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TNDommeK -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (8/31/2013 11:17:52 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MariaB
At the beginning of this thread you said what you do is 'business' and you said it numerous times. You then went on to call it a kink and whilst I agree its possibly a kink for the male sub, from what was said earlier, it clearly is business for you. Not that I see anything wrong with that. You also said its not your place to pass judgement and you said that on numerous occasions too but then you became very disparaging about other fin Dommes. This only happened once you had solidarity from other regular posters in this group, including me! The trouble is, your points of view are often full of judgement. You have condemned strippers, you have mocked young posters and you have mocked other fin Dommes who don't do it like you do.
On page 13 you say in a roundabout way (and this is not in your words) that you can shrug off anyone who calls you a prostitute and yet here you are 76 pages in still arguing about it.
Anyone who disagrees with you is called a troll or someone who doesn't want to be educated! and you hide those who go against your argument. Some people have made an association with prostitution or sex work and fin Dommes. They have put this whole debate under scrutiny and that was to be expected. You can't have an educational thread if you don't have absolute facts to show for it and because there are no facts to be had, this subject will always remain a debate. by labeling this thread 'Educational' It has allowed counter arguments to be ignored, belittled or treated as trollish type behaviour. The thing is K, what you say can be seen as false or can be seen as fact, its up to the individual who reads it. Its like saying that you give some money to charity and so does that make you a pro Domme? That statement for me was what changed my mind about everything you have so far said on this thread. You see, changing an opinion can be easy but it works both ways.
You can argue and explain as thoroughly as you can about why you are not a sex worker or a prostitute but you can't get frustrated when those people who believe otherwise, tenaciously stick with their views.
If you don't believe you are a prostitute or a sex worker then you need not be affected by what others think because the thoughts in another persons head don't determine what you are.
If you are on these boards touting a business as a fin Domme and you are receiving money for services. It doesn't matter how you look at it, that is the definition of a professional.
In terms of increasing profile, perhaps its not deliberate but there is no doubt the publicity isn't doing you any harm.
I thought you weren't perpetuating anymore.
Ok..let the corrections begin: I do not disparage against fin dommes, I'm disparaging against fin ducks...there is a difference. It's not secret that I do not agree with how they do, as they give real fin dommes a bad taste in others mouths. But what do I always say? To each their own.
Condemned strippers? Maria, pay attention..I am a stripper. Although I prefer the term dancer.
Let me elaborate on what "shrugging off" means. You've often heard me use the saying "to continue to argue with a person who has lost reason, is like administering medicine to the dead"..if, in these arguments the people that we fins are attempting to educate just refuses to accept the FACTS, then I shrug them off. But, if there is a person who might be new to the conversation, again, I defend my stance.
I have no one on hide, at all. Isn't my thing. I don't call people trolls just because they disagree. That would be stupid.
Doesn't want to be educated..yes that's correct. If some one is ignorant to the fact, you try to show them what the fact is. If they refuse that, then they don't want to be educated.
This subject, and I've always said "*FOR ME"*, contains facts because I do not fuck for money, I do not practice any sexual behavior when doing fin Domme. Therefore cannot be labeled prostitute. Period. Fact.
And just as they portray me as something, I can tenaciously disagree.
Thing is Maria, I'm really happy the threads sticks around because if you actually take the time to read mine..you'll see that I have never once drummed up business for myself. I have enough subs.
Ya know, I'm not sure where you're getting these accusations from, but really it's probably best if you find out some things first. It makes your argument look like its running out of steam, meanwhile, I've hardly broken a sweat.
If you choose to continue thinking what you want about me even though I've just given you FACTS about me, then that is your right. Ad I have the right to think you are choosing to remain uneducated and a fool.
Now, are you planning on perpetuating some more?
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