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Housework - 9/9/2012 7:32:10 AM

nerd4BBWPrincess

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Hello everyone,

I posted this in my journal, but I thought I would share this here too!

I was thinking quite a bit today about the idea of housework and my affinity for it. I have always enjoyed cleaning and organizing to one extent or another; it might be the feeling of accomplishment when I complete certain tasks or just the feeling of control over something in my life. But, it was not until my adult life that I really took to housework. At the basis of any relationship (friend, roommate, or committed partner) are trust and the desire to provide a safe and clean household for another person.

I can remember even with platonic roommates I would often stay home when they were out and surprise them with a sparkling clean house when they returned; the feeling was so good to have provided something based in love and adulation with no expectation of reciprocation.

In my relationships that I have had with women my feelings have been exponentially heightened, housework fills my heart with purpose, love and excitement. I would argue that offering to do housework for someone is not a cold exchange or humiliation, in contrast I feel that it is an extremely intimate and selfless act that gives both parties joy.

On my end I’m helping provide that safe and clean household and for the recipient letting someone into your house to clean your most precious things is very intimate and without trust would not be possible. At the root of all things people all seek the same things; to be loved, to give love and a sense of purpose and my housework services achieve all three; in my opinion that is a beautiful thing!

Robert

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 7:33:45 AM

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ok, no relationship, but feel free to come clean my house. Just for that awesome feeling you get out of it ;)

ETA: that does include the cat boxes...

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 7:52:29 AM

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That's lovely. You may wanna touch base with hausboy - he lives in Baltimore and also has a strong service orientation.

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 8:38:06 AM

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Thank you for your response Ms. GreedyTop, I do love cats!

Love,

Robert

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 8:39:42 AM

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I need somebody like you in my life, my house is a mess and I'm bad at organizing. I also have cats.

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 8:45:59 AM

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Hello Greta75,

Thank you for the nice response! I have never been to Singapore, I bet it is beautiful there.

Love,

Robert

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 8:51:39 AM

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Thank you Sir!

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 11:11:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: nerd4BBWPrincess

Hello everyone,

I posted this in my journal, but I thought I would share this here too!

I was thinking quite a bit today about the idea of housework and my affinity for it. I have always enjoyed cleaning and organizing to one extent or another; it might be the feeling of accomplishment when I complete certain tasks or just the feeling of control over something in my life. But, it was not until my adult life that I really took to housework. At the basis of any relationship (friend, roommate, or committed partner) are trust and the desire to provide a safe and clean household for another person.

I can remember even with platonic roommates I would often stay home when they were out and surprise them with a sparkling clean house when they returned; the feeling was so good to have provided something based in love and adulation with no expectation of reciprocation.

In my relationships that I have had with women my feelings have been exponentially heightened, housework fills my heart with purpose, love and excitement. I would argue that offering to do housework for someone is not a cold exchange or humiliation, in contrast I feel that it is an extremely intimate and selfless act that gives both parties joy.

On my end I’m helping provide that safe and clean household and for the recipient letting someone into your house to clean your most precious things is very intimate and without trust would not be possible. At the root of all things people all seek the same things; to be loved, to give love and a sense of purpose and my housework services achieve all three; in my opinion that is a beautiful thing!

Robert

I was thinking about housework today as well.

Didn't last very long.

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 11:16:59 AM

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Yeah I thought about it some.

How do you feel about grey parrot dust? And grey parrot shredded magazines. And fine blood spray?

Thought so.

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 11:18:03 AM

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I'm waiting for the home repair slave... the one that loves tools and tool belts and is actually handy and loves to serve for less than thirty five an hour.

I can clean... but this remodel stuff is killing my action! Or is it that I am cranky. I think I am just cranky.

Its nice to see someone that takes pleasure in pleasing... hard find in my neck of the city. Kudos OP.

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 11:18:28 AM

GreedyTop

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give Jeddie Auntie Greedy scritchies and lovins!!

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 11:19:53 AM

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I will!! He is a messy lovey guy!!

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 11:31:42 AM

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Oh well....with my moving mess here you are more than welcome to clean up here....this chaos just never seems to stop....i have hills of laundry to do as well....cause as i moved a few times in the last year i decided to wash them all before hanging them into my new wardrobe....and i have a fair amount of them

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 12:46:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

I'm waiting for the home repair slave... the one that loves tools and tool belts and is actually handy and loves to serve for less than thirty five an hour.

I can clean... but this remodel stuff is killing my action! Or is it that I am cranky. I think I am just cranky.

Its nice to see someone that takes pleasure in pleasing... hard find in my neck of the city. Kudos OP.

Have I mentioned I gutted our early. 1900s schoolhouse? Down to the studs. Move some walls moved a staircase. New plumbing new electric. Designed and had made stainless steel countertops, ( 1 of the advantages of working in the sheet metal business). I'd only hired out insulation and drywall.

All you gotta do is move 300 miles to the east.:)

OH! And I can fit about 6 people in my shower room:)

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 1:08:13 PM

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I don't know whether to sob or thank you for my wet panties.

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 2:46:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

I don't know whether to sob or thank you for my wet panties.

You are making mine wet.

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 2:52:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

I'm waiting for the home repair slave... the one that loves tools and tool belts and is actually handy and loves to serve for less than thirty five an hour.

I hear ya! We bought a fixer and pretty much everything needs to be done.

I have a male sub that contacts me about once a month. He's a cuck and a contractor. He'd love to come work on our house, knowing that I'm belong to Master. Master and I have discussed it, and it really just came down to Master not being comfortable letting a stranger into the house with me when I'm alone.

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 5:36:03 PM

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I use to have a butler (male sub) that did my housework, laundry, ran errands, and did home improve. Damn do I ever miss that. Acts of service is my primary love language, so there's really nothing that comes close to seeing a man running about, dusting and mopping and tidying up, while I sip wine and give directions and "good boys." He didn't want anything in return, but I did still let him use my washer and dryer and cooked for him at least one night a week.

I'm damn near desperate to find someone like that again. Someone like the OP... but damn, I'm no BBW... more like a PPD (pretty petite domme LMAO)

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 7:30:20 PM

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I can't say I have an affinity for housework. (Though in some circumstances, I do.)

I do, though, love organization. More specifically, I love the promise of organization. Lists, graphs, containers, labels, compartments. Give me a messy junk drawer and some small empty boxes and I'm in heaven.

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RE: Housework - 9/9/2012 7:35:51 PM

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God bless domestic subs/slaves/servants.

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