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cuddleheart50 -> RE: Online training... (6/25/2006 10:19:22 AM)

I prefer my training in the field...[:D]



DivaZya -> RE: Online training... (6/25/2006 10:58:57 AM)

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I know and understand that most people in BDSM are into real time, but I'm not.
I'm exploring being a Domme online and perhaps will move to real time.
Meanwhile I'm looking for any info that you could point me to for learning, and online training?

The question seems innocent and the answer simple - till a glance at the profile .. that's just  s a d .

I suppose there's always going to be uneducateds to be sucked in by the 'possibility' of a local online mistress type, low self-esteem and married skulkers might toss away cash  in the hopes of a meeting as a tribute-  but online?  Distance? Based on that profile?
The poster better not make plans to buy popcorn while renting more fantasy.



sissikerin -> RE: Online training... (6/25/2006 11:21:28 AM)

I have done both online training and real time. And i must say that both can have their rewards. I would have to say that Real Time tends to be a bit more satisfing, however there is so much more to concern yourself with safety and exposure. Online does maintain an ellement of annonymity which can add to the experience.

What I have trouble with is all the Dom/mes out there demanding tributes. What do you think i'm made of money??  After paying rent, electricity, gas, water, insurance, car, fuel and food, i'm lucky to put asside $100 a month and from that comes all my entertainment including if i want to buy something pretty to wear. Do you think I'd want to just give it away so i can TALK to someone online???  NO WAY .  I don't understand why people demand tributes. Especially on a site like this. If you are a Pro Domme well then SPEND your money and ADVERTIZE on the site. But i feel the profiles here are for people in the lifestyle who just want to meet others. NOT to have their wallets raped or to be used as an ATM. I could get married for that! If that kind of financial domination is what is wanted by both parties great. Go for it. But I don't think it should be demanded for.



Samwhiplash -> RE: Online training... (6/25/2006 2:30:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
I think online training is a viable option for people who have the kind of imagination and enjoy reading/visualizing. I think more intelligent subs tend to find online training of interest, while the lesser intelligent ones or those focussed more on visuals can't get their head around the concept.  I think subs that can get off on online training are also not as lazy as those that look down on it.  It does take work; it means the sub has an active role in his training. He has to read, comprehend, write and stimulate a woman's mind, not just be a slab of meat for her to beat.

When I see guys scoff at online submission as something "less than" or not fulfilling, it tells me he's probably unable to get his brain around submission, and he's a physical sub more than anything.  It also means he probably doesn't enjoy reading or writing and can't woo a woman with his words.
Akasha



WOW.... i cldnt agree more.



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