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GotSteel -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 6:35:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX So wtf? Whats up with guys that have women either from real pics they took or pics taken from the internet as their pic gallery in their profiles? I dont know what it is that they think they are trying to prove - but for me it is a huge turn off. It screams to me, that "I'm a huge stud with the ladies - and I get around....now dont you want to be with a stud like me?? Cause I am the man !!!!" I don't think it necessarily screams that. You'll find professional riggers over on fetlife who have huge numbers of tied women in their profile pics, they're showing off their work. You can similarly find kinky couples or poly groups who are also proud of their work and showing off what happens within that relationship to the community. Then there are the casual players shrug it's not what you're looking for so it's good that they've clearly labelled themselves to you. But I'd advise against kinksters getting too condescending about the safe/sane/consensual activities of others. I seem to recall this saying about glass houses... Oh and by the way women do all of the above as well. What I don't get are people who put up porn they found on the internet in their profile [sm=idea.gif]

JanahX -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 6:58:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GotSteel quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX So wtf? Whats up with guys that have women either from real pics they took or pics taken from the internet as their pic gallery in their profiles? I dont know what it is that they think they are trying to prove - but for me it is a huge turn off. It screams to me, that "I'm a huge stud with the ladies - and I get around....now dont you want to be with a stud like me?? Cause I am the man !!!!" I don't think it necessarily screams that. You'll find professional riggers over on fetlife who have huge numbers of tied women in their profile pics, they're showing off their work. You can similarly find kinky couples or poly groups who are also proud of their work and showing off what happens within that relationship to the community. Then there are the casual players shrug it's not what you're looking for so it's good that they've clearly labelled themselves to you. But I'd advise against kinksters getting too condescending about the safe/sane/consensual activities of others. I seem to recall this saying about glass houses... Oh and by the way women do all of the above as well. What I don't get are people who put up porn they found on the internet in their profile [sm=idea.gif] I don't think it necessarily screams that. You'll find professional riggers over on fetlife who have huge numbers of tied women in their profile pics, they're showing off their work. You can similarly find kinky couples or poly groups who are also proud of their work and showing off what happens within that relationship to the community. CM and Fetlife are completely different sites. Theyre not set up for the same thing. And mostly - when you see the pics that the guys put up here -9 out of ten times, its not to show off their work. From a lot of the replies on this thread - Im not alone in this thinking. Not even close. As for couples and poly advertising - what Im talking about here doesnt apply. Im talking about single horny men. Then there are the casual players shrug it's not what you're looking for so it's good that they've clearly labelled themselves to you. But I'd advise against kinksters getting too condescending about the safe/sane/consensual activities of others. I seem to recall this saying about glass houses... Im not sure what youre talking about in this sentence. First off - you dont know what Im looking for or that Im looking at all. You dont know me. Secondly - These guys are anything but clear - except that they really dont have a clue about how to attract a woman. Im not sure what my and others opinions on how they view profiles has to do with being superior about safe/sane/consensual activities of others. But if you say so - Oh and by the way women do all of the above as well. What I don't get are people who put up porn they found on the internet in their profile I have no doubt that they do - too bad the majority of them are really guys pretending to be women.

GotSteel -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 9:13:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX I have no doubt that they do - too bad the majority of them are really guys pretending to be women. You know....I'm not sure that someone pretending to be a sock has a leg to stand on in terms of criticizing others for online roleplaying. I would like it though if they were more segregated so that both groups could do their thing without pissing each other off. quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX CM and Fetlife are completely different sites. Theyre not set up for the same thing. And mostly - when you see the pics that the guys put up here -9 out of ten times, its not to show off their work. I'm not spending my time checking out guys so I can't say one way or another. [sm=dunno.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX Im talking about single horny men. Then there are the casual players shrug it's not what you're looking for so it's good that they've clearly labelled themselves to you. But I'd advise against kinksters getting too condescending about the safe/sane/consensual activities of others. I seem to recall this saying about glass houses... Im not sure what youre talking about in this sentence. First off - you dont know what Im looking for or that Im looking at all. You dont know me. Sure I don't know what you're here for but I do know at least one thing that you're not into because you've been quite clear about it: "but for me it is a huge turn off." That's what I was commenting on. quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX Secondly - These guys are anything but clear quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX It screams to me, that "I'm a huge stud with the ladies - and I get around....now dont you want to be with a stud like me?? Cause I am the man !!!!" These two statements seem contradictory to me. Either someone is being unclear or they are being so clear that it screams to you. quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX they really dont have a clue about how to attract a woman. At least for the ones who are legitimately showing you their conquests that's apparently not the case.

amaidiamond -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 9:45:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX Nope me either - thats where the poopie comes out. And sometimes it has dingleberries. Like little desert balls for scat eaters. I nearly choked on my coffee reading that!

mnottertail -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 9:46:42 AM)
It can be garnished with doritos or potato chips for the discerning diner.

NuevaVida -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 9:48:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder quote: If it's a case of a man putting up pics of his partner, but he doesn't even reference on his profile that he has a partner, let alone who she is, I think it's tacky and false advertising (especially if his profile is written in a way that seems to want to attract more women). I actually see that a lot . Master has pictures of me on his profile but it does not say anything about him having a slave or anything. Like Master said, all they would have to do is come to the forums and read about him. Most regular people on this side already know we are together and since he's not searching for anything, it just doesn't matter what he has on his profile. That would really trouble me if the Mister did that. Knowing the majority of folks on the other side are in a search of some sort and DON'T come to the forums, it would feel weird/dishonest to me. Especially if the profile seemed to be inviting women to contact him. It's obviously an area I have issues with, and fortunately (for me) the Mister felt it was no big deal and took no effort to put a little blurb in there about me. If I were out there looking, and a guy had an advertising type profile which omitted he owned a slave, it would seem suspect to me.

JanahX -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 10:29:07 AM)
quote: You know....I'm not sure that someone pretending to be a sock has a leg to stand on in terms of criticizing others for online roleplaying. I would like it though if they were more segregated so that both groups could do their thing without pissing each other off. Well ... (whispers) there are actually people from the forums that have actually met me in real life ... shhhh dont tell anyone. Its secret squirrel stuff. quote: Sure I don't know what you're here for but I do know at least one thing that you're not into because you've been quite clear about it: "but for me it is a huge turn off." That's what I was commenting on. OK - So my full statement that you took that from was: Whats up with guys that have women either from real pics they took or pics taken from the Internet as their pic gallery in their profiles? I dont know what it is that they think they are trying to prove - but for me it is a huge turn off. and you replied: Then there are the casual players shrug* it's not what you're looking for so it's good that they've clearly labelled themselves to you.* Ummm... I dont EVER think to myself that some dood who has pictures up of women on their profiles (either taken from the Internet or r/l photos) - are casual players. I would have no idea how or what they play. Hell - Im sure many of them are looking for LTRs - What I do think, is that they are very clueless of how to go about making a profile that would attract the spread eagle porn queen they are wishing for, as their profile pic. And yes, people who are clueless usually turn me off. Thats fact, not fiction. quote: These two statements seem contradictory to me. Either someone is being unclear or they are being so clear that it screams to you. The contradiction comes from the guys themselves. For some reason - they seem to think that putting up pictures of women are going to draw the women in like bees to honey - when in all reality - it couldnt drive them away faster.

DomMeinCT -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 10:48:55 AM)
I want to know what it is with men who have pics of themselves holding FISH.

Hillwilliam -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 10:54:32 AM)
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GotSteel -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 10:55:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT I want to know what it is with men who have pics of themselves holding FISH. Hey....my facebook resembles that remark.

DNAHelicase -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 11:05:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT I want to know what it is with men who have pics of themselves holding FISH. I wonder that, too. I interpret those pictures as, "Ha, lookit me, I outsmarted something with a brain the size of my pinkie nail! Aren't you impressed?" or "Me catch fish, big provider for little woman. Me drag you back to cave by your hair now?"

Hillwilliam -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 11:07:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase I wonder that, too. I interpret those pictures as, "Ha, lookit me, I outsmarted something with a brain the size of my pinkie nail! Aren't you impressed?" or "Me catch fish, big provider for little woman. Me drag you back to cave by your hair now?" Know why we cave men drag a woman by her hair? If you drag her by a leg, she fills up with dirt. [sm=rofl.gif]

DomMeinCT -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 11:17:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase quote: ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT I want to know what it is with men who have pics of themselves holding FISH. I wonder that, too. I interpret those pictures as, "Ha, lookit me, I outsmarted something with a brain the size of my pinkie nail! Aren't you impressed?" or "Me catch fish, big provider for little woman. Me drag you back to cave by your hair now?" All I think of is "YECCCHHH". Still, it's just odd, and definitely not as bad as the guy who has pics of his insertable toy collection.

OsideGirl -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 11:53:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT definitely not as bad as the guy who has pics of his insertable toy collection. <shudder>

GotSteel -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 1:02:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase I wonder that, too. I interpret those pictures as, "Ha, lookit me, I outsmarted something with a brain the size of my pinkie nail! In my defense the shark did have pointy teeth. quote: ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase Aren't you impressed?" or "Me catch fish, big provider for little woman. I was more just thinking, sharks are cool. quote: ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase Me drag you back to cave by your hair now?" Pfft...hair, I just use her leash.

littlewonder -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 10:49:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NuevaVida quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder quote: If it's a case of a man putting up pics of his partner, but he doesn't even reference on his profile that he has a partner, let alone who she is, I think it's tacky and false advertising (especially if his profile is written in a way that seems to want to attract more women). I actually see that a lot . Master has pictures of me on his profile but it does not say anything about him having a slave or anything. Like Master said, all they would have to do is come to the forums and read about him. Most regular people on this side already know we are together and since he's not searching for anything, it just doesn't matter what he has on his profile. That would really trouble me if the Mister did that. Knowing the majority of folks on the other side are in a search of some sort and DON'T come to the forums, it would feel weird/dishonest to me. Especially if the profile seemed to be inviting women to contact him. It's obviously an area I have issues with, and fortunately (for me) the Mister felt it was no big deal and took no effort to put a little blurb in there about me. If I were out there looking, and a guy had an advertising type profile which omitted he owned a slave, it would seem suspect to me. It doesn't bother me because I know he isn't out there looking for anyone and I think he's just lazy about not changing his profile lol. It just doesn't bother him or me. Most people on the other side email him because he knows them in real life or on the forums here. He doesn't get much else. Most men don't on here. I guess for me it's just not all that hard for either of us just to tell people we're taken. Plus he likes to write funny emails to those people who message him or me because after reading their profile and seeing their pictures It just makes on want to burst out laughing and giving a little "constructive criticism. [:D]

littlewonder -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/17/2012 10:55:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase quote: ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT I want to know what it is with men who have pics of themselves holding FISH. I wonder that, too. I interpret those pictures as, "Ha, lookit me, I outsmarted something with a brain the size of my pinkie nail! Aren't you impressed?" or "Me catch fish, big provider for little woman. Me drag you back to cave by your hair now?" It means me Tarzan, you Jane. And they can show off their strength and that he is a rugged, outdoorsy sorta man. When I was still seeking and I saw a man holding a fish it would say to me "that he likes to do all kinds of "country" stuff like well, listen to country music, rides around in a pick-up, wears plaid winter shirts and likes roughing it outdoors with just a tent and a fire made to eat the fish he just caught. Basically, a huge turnoff for me because those are things I hugely abhor.

Kana -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/18/2012 2:10:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder quote: ORIGINAL: NuevaVida quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder quote: If it's a case of a man putting up pics of his partner, but he doesn't even reference on his profile that he has a partner, let alone who she is, I think it's tacky and false advertising (especially if his profile is written in a way that seems to want to attract more women). I actually see that a lot . Master has pictures of me on his profile but it does not say anything about him having a slave or anything. Like Master said, all they would have to do is come to the forums and read about him. Most regular people on this side already know we are together and since he's not searching for anything, it just doesn't matter what he has on his profile. That would really trouble me if the Mister did that. Knowing the majority of folks on the other side are in a search of some sort and DON'T come to the forums, it would feel weird/dishonest to me. Especially if the profile seemed to be inviting women to contact him. It's obviously an area I have issues with, and fortunately (for me) the Mister felt it was no big deal and took no effort to put a little blurb in there about me. If I were out there looking, and a guy had an advertising type profile which omitted he owned a slave, it would seem suspect to me. It doesn't bother me because I know he isn't out there looking for anyone and I think he's just lazy about not changing his profile lol. It just doesn't bother him or me. Most people on the other side email him because he knows them in real life or on the forums here. He doesn't get much else. Most men don't on here. I guess for me it's just not all that hard for either of us just to tell people we're taken. Plus he likes to write funny emails to those people who message him or me because after reading their profile and seeing their pictures It just makes on want to burst out laughing and giving a little "constructive criticism. [:D] Cuz, you know, guys who wear wedding rings never cheat, right? Right?

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/18/2012 3:09:38 PM)
Fr- So does all this mean that if I dress the boys up like angels for halloween I shouldn't put their picture on my profile. 'Cause I know me and I'm likely to put it on there anyway. [sm=stickineye.gif]

LadyPact -> RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics (10/18/2012 5:22:54 PM)
I so fail at this thread. LOL. After reading the exchange between NV and LW, I literally had to go LOOK at My own profile to see what was on it. I was relieved to find that I do mention the husband and the collared sub, even though I don't list them by name. I'm pretty much in the same camp in not finding it necessary. I could have written what LW said word for word. The folks on the forums and the people from real life know who they are and that's enough for Me. Those that don't, I have no problem informing them.

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