, on limited snacking but no "full meals".

It is medically known that a number of actions associated with eating are habitual: things such as the amount and types of food we eat and when are definitely trainable without risk to health (barring malnutrition from mismanaging the types of foods being eaten, but that's more to do with what to eat than the habit of eating). It is possible to train a body into arousal when it gets "the munches" (anecdotal, but I honestly knew someone like that). Adrenaline and stress-related hormones are also known to act as effective appetite inhibitors.

I think is sounds unusual to opt for sex over food because the current culture puts so much weight on eating, but the reality is, within reason, it's not that big of a deal. What it does mean, however, is that in all likelihood the endorphins released during sex are greater and more potent on your system than the endorphins released from eating, causing you to choose sex over food so effortlessly; while the adrenaline from your arousal dampens your hunger signals so that you're able to marginalise it. Ohthe joyous mechanics of sex addiction lol

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/24/2012 5:55:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: searain

I'm sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong place - I haven't posted before.

Is it common to choose to have sex (and play...etc. - all that kinky stuff) and not eat for long periods of time? Like, eventually I'll eat of course. But there are times when I've gone days without really eating because I'm too busy having sex, or thinking about how I'll be having sex later. Just curious to see if anybody else does it.


Searain...um NO, I bet not! You need nourishment to keep up with "playing". I don't care what body size or proportion you are, YOU NEED TO EAT and drink fluids.

I am fairly new here, BUT I am not new to having sex *chuckle wink*. What I have learned about taking things to other "higher" levels, you have to be physically "okay" which includes energy for your body and rest.

I am not saying you have to be an anorexic barbie...really you just need to be good with yourself.

I personally would not have sex with anyone who didn't take care of themselves, but then that's just me.

Now go love on yourself and eat something for Pete's sake...then go have more sex! Grarw!!!

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/25/2012 5:53:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: searain

I'm sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong place - I haven't posted before.

Is it common to choose to have sex (and play...etc. - all that kinky stuff) and not eat for long periods of time? Like, eventually I'll eat of course. But there are times when I've gone days without really eating because I'm too busy having sex, or thinking about how I'll be having sex later. Just curious to see if anybody else does it.


take this with a grain of salt, but if you are experiencing periods of high sexual energy and a reduced need to eat or sleep, you may be suffering from some form of bipolar disorder.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/25/2012 7:36:14 AM   
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take this with a grain of salt, but if you are experiencing periods of high sexual energy and a reduced need to eat or sleep, you may be suffering from some form of bipolar disorder.


A couple of people have mentioned that it sounds like a manic episode. But - I don't get really depressed, don't go on crazy shopping sprees...etc. I think it may be stress related. School started this week, and so did my new bartending job. Fun stuff, but still a schedule change.

Thanks for all the responses everybody :)

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/25/2012 9:20:16 PM   
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Due to Generic Dude being a Seinfeld addict and me being foolish enough to get him the complete boxed set, one year for Christmas........That is the very first thing that came to mind when I read the OP.

I find the pastrami to be the most sensual of all the salted cured meats.

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RE: Choosing fucking over food? - 8/26/2012 8:44:35 AM   
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I prefer to go full Costanza



Due to Generic Dude being a Seinfeld addict and me being foolish enough to get him the complete boxed set, one year for Christmas........That is the very first thing that came to mind when I read the OP.

I find the pastrami to be the most sensual of all the salted cured meats.

Yummmmmmm, grilled and topped with melted Swiss,served on marbled rye with cole saw and Russian dressing, none of that sauerkraut snot.

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