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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 1:20:50 PM   
nephandi


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quote:

I do not care for bananas, but papaya is good!


I do not know, that fruit got spikes, showing it up my twat sounds painful. :P

quote:

(and can you do blueberries as well? I've been craving blueberries lately....)


One twat and earwax blueberry milkshake coming up. :P

But back to the topic I think the part of the problem here comes with the but is it not something so Dominating in doing scat post, that is trying to force one's own kink onto someone else. The problem is that most people do not associate answering nature's call with Dominance or submission, now there is nothing wrong with the fetish but to say should you not feel that this is the most Dominating thing in the world is trying to direct what others should feel.

I have a sort of rare kink, if you want to call it a kink, I am into Occult BDSM, doing sex magick though with BDSM. I have met a few people interested in this but not to many. If I went and said to random Dominants no matter what their interests was. For you doing BDSM sex magick must be the hight of Dominance, that is rude for it is ascribing ideas to them that they do not have.

Also the OP want to meet someone with no demands and requirements on her own that are willing to do toilet play with him, and he do present these Dominant ladies as very demanding and as if they are asking to much for not just saying ok whatever you want and that many see as a ptoblem as well, most will not just hop from a cup of coffee into fulfilling someone's kink on order unless they are paid to do it.

I wish you all well

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 1:21:42 PM   
Kmm7162


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Status: offline 		Ladypact, the relationship with the person in question is a friend with benefit. My current situation with her is non relationship type....this is what we both agreed to.
So you're telling me that NO one wants to hear about my THING...my fetish, my kink?
Answer me one question then!
Why all the responses?
I find it quite amusing...that statement!
If I come across as boorish or self-centered or self-interested in my fetish, why all the responses.
As I told the one guy yesterday..the one who said stop watching porn, if you do not have any constructive input, why comment then?
People reading this- allow me to say this bluntly!!
If you dont care about this thread, if you dont like me, if you think I am a freak, if you think that I am self-centered, or that this is JUST My thing......dont bother reading, dont bother posting!
And answer this question!
Why do you care? Leave this thread alone if you find this as a self-serving opportunity for a man who really has no idea how to understand and treat a Dom.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 1:26:30 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 1:26:58 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		You've made it reasonably clear that you don't know how to treat a dominant, or strangers on the internet, so your defensiveness is disingenuous at best.

What LP is referring to is your "lick and tell", if you will. Once upon a time, people I was intimate with were on the boards here. We did not discuss what we did in private as if it was a story for public consumption. Some people have agreements where they can speak much more openly. Most of us are not like that.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 1:31:53 PM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: Kmm7162

Ladypact, the relationship with the person in question is a friend with benefit. My current situation with her is non relationship type....this is what we both agreed to.
So you're telling me that NO one wants to hear about my THING...my fetish, my kink?
Answer me one question then!
Why all the responses?
I find it quite amusing...that statement!
If I come across as boorish or self-centered or self-interested in my fetish, why all the responses.
As I told the one guy yesterday..the one who said stop watching porn, if you do not have any constructive input, why comment then?
People reading this- allow me to say this bluntly!!
If you dont care about this thread, if you dont like me, if you think I am a freak, if you think that I am self-centered, or that this is JUST My thing......dont bother reading, dont bother posting!
And answer this question!
Why do you care? Leave this thread alone if you find this as a self-serving opportunity for a man who really has no idea how to understand and treat a Dom.



People posting on or viewing a thread is not indicative of support or agreement. Not one poster here has said they are into this kink, in fact OP, you keep hearing how hard it will be for you to find a partner. Yes, you are acting whiny, boorish, self-centered, and passive aggressive - which is why anyone is paying attention. Because it's a bit of fun to see someone act so foolishly.

People can post however they like, you can't dictate the responses. if you wanted better responses then you should have paid more attention to presenting your fetish and this thread in a better light, you had the chance to give people something positive to think about but you blew it instead. So instead of being a thought provoking spokesperson for toilet slavery, you have covered the subject in the same old passive aggressive complaining manner that's been done to death. Congrats.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 1:38:07 PM   
RedMagic1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kmm7162

Ladypact, the relationship with the person in question is a friend with benefit. My current situation with her is non relationship type....this is what we both agreed to.
So you're telling me that NO one wants to hear about my THING...my fetish, my kink?
Answer me one question then!
Why all the responses?
I find it quite amusing...that statement!
If I come across as boorish or self-centered or self-interested in my fetish, why all the responses.
As I told the one guy yesterday..the one who said stop watching porn, if you do not have any constructive input, why comment then?
People reading this- allow me to say this bluntly!!
If you dont care about this thread, if you dont like me, if you think I am a freak, if you think that I am self-centered, or that this is JUST My thing......dont bother reading, dont bother posting!
And answer this question!
Why do you care? Leave this thread alone if you find this as a self-serving opportunity for a man who really has no idea how to understand and treat a Dom.


I, too, believe you would benefit from watching less porn, and attending more kink events to meet people in real life.

People aren't impressed with your conversation skills because you were so inappropriate with Lockit. If you actually knew how to talk with strong women, you'd be getting much more information than you are right now. Maybe stop posting like a manipulator? If you sound as though you sincerely care about the feelings of others, you'll get more slack.

Of course, I'm a guy, so I'm simply wrong. If I were a woman, I'd be so mentally broken for challenging you that I would need lots of therapy, until I saw the truth of your words.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 2:51:04 PM   
Baroana


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Status: offline 		He fully admitted early on to being a manipulative do-me sub. I counted myself out of the discussion at that point. It sounded like everybody was already in agreement.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 3:05:38 PM   
nephandi


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The problem here is not the kink in question, yes this kink is rare but it is not that rare and there have been multiple threads about it. The problem is that there is no question here other than is is possible to find a Dominant woman who will cater to X kink and ask nothing in return? Now this was answered quickly with yes it is possible but you either have to pay for it or be prepared to look for a long time, our OP was not happy with that answer as off course the question was more this:

I am horny, I want someone to fulfill this desire for me right now and I do not want to do anything in return and I feel that you all are terribly unfair who do not want to do this.

Now if the OP want a thread about toilet play, then let us have a thread about that, the dangers, how it can be done safely or at least safer, how to avoid mess, techniques and the like, that would be a interesting thread and could attract those interested in that kink. Do me, do me, do me and you are an idiot if you don't however do not create serious debate.

So again OP what are the point of this thread, what are you looking for, if you are looking for information on the kink itself ask about that, if you are looking for ideas on how to meet the kind of person you are looking for then ask about that, and also when someone give you a answer you do not like do not see that as an attack, take it to heart or not but do not start attacking anyone who do not say off course you kink is very common, every Dominant woman want to do it and anyone who do not want to do it to you are douches, literary.

However folks, let us not attack the kink for that in itself is not so rare, it is finding someone who will do it and ask nothing in return which are rare.

I wish you all well

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 3:13:47 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I think we've done well enough without knocking the kink this go round. And really, this isn't an EW kink to me, just not a thing I care to engage in.

Nephandi, thank you for posting about the use of the word 'essence', that was elegantly put, as usual. I'm so glad you're back to posting outside the Gorean area again!

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 3:32:25 PM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		So far, his point has been: to argue with other posters and tell them that they're wrong and he's right, to tell posters to not participate in the thread, unless its something he wants to hear, and to get more and more detailed in providing fap fodder - with the hope that he'll get some in return.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 3:38:09 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		We found out that Nephandi likes nanners! Worthwhile for that alone, I say.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 3:45:54 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

In a universe of infinite possibility, everything exists.

Be prepared to shell out a lot of money to a professional, or look for a long time.


WOW!!!!

That was incredibly well said!

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 3:58:27 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		JJ what is UP? Just tell me what you want, hon. I probably won't say yes, but you never know.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 4:25:49 PM   
Killerangel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

So far, his point has been: to argue with other posters and tell them that they're wrong and he's right, to tell posters to not participate in the thread, unless its something he wants to hear, and to get more and more detailed in providing fap fodder - with the hope that he'll get some in return.


The underlined is the part that's pivotal to me. As LadyHib said about his using coy language to intersperse his postings with inappropriate descriptions of his kink - it's like he thinks if he throws his stuff out there in an obviously loving manner, then some of that will rub off on someone, and he'll find someone that will return the love, or come around to his side. As it is though, his coquettish phrases firmly puts his postings into wank territory which makes the whole thing just blech.....

You know, I wouldn't mind discussing toilet slavery as a subject, but I do mind when someone tries to be manipulative and then whines about the negative reactions that come his way. Kind of like some points made in the food/animal thread- it's hard to discuss something when some discussion participants aren't capable of being objective. I never react well to trying to be pushed into an opinion.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 4:36:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

JJ what is UP? Just tell me what you want, hon. I probably won't say yes, but you never know.


Mortgage paid, big titty women at home when I arrive (regardless of the time...several, by the way....at least 3 chawing down on each other as I unlock the door...each of which, by the way, looking at me adoringly...as if what they'd just done wasn't enough but....here's JJ to save the day), be 175 lbs (me), humongous cock (slightly larger than my current 17 inch one....soft...larger if enticed), mini van cleaned out every day I get into it (fucking love my mini vans)....with Marlboro's (always) in the visor, running track that calls out to me every morning and says "JJ.....get your FUCKING fat ass over here" and won't let me leave until I run 12 miles (or....lose 7 lbs)....

Simple things.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 4:46:30 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		You're rich as Croesus, JJ, you can make alla that happen! Easier than this poopster can get his wish fulfilled!

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 4:47:35 PM   
JanahX


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it's hard to discuss something when some discussion participants aren't capable of being objective.


Or capable of wanting to discuss what he came here for and just wants to jerk his junk.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 5:02:51 PM   
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You're rich as Croesus, JJ, you can make alla that happen! Easier than this poopster can get his wish fulfilled!


Yes but, last week I had to (for the first time in 16 years) hire someone to handle all the $100.00's coming in.

I'm telling you....it ain't easy being me.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 5:03:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You're rich as Croesus, JJ, you can make alla that happen! Easier than this poopster can get his wish fulfilled!



And...just for the record....Croesus was a punk.

But I respect what he brought to the table.

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RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress - 9/6/2012 5:09:01 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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