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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 11:18:58 AM

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You mean, you're not interested in servicing the crotch of a complete stranger? But you're a woman on the internet!

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 11:24:16 AM

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You mean, you're not interested in servicing the crotch of a complete stranger? But you're a woman on the internet!

Quote of the day worthy!

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 11:27:18 AM

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No matter what your profile says, you will get these kinds of invitations when some guy you've never spoken to plans to be in your town for one night. To be honest, I don't just block these folks. I return a mail saying that I have no interest in meeting somebody during their drive by. Then I block. Then, I hit that nice "mark as spam and delete" button.

To Me, there is a difference between meeting someone you've talked with on the boards or in mail from time to time, and somebody you've never heard of thinking you are a convenience because they happen to be in your town. I've done the former quite a few times. I have no interest in the latter.

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 11:32:42 AM

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OP, it is not just you as you can see. I get that all the time; I even get, I am thinking of moving to NJ so can you be my sub when I get there?

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 11:44:12 AM

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Are you telling me no then, Red?

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 12:02:55 PM

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Ignore and Block is the best bet. You cannot afford to spend any time on this crap. :-)

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 12:31:21 PM

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And Jeff? How is being someone's holiday entertainment a good thing?

I didn't read it that way. The invitation was to dinner. I didn't go further than that. I assumed that if, at dinner, he said "Let's go fuck like mad mincks up in my hotel room." then she'd say "no". Or even more ideally, she'd respond with (assuming other elements of the profile had any interest), "Sure, I'd love to have dinner with you but that is ALL it's going to be and I'll buy my own meal."

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 12:47:30 PM

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Really...grosssss!

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 12:47:43 PM

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And Jeff? How is being someone's holiday entertainment a good thing?

I didn't read it that way. The invitation was to dinner. I didn't go further than that. I assumed that if, at dinner, he said "Let's go fuck like mad mincks up in my hotel room." then she'd say "no". Or even more ideally, she'd respond with (assuming other elements of the profile had any interest), "Sure, I'd love to have dinner with you but that is ALL it's going to be and I'll buy my own meal."

I think you're seriously underestimating how often women get this type of request, and from what low class of male they tend to come.

When I still had my profile set to Western Slope, I'd get at least 2 emails a week along the lines of:

Him: Mistress/Ma'am/Godess I will be in your area next week/tomorrow/tonight, can I have dinner/coffee/come serve you
Me: In my area? Where exactly will you be?
Him: Denver Mistress/Ma'am/Godess
Me: Euhm yeah, that's a 7 hour drive from here

Never hear from him again.

In the few cases they've claimed the Western Slope wasn't an issue, and I've actually agreed to meet them, they never showed. Same when we where living in Chicago. They never show.
And that's because what they WILL do is, as soon as you agree to have coffee with them, start talking about kink/sex/play/fetish/hotel rooms and so on... EVER single one of them. So then, after I refuse to get into kink/sex/play/fetish/hotel rooms talk with them, they're not longer interested in meeting.

I always respond positively to those invites, because I have a rule that I'll meet anybody at least once for coffee, if it works out that that's possible without much hassle; and I've yet to find a single one of them that isn't literally looking for a one-night-stand/hooker-for-the-price-of-a-dinner. They'll send those emails off to every profile in the area, and hope that they'll get lucky enough to not have to spend the night away from the wife jerking off.

EVERY single one of them.

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 12:51:18 PM

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I don't think I would buy my own dinner though. Does that make me a horrible person? lol

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 12:53:59 PM

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I think you're seriously underestimating how often women get this type of request, and from what low class of male they tend to come.

Wanna have dinner with me?

More seriously, you're probably right.

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 1:02:04 PM

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Guys don't offer to buy a woman from the internet that they've never talked to dinner without the expectation of drive by domination.

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 1:03:56 PM

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I don't think I would buy my own dinner though. Does that make me a horrible person? lol

Even if it's better Bar B Q than you can get in Memphis?

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 1:18:00 PM

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Guys don't offer to buy a woman from the internet that they've never talked to dinner without the expectation of drive by domination.

Yeah. I think (as Ishtarr said also) that I'm blinded by naivete here. I might do such a thing. But as Carol routinely points out, I'm not a good example of "most guys". In my own head though it'd go something like this... "Well hey! That's an interesting profile and whodathunkit but I'm actually going to be in town and might be able to spare some time from business meetings for dinner." And I also have to admit that even for me it would be quite a bit more likely that such an invitation went to someone from these boards where there was already some degree of mutual "liking" if not attraction so it wouldn't seem weird to them at all.

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 1:43:20 PM

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"i'll give you 500, To tie my legs spreed wide open and use me as an ash tray."Here's another one...what does this even mean?????? WTFE

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 1:56:29 PM

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"i'll give you 500, To tie my legs spreed wide open and use me as an ash tray."Here's another one...what does this even mean?????? WTFE

I think many of us have had that particular one.

Really, these types of letters from someone traveling in that wants a booty call are so common I'm surprised you haven't had a ton of them by now. There isn't anything you are actively doing to encourage it, the fact that you are female and on this site is enough. There's no special selection process that set their eyes on you, your profile just happened to come up. One thing that cracks me up is lots of these offers get the spam warning attached to them, the idiots fire off letters to anyone and everyone in the hope that they'll get laid for free.

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 4:06:51 PM

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"i'll give you 500, To tie my legs spreed wide open and use me as an ash tray."Here's another one...what does this even mean?????? WTFE

Kana sez, "Why don't I ever get these offers from da wimmenvolken?"
Sigh. I must be doing something wrong.
It's the shoes isn't it?

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 4:43:55 PM

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"i'll give you 500, To tie my legs spreed wide open and use me as an ash tray."Here's another one...what does this even mean?????? WTFE

Kana sez, "Why don't I ever get these offers from da wimmenvolken?"
Sigh. I must be doing something wrong.
It's the shoes isn't it?

LOL lw...I don't get them either. No worries...I don;t miss them ;)

how've you been btw?

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 4:46:13 PM

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Are you telling me no then, Red?

Oh, Kana, if you were not taken I would meet you anytime. I might RUN after I meet you, but I would totally meet you.

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RE: HECK no..she won't go... - 8/30/2012 5:28:07 PM

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"i'll give you 500, To tie my legs spreed wide open and use me as an ash tray."Here's another one...what does this even mean?????? WTFE

Kana sez, "Why don't I ever get these offers from da wimmenvolken?"
Sigh. I must be doing something wrong.
It's the shoes isn't it?

No you are not doing anything wrong...and those shoes hurt my feet on occasion! ;)

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