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Online training... - 6/11/2006 9:20:50 PM

GoddesssJane

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I know and understand that most people in BDSM are into real time, but I'm not.
I'm exploring being a Domme online and perhaps will move to real time.
Meanwhile I'm looking for any info that you could point me to for learning, and online training?

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RE: Online training... - 6/11/2006 9:43:06 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddesssJane

I know and understand that most people in BDSM are into real time, but I'm not.
I'm exploring being a Domme online and perhaps will move to real time.
Meanwhile I'm looking for any info that you could point me to for learning, and online training?

I've done tons of online training (in addition to real life) and conduct group slave trainings on my site. I'm preparing to do an online training specifically geared toward women who want to learn to train slaves online. For those ladies that do not have a slave to experiment on, I will be providing them with a man they can "practice" on.

Information will be on my site soon, right now I am conducting a survey to find out how many women will need a slave to train. I'll have an application proceses for the "volunteer" slaves who want to be paired with the women, but they will likely be graduates of my past training programs because they've proven that they are not flakes and will finish what they start.

Have fun!

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RE: Online training... - 6/11/2006 10:53:27 PM

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Well, I could -- but you'd have to tribute me first ! lol
[ I read the profile]

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 12:50:00 AM

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Google, is a marvelous thing. Try that.

Ask a Dom/me section is a good resource on here.

Literotica has some really good female Domme members that i respect. They post regularly, and ive learned a lot from them all. Even though the path i chose became that of a submissive.

check out frugal domme too, as these toys can cost a pretty penny. But most can be reproduced to greater or lesser degree, at a fraction of the cost of the BD$M.

I certainly intially intended my Domliness to remain in cyber space. I didnt want my pussy let out of the bag. But then a 'friend' took me to a BDSM night. And online, just was never gonna cut it anymore!
But for me, i sought the protection of the anomyninity on line only provides. When i was ready, (frustrated) i stepped out. But at my own pace.
I wish you the best of luck.
There are plenty of free resources all around you. Even just here at collarme. Use that resource to help you along. You should never have to 'pay' for advice in this lifestyle. Go to a munch, meet people in the lifestyle, say that your on line only unless You change your mind. Be honest about it. Just attend the munches as a On line only Domme. You can still meet people this way. You dont have to play with them. Just talk. You'll hear all sorts of advice. And some of it will 'click' for you, the rest you store or forget.
No money needed, no tributes needed, no attitude needed. Just acceptance. That's not a bad membership to have. Sadly, i find it lacking in chat and 'on line' relationships. You i hope do not.
all the best
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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 3:40:58 AM

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Well, I could -- but you'd have to tribute me first ! lol
[ I read the profile]

LMAO cacodylic.

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 3:52:45 AM

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I'm only assuming here, but you could try gogglin' cyber-pimpin' made easy for selfproclaimed superior couple, domme goddess or whatever My twisted mind interpreted from your post and profile comments.
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ORIGINAL: GoddesssJane

I know and understand that most people in BDSM are into real time, but I'm not.
I'm exploring being a Domme online and perhaps will move to real time.
Meanwhile I'm looking for any info that you could point me to for learning, and online training?

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 4:45:37 AM

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I have my thoughts on paper if you'd like to read..email at [email protected]

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 5:42:49 AM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_330497/mpage_1/key_online%252Ctraining/tm.htm#330497
subs or slaves online

http://www.collarchat.com/m_196019/mpage_1/key_online%252Ctraining/tm.htm#196019
online training vs real life training

http://www.collarchat.com/m_196019/mpage_1/key_online%252Ctraining/tm.htm#196019
online slaves

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 5:52:01 AM

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I would suggest networking with other Pro Dommes on the "BDSM" arts of: "consentual blackmail, wallet raping, human atm's" and "Tributes will be expected !"

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 6:17:12 AM

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Are you related to the couple looking for webcam training?

You aren't serious???

Seek counsel in the words of PT Barnum.

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 7:40:01 AM

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IMHO......online ANYTHING is not near as fulfilling as real time.......why not go rock climbing online? go to a virtual football game or something like that? oh wait.....it might just be better to shell out your credit card number to every bot on the net.....
yawn......
read a book......get some porn.....or just get off your lazy behind & go look for whatever it is you want instead of asking for a dad-burn handout.........

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 10:27:40 AM

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Superior couple with the female as the main domme, into cuckhold slaves, humilation,sissies,forced bi, consentual blackmail,wallet raping, human atm's
Tributes will be expect !THIS has-to be some kind of joke

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 10:50:09 AM

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Just a comment. I don't think I will ever understand the need for some to ridicule another - for any reason. Does it make people feel more important to do so? So the OP is discovering herself. Many start out online because they feel it is safer. So let's all beat our chests and condemn them, because we don't agree with that method, shall we?

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 10:52:26 AM

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Why would anyone choose online training over real time training? I would just like to understand the reasoning behind this decision.

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 11:05:06 AM

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On-line anything doesn't even compare to the real thing. Yes, it may be safer, but you never really know who you are dealing with. You can be anything you want to be on-line. Give me the real thing any day and you will never be disappointed with me!!

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 11:42:38 AM

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Granted, and yes it's a given, r/t, offline, face to face - definately is always the better option.. however.. It's not always an option everyone has. Rather than not getting any needs met at all, some settle for what they can get. I realize some of you insist on having it your way, and if you can, and find that certain someone who can be with you in r/t..well, happy happy, joy joy for you..but not all of us are afforded that luxury.. so why would anyone want it? Because sometimes it's all we can get. Thank you Akasha and others who can see past their own little lives for answering this question, I am sure Goddess Jane and others like myself appreciate your effort to be sincere with this.

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 11:50:49 AM

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i was never being insincere. i was genuinely interested in the reasoning behind online training. is it not more difficult than r/t?

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 12:00:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: litleone8620

i was never being insincere. i was genuinely interested in the reasoning behind online training. is it not more difficult than r/t?

I think online training is a viable option for people who have the kind of imagination and enjoy reading/visualizing. I think more intelligent subs tend to find online training of interest, while the lesser intelligent ones or those focussed more on visuals can't get their head around the concept. I think subs that can get off on online training are also not as lazy as those that look down on it. It does take work; it means the sub has an active role in his training. He has to read, comprehend, write and stimulate a woman's mind, not just be a slab of meat for her to beat.

When I see guys scoff at online submission as something "less than" or not fulfilling, it tells me he's probably unable to get his brain around submission, and he's a physical sub more than anything. It also means he probably doesn't enjoy reading or writing and can't woo a woman with his words.

The BEST submissives I have had were also engaging and dynamic online. The ones that said they would never do online training or thought it was a waste were pretty flat in real life.

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 12:05:42 PM

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It is extremely more difficult, and anyone who really wants it, and not just wanting a quickie cyber scene has to have the patience of a saint. I can understand why some people don't understand it, and I definitely understand why it's generally not preferred, but that doesn't mean it can't still be rewarding to both the Dom/me and the sub. Submitting online takes TRUE submission. Yes there are a lot of pitfalls, but it is so in r/t as well (yes I have experienced both). It takes time, trust, love, patience, and lots and lots of understanding as well as accepting mistakes and moving past them - learning and living.. not much different there than in real life is it? Now, I have experienced two types of online training.. cyber "text based" training..and cam (and other tech devices) training. The difference? Well, one leaves more to the imagination. If it's all text, then you better make sure the person on the other side is for real, and there is a LOT of trust involved. Honestly more can be done with text..and it takes a person who doesn't need every little thing to be physical to be able to accept it. Some need mostly physical, and that's OK..then the best I can suggest there is seek out r/t as best as you can.. Not saying it can't be physical at all tho, 'cause it can, just not as much. It's true, nothing will ever replace the touch of someone. No thought, words of text, or picture can replace it..but to submit when it's not available..takes a true submissive / slave.. no gift of submission in my honest opinion could be more true.

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RE: Online training... - 6/12/2006 12:19:03 PM

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I am not looking down on online training. i understand it takes a person of higher intellect, not to mention patience, imagination, trust, etc. But everyone has their own preferences, and kudos to anyone who is willing to enter into the world of online training and even online BDSM. I apologize if i offended anyone. My comments weren't meant as such.

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