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Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 8:36:24 PM   
focalss


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Status: offline 		Have any of the dominant women ever wanted a sub secretary, assistant or other type of worker (not housework)? I haven't really seen anything on this idea but the idea is exciting to me.

It could be like the Woman boss taking advantage of the male secretary, with the man on his knees under her desk then typing her letters or doing office work or secretly being her submissive and working for her for real in a subordinate role where she manages him or a woman with her own business who needs help doing bookkeeping or other work.

I see alot of the men offering housework but not too much on women wanting an assistant.
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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 8:57:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		If she wants an assistant, then she'll want someone who has good skills. No stuff about on your knees.

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 9:07:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		If I need an assistant, he will be there to work. He's not going anywhere near my 'business' while business is being conducted. And since I type 100 wpm with 100% accuracy, I don't think I need an assistant.

Why oh why are the housework, pool-boy and secretary-wannabe subs so surprised they actually have to DO the work instead of fantasizing the setting as their fetish stage?



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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 9:35:01 PM   
focalss


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Status: offline 		Why do people make assumptions about the question that the sub isn't interested in doing real work which is what I asked.

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 9:52:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think it's the "under her desk" phrasing above.

I'm not sure why it's not a more common fantasy. I know that, if I had an office, it would likely be to work on writing/creative pursuits/etc, and I wouldn't want an assistant (submissive or otherwise) around just because they'd distract from my process. If I had actual work that would distract me from my creative process I might be interested in one, and having a submissive in that role would appeal to me in the same way other power dynamics do, but even then, the risk of distraction would still be present and they'd probably be required to leave me alone unless I buzzed for coffee or food.

I'm clearly no fun. :P

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 10:04:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Titaniya

I think it's the "under her desk" phrasing above.



Exactly.

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 10:37:13 PM   
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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 10:40:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: focalss

Why do people make assumptions about the question that the sub isn't interested in doing real work which is what I asked.


Answer truthfully: would you do it without sex involved?

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 10:42:20 PM   
focalss


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Status: offline 		Ok then it maybe is an "and" question since it was ok for Bill Clinton but a woman executive it wouldn't be.

I did see a few women who wanted help with their web pages but they were scene related.



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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 11:01:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know you're interested in F/m dynamics, but I sometimes work for my Master.

We're lucky enough to have a family business, so if he needs something, I go and act as employee. I am basically the secretary/office junior - I answer the phones, fill in spreadsheets, clean the office, make coffees, run errands etc. Some weeks it's constant, others not at all. It's not as exciting as it sounds though, it's just a natural extension of 'do what you are told'/'everyone mucks in'. There's never been any under the desk funny business or secretary style spankings, though we do joke about it sometimes. It especially amuses him to give me fairly menial tasks since I've always been the one in the better paid and more professional line of work.

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/4/2012 11:05:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for writing. 

Do you feel happy you are able to serve him that way by helping him with his work?

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/5/2012 1:46:03 AM   
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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/5/2012 3:36:23 AM   
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Ok then it maybe is an "and" question since it was ok for Bill Clinton but a woman executive it wouldn't be.


My wife was a malpractice attorney; the type of work I did and do had me out of the United States for days, weeks and months at a time. Often with her not knowing my location or being able to contact me but when I got home she always had a mountain of research for me to do and questions to ask my brothers. They were both doctors.

Indeed one can be of monumental assistance to their mistress.

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/5/2012 5:13:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Being the realist that I am, if this would be your area of interest, you'd better hope to find someone that works from home or a situation where no actual employment was part of the deal. It's a sexual harassment problem waiting to happen.

I don't know where you got the idea that it was ok for Bill Clinton or anybody else. That just shows you aren't thinking with the big head.


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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/5/2012 7:25:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		I had a secretary that made a pass at me.......eventually I fired her.

I am a demanding employer and tend to not mix business with pleasure because doing so often creates expectations of favouritism.

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/5/2012 7:32:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: focalss

Why do people make assumptions about the question that the sub isn't interested in doing real work which is what I asked.


Because your initial OP reads like a lot of the male fantasies that come through this board of how they think they are offering service, but in reality it's a drain on the women. It really ends up to be a service that the Domme provides.

Your idea is about yourself, and requires her taking a lot of time bossing you around and directing you- this is what is sexually exciting to you. Your idea is not about making her life easier and getting work done, it's centered on yourself instead. The woman could get a lot more done on her own without having to worry about the secret agenda here of titillating you sexually.

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/5/2012 7:34:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would love an assistant. I had a great one last tax season--my mom!

When I'm at work, I'm not in the horsing around headspace. Play in the office on a Sunday when no one's in the building? Maybe.



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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/5/2012 7:37:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		I gotta say, if I were so inclined towards this scenario, Athenas works best for me on a visceral level. Since I am not looking, or in a relationship the point is moot, but I admit that what is working for Athena would work for me as well.\

ETA: I *LIKE* taking care of/doing things for those I care about. It doesn't even have to be in a "RELATIONSHIP" context. I am in a relationship with my loved ones, and it pleases me to please them.


Even in the RELATIONSHIP context, it isn't a sexual thing for me, it's a CARING thing.

(I hope to god that made sense...)

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/5/2012 8:08:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well yes, Greedy, SERVICE is a big part of submission. As opposed to being serviced, which is bonus.

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RE: Secretary, assistant other skills for Mistresses - 10/5/2012 8:20:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		My preference isn't that specific. While I would certainly appreciate an s-type who could function competently as a personal assistant, my ideal sub/slave would be a combination of a House Manager or Butler and a Lady's Maid. Versatility is key.

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