nephandi
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Joined: 9/23/2005
From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen!
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Greetings
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nephandi...thank-you!
your thoughts helped me understand better!
You are welcome.
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ladyH...UGHH! I have learned again!
I promise to never use the word abnormal to a Dom.
I wish I was more educated in life of Femdom.
I would not really recommend calling anyone abnormal, well not unless they dress like a psychobilly and really look like they might enjoy it. We are not talking about what is protocol for Femdoms here we are talking about general politeness and common sense.
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But I did feel that I was being judged by the other Mistress only due to the fact that I did not understand the protocol of doms and femdom.
We all started out as rookies at one time or another.
The reason why you are being judged is not that you are a newbie when it comes to BDSM and Femdoms, it is that you think there is some special way to communicate with female Dominants and that normal rules of politeness do not apply. These women are not part of some secret sect, they are women who just happen to be Dominant. There is no deep and secret way of the Femdom if you act like a normal human being meeting another normal human being that will do the trick. Now if you get into a relationship then perhaps there will be special protocols within that relationship, or there might be groups that have special forms of etiquette, but before such a relationship is established and with everyone not involved with it just treat female Dominants as people and not like the kinkomat 3000 and you will be all right.
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And my harsh words upsets me most when I realize that i offended you and was disrespectful!
I did not feel that that others had the same kindness though, hence my rude comments.
This forum is a generally friendly place but it's members tend to not suffer fools lightly, not that I am calling you a fool. However if you come in and treat Dominant women as kinkomats then you will ruffle a few feathers and have to expect a few biting remarks in return.
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There seems to be some analytical observations regarding this fetish and rudenss.
What about ass fetish and foot fetish combined?
What do this have to do with rudeness?
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I also have a serious foot fetist. sexy toes and feet, hi heels stockings, bare feet in sandals.
The scent of a womans foot after she has been in hi heels all day or scandals.
I wonder- psychologically how all that comes into play!
Why a person have a given fetish is very individual, there is no one, universal reason. You have to go in yourself and figure out why you like what you do, or just shrug and say I like this and this and just go with it. None can tell you why you have a given kink.
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btw, I do have someone in my life who allows me to perform a lot of oral upon her backside as she enjoys that...deep kissing and licking....I am going to learn to be patient and just keep it there!
I like to show bananas up my twat until banana milkshake pours out of my ears, I then gather this up in glasses and sell, you would not believe how much money there is in twat banana milkshakes. I take the money I earn and buy horror blu rays for. Now we both have shared something the rest of the forum probably did not want to know.
I wish you well
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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 
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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 
Enjoy your opinion if it helps you hide from the fact that I called you out on a couple things, like admitting to manipulating women to get what you want and in the next breath talking about sincerity and integrity. With a quick followup to cover your inconsistencies or words, by claiming to be new, needing to learn, not knowing the femdom world, etc. Then you decided to tell us just how much power was in your kink and how great it would be for us. You are thirty nine years old... some of this isn't lifestyle or kinky stuff... just men and women and you don't show much respect for women if you admittedly must manipulate them to get what you want, whether you are d/s or vanilla. Crying foul when someone points out your inconsistencies or maybe even your motivation and telling you that a dominant such as myself wouldn't put up with that and would see you coming a mile away is a response to your very own words and why I could see you coming a mile away. 
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