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A couple of questions.

Would you take on a financial sub that was married or in a relationship and keeping this a secret from his wife/partner?
Would you take on anyone you didn't physically or mentally fancy?

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ORIGINAL: KYsissy

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The only way I take on married subs (who say that their wife knows) is if I can meet her as well. (This has also never happened.)

We are out there.

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You have kept a very close eye on this thread and you have joined virtually every page in an effort to verify your kink. Its become a mission, not on behalf of fin Dommes but about how genuine you are. You rely on your popularity. You aren't one of these fin Dommes that never writes to forums and so only knows the men/women she speaks to in private. To date you have 5634 posts which makes you a very well known member of this community. It also means people won't say bad shit about you because you're a kind of 'friend'.

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

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You have kept a very close eye on this thread and you have joined virtually every page in an effort to verify your kink. Its become a mission, not on behalf of fin Dommes but about how genuine you are. You rely on your popularity. You aren't one of these fin Dommes that never writes to forums and so only knows the men/women she speaks to in private. To date you have 5634 posts which makes you a very well known member of this community. It also means people won't say bad shit about you because you're a kind of 'friend'.

The reason this thread has not died is because she is keeping it going. From page 80 to here she's posted 26 times. At one point the moderators were locking other threads and referring posters here. I was told that the answer to my own findom question was here when in fact my own issue was never raised or addressed in this thread. I was also told that "everyone was sick of this topic" which upon looking at the forums at the time -- I agreed was true. It is a worn issue and it will recycle itself regularly.

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To me the most damning thing about this practice is how you never see the male participants describing their own positive experiences.

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Thanks for your answers. Allison, I believe your aren't a pro Domme as well as a fin Domme so I'm only really asking TNDomme this.....

When a client comes to your home or your dungeon for a session and he's already your fin sub, surely that doesn't make you a pro Domme? or do you advertise your sessions openly? If its the second then have they any idea what they are getting for their money or do you do what you want to do regardless? Also does a client i.e. a paying customer also need to prove he's not in a relationship and using financial support to pay for the session? and do you have to connect before you do a session with someone (in the pro Domme context)

Some of the things you say make sense, some absolutely baffle me.

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Actually K I took a proper look at your profile. Your profile has a wish list and when you click on that wish list it takes you straight to a list of things you would like submissive males to buy you. Nobody has to be in contact with you first to buy you a gift. This contradicts what you said on post 1664 'Contrary to popular belief, the money isn't the ONLY connection to my subs.' So what are you saying? That someone who sends you a gift off your wish list, which they find by reading your profile, aren't anything to do with you? or they are something to do with you? Perhaps you should be a bit clearer in your profile because its hugely misleading. If you meant what you said on post 1664 there would be no wish list on your profile, the wish list would come once you connected with them.

You also say on your profile that you don't have some bullshit website and you only advertise on here as though that somehow makes you better than those women that do have websites?!?! I find that hugely offensive to every fin Domme and pro Domme that ever took the time to set up a website and why you said that truly has me baffled but never mind!

You have kept a very close eye on this thread and you have joined virtually every page in an effort to verify your kink. Its become a mission, not on behalf of fin Dommes but about how genuine you are. You rely on your popularity. You aren't one of these fin Dommes that never writes to forums and so only knows the men/women she speaks to in private. To date you have 5634 posts which makes you a very well known member of this community. It also means people won't say bad shit about you because you're a kind of 'friend'.



The more you say, the more you reveal yourself and I think that's the problem here, at least for me believing you that is! At the end of the day a ducks a duck and ducks, as you can see here, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wP6bmogGoCg are very clever actresses

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You have kept a very close eye on this thread and you have joined virtually every page in an effort to verify your kink. Its become a mission, not on behalf of fin Dommes but about how genuine you are. You rely on your popularity. You aren't one of these fin Dommes that never writes to forums and so only knows the men/women she speaks to in private. To date you have 5634 posts which makes you a very well known member of this community. It also means people won't say bad shit about you because you're a kind of 'friend'.

The reason this thread has not died is because she is keeping it going. From page 80 to here she's posted 26 times. At one point the moderators were locking other threads and referring posters here. I was told that the answer to my own findom question was here when in fact my own issue was never raised or addressed in this thread. I was also told that "everyone was sick of this topic" which upon looking at the forums at the time -- I agreed was true. It is a worn issue and it will recycle itself regularly.

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To me the most damning thing about this practice is how you never see the male participants describing their own positive experiences.

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
The reason this thread has not died is because she is keeping it going. From page 80 to here she's posted 26 times.

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At one point the moderators were locking other threads and referring posters here. I was told that the answer to my own findom question was here when in fact my own issue was never raised or addressed in this thread.

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To me the most damning thing about this practice is how you never see the male participants describing their own positive experiences.

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Actually I think the majority of regulars have stayed well away from this thread, at least once the amount of pages went beyond silly. Please don't misquote my words to make it look like I'm insulting the regulars. That's kind of manipulative don't you think?!? Most of the regulars on here don't want to get involved in a squabble with another regular user for obvious reasons, that doesn't mean they don't have backbones, it just means they like a peaceful life. Just because I'm known for throwing the cat amongst the pigeons, doesn't mean everyone will.

Actually the more you say, the more I don't understand. The more you write, the more confused I've become! What was it that made me change my mind from believing you to not believing you?

I don't have time to go through your post quoting snippets of it. Ill leave you to it, though I may come back and have a quick browse next month, next year or at some distant point in the future.