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kinkiboiuk -> Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 3:19:49 AM)

I've been 100% gay throughout my life but suddenly have the urge to be dominated by a sexy slim woman. I have this fantasy for being stripped, tied up and blindfolded and made to suck your tits and lick you out and forced to fuck you with my thick 7.5" cock. We'd both be wearing sexy stockings. Would like to go further and maybe try that as a threesome with a couple!

I live in Bristol so someone in the local area would be great.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 3:35:37 AM)

Good luck with that. There are a few male subs waiting for a gorgeous woman to make all their fantasies come true for free. Take a number, wait in line. You are about number 46, 678, 243



kinkiboiuk -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:14:41 AM)

nice friendly start to my experience on here thanks!



MissAsylum -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:22:16 AM)

Athena gave you some sound advice- no need to be sour with it.

In any event, I also wish you good luck. May that woman know what a privilege it is to be used to fulfill your fantasy.



searching4mysir -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:22:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kinkiboiuk

nice friendly start to my experience on here thanks!



What do you expect when you try to turn a dominant woman into a fetish delivery system? She is a person FIRST, and because she is dominant, what YOU want is secondary to what she wants. Since dominant women are in the minority, what do you actually have to offer her besides your cock?

Cocks are a dime a dozen around here. You'll have to bring more than that to the table, cupcake, unless you feel like paying for it.




LadyPact -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:25:50 AM)

Well, dude, what do you expect?

Chicks aren't like guys. We're not jumping up and down for some dude who wants to use us for their fantasies. Any female worth her salt can get what you're offering any day of the week and twice on Sunday. Have you got any idea how often we hear the same offer that you've posted?

Do you want to know the clue to getting on around here? Just talk to us like you would anybody else. We probably don't want to fuck ya or hear about your sexual exploits. We're people, just like you are.



kinkiboiuk -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:32:28 AM)

I wasn't making any attempt to belittle a woman whatsoever! I thought this was a site to share experiences, clearly I was mistaken.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:38:20 AM)


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ORIGINAL: kinkiboiuk

nice friendly start to my experience on here thanks!


The thing is, when you join a new forum, it's a good idea to read the threads first, get a general feel for the place and the people. That way you can relate to people and contribute right off the bat. If you'd done that, you'd know that there are an awful lot of guys round here looking for dominant women to act out their particular fantasies - really huge amounts. And coming in with 'this is the sex I'd like you to have with me' is rude to them.

Think of it this way - what does the woman get out of your deal? They can get someone to fuck any day of the week. Wanting to eat pussy is not a rare thing. Your scenario is all about you, which kind of defeats the point of submitting to someone else's will. You're essentially asking someone to do you a favour, but what are you offering in return? Not a relationship. Not their fantasies, because you already have something very specific in mind. You're not offering any type of service or skill in exchange. All you're offering is your penis, and there are more than enough penises to go around.

If you want something special, you need to be special. You need to demonstrate why you are the one this dominant woman should pick over all the others wanting the same thing.

But what you did was the equivalent of walking into a bar and shouting 'hey ladies, who wants to make me cum?' It makes you look vain and socially clueless. Now I'm sure there's more to you than that, but because you didn't take any time to figure out how things work around here, this is how you came off.

So your options -
1 - get into a relationship with a woman. Not necessarily boyfriend/girlfriend, but a real friendship, a relationship with some respect where she thinks 'hey, he's a good guy, I would like to fuck him/help him out'. Understand that this will involve some give and take, such as including some of her kinks and fantasies, not just yours. Maybe she likes wax play, or dress up, or tease and denial.
2 - keep running your personal ad and hope that somehow you stand out from all the other guys looking for one hot night
3 - pay someone to do it your way

Maybe it wasn't very friendly. But neither was your first post. It basically read 'you lucky things, you get the chance to do me!'



MissAsylum -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:40:34 AM)


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ORIGINAL: kinkiboiuk

I wasn't making any attempt to belittle a woman whatsoever!

And yet, you still did.

I thought this was a site to share experiences, clearly I was mistaken.

This wasn't "sharing an experience". Don't try to kid yourself. You're looking for a Dominant woman who will follow your fantasy down to the deal while letting you fuck her silly. And this offer is supposed to be appealing just because you are gay/bi curious?

HA.

I've gotten offers like this at least 3 times a month. Threesome included. Each as rude and disgusting as the last.

So as Athena said, get in line and take a number. If you're waiting for a Domme to clamor to your feet for this, you'll be waiting a long time.





LadyPact -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:44:30 AM)

You're not sharing an experience. You're talking about a fantasy. Do you really not see the difference?

Here. I'll try to help you out.......

Men who want to be dominated are a dime a dozen. I shit you not. I'd stick you on your knees sucking somebody else off before I'd let you between My legs. (Hey, it would be a party, 'cause I'm into that.) And, I can guarant-damn-tee you that you wouldn't be the first.

Now, be nice. Say hello to the good folks here and treat them with the same dignity that you would anybody else where you weren't thinking with your cock first. Then, you and I will get along just fine.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:55:18 AM)

Hey OP you live in a very vibrant kink area & an hour from the current kin k caopital of the UK, Birmingham. Get yerself to the BBB & the afterparty & someone might find your offer to their advantage.

Good luck & welcome to the fun side of CM.



kinkiboiuk -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 4:57:50 AM)

You really are all getting me wrong, looking at where I've placed this ad I can see why, wrong thread! I'm going to leave this one here as I've started a thread which is now full of misconceptions of what you think I meant and what you think of me.

I am happy to start again Lady Pact! My name is Kinkiboi and I'm a homosexual! :) I'm a male dom in the gay world, sometimes a slave and what I was trying to put across was I wanted to please a woman by them having me restrained and being able to do what they wanted with me. I'm have total respect for women.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 5:13:20 AM)

Hi Kinki! Welcome to the site. I second what Nine said about going to the Bizarre Bazaar if you haven't already been. It was my first ever kink community experience, though it sounds like you're already ahead of me in that respect.

It's fine to share that you have this desire, but on a discussion board, things go down better if you leave us something to discuss. Your post was more of a personal ad for a very specific sex act. And as a dom yourself, you must see the inherent contradiction in saying 'I want to please a woman by acting out my own fantasy'. Right? Would you say a sub was serving you if they were calling all the shots? There's nothing wrong with what you want, but it's not so much 'being used' and 'having things done to me'.

PS. I looked at your pictures and thought the one with the hoody and white undies was the hottest. [;)] Just for market research purposes.



kinkiboiuk -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 5:19:00 AM)

I shall head off to Bizarre Bazaar forthwith! That's what I meant about placing it in the wrong place! So my fault there.

I suppose as a Dom who's an occasional switch you do bring ideas to the table when of course the Dom would be calling the shots! It's hard to be a messed up slave boy!

Thanks for the kind words re my pics! :)



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 5:24:25 AM)

Hey OP (whispers)

I'll let you in on a secret. I don't recall talking kink in a serious way here. The best way to get on with these Domme chicks is to talk about shoes or cake or knitting. Anything but sex., It's not how you'd chat someone up in a bar so why will it work here. This bit of CM is about shooting the shit & not being a complete knob (lord knows I've tried my best)

Just kick back & enjoy the baddinage.



LadyPact -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 5:49:02 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkiboiuk

You really are all getting me wrong, looking at where I've placed this ad I can see why, wrong thread! I'm going to leave this one here as I've started a thread which is now full of misconceptions of what you think I meant and what you think of me.

I am happy to start again Lady Pact! My name is Kinkiboi and I'm a homosexual! :) I'm a male dom in the gay world, sometimes a slave and what I was trying to put across was I wanted to please a woman by them having me restrained and being able to do what they wanted with me. I'm have total respect for women.

That's better.

Hi. I'm LP. Nice to make your acquaintance.

Hey, we've got stuff in common. (I really was serious about that man on man thing.)

I hear that Bristol is quite lovely. Much more pleasurable than where I live. Of course, if you'd ever like to visit, that putting you on your knees thing still applies.


Kidding! Kidding!

(OK, maybe not entirely.)

Welcome aboard.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 8:48:18 AM)

This thread has brought lulz. Ta.



Alecta -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 11:36:26 AM)

I call shenanigans. No way he's really gay if one fantasy fuck would turn him bi. No flamin' way.
source: gay guys.

which begs the question "how often since the 80s has this gambit worked?"



PeonForHer -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 3:00:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Hey, we've got stuff in common. (I really was serious about that man on man thing.)

I hear that Bristol is quite lovely.


Been doing some thinking about possibilities, LP? ;-)



LadyPact -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 3:03:19 PM)

If you didn't know Me so well, I'd say you were being cheeky.

Though, I will admit the random thought has crossed My mind. [;)]



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