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how do you find out whether you can trust that a slave ... - 10/5/2012 6:15:14 AM   
michaelhfrit


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 6:16:25 AM   
GreedyTop


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Serious question.

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 6:39:02 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Fella, I looked at your profile and I'd be hard pressed to think that YOU are serious.

You didn't spend any time on it - brief and misspelled.
You state that you're only concerned about a woman's weight and race.
You give no idea what being your slave would be like.
You don't give any clue that you even know what a Master is.

In your case, I would assume that any female contacting you or responding to you is a scammer out for your money.

In short, rewrite your profile and rethink your approach and put some EFFORT in it.

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 6:49:23 AM   
lizi


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how do you find out whether you can trust that a slave is serious


In the usual ways that you tell if people are serious in any area of life.

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 9:05:43 AM   
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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 9:21:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Right. I'm going to ask you to ask yourself a couple of questions. These are genuine questions, I'm not being snarky, I really am trying to help.

1) How long have you known the slave?
2) Have you met the slave in person?
3) Are you sure the slave understands what it is you expect?
4) Are you sure the slave trusts you?
5) How much do you know about the slave?

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 9:42:07 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I would say that you know they are serious when they spend some time getting to know you as a person, come and meet you in a vanilla place, talk about your needs and wants and her needs and wants, let you know their real name, date you for a while and start generally acting like they are in a relationship.

But your profile is currently scam bait. If I were a scammer, I'd give you a shot.

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 9:51:42 AM   
Rainwalker


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how do you find out whether you can trust that a slave is serious


Just as soon as they give you all their credit cards, the title to their cars and deeds to their homes, but be careful they still have their bank account, their retirement fund and those off-shore accounts.

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 11:54:07 AM   
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how do you find out whether you can trust that a slave is serious



The same way you do when you decide if you want to be with someone in real life. You date, you get to know one another, you spend time with each other, listen and talk and laugh and all that other stuff you do when you find someone you think may be the one.

This has zilch to do with bdsm and everything to do with relationship material.


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 12:29:27 PM   
Alecta


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 12:30:15 PM   
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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 12:33:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Alecta

Wen they start stalking you and leaving bloody rubber chickens on your doorstep.



Flash back to Sean Young leaving the doll on James Woods doorstep.

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Then, one night, he found a mutilated doll at his door—apparently a macabre reminder of his fiancée's abortion. The doll's neck had been cut and iodine splashed on its chest to simulate blood. White makeup was caked on the face to make it resemble a corpse.


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 12:35:38 PM   
Alecta


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 12:39:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Alecta

Yea, that's pretty serious, wouldn't you say?


That's dedication....

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 12:39:59 PM   
JanahX


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how do you find out whether you can trust that a slave is serious



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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 12:57:48 PM   
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how do you find out whether you can trust that a slave is serious


I just looked it up in the BDSM book of rules and regulations. Chapter five paragraphs sever addresses the question you are asking. First purchase a hammer, then four six inch hat pins, then three six inch finishing nails and a board twelve inches by ten inches. Insert one hat pin in each testicule…one hat pin in each nipple…now with extreme force pound into his cock each nail until its deeply seated in the board. Waiting ten minutes then take home so his mommy can inspect and give you her blessing.


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 4:43:45 PM   
Baroana


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 5:05:55 PM   
Alecta


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Status: offline 		For 700 you know it's a scam. Going rate is 8500.

Eta: plus shipping and tax.

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 6:02:51 PM   
michaelhfrit


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/5/2012 6:35:44 PM   
michaelhfrit


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Status: offline 		I am an intelligent man but I'm a little dyslexic when I wrote my profile, only to come in and look and not seriously I have not done anything about it since i have enough that such a profile will only attract rigging, I have a fairly good English when I speak but uses a translator when I write and it is not good I have had a sm relationship with a Danish girl a few years ago I think some of you here are very serious but there are also some who play smart because they are not self-confidence enough and there comes with smart comments

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