LadyHibiscus
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ORIGINAL: kitkat105 Actually this is my pet peeve anywhere. I know I don't have children so I really can't judge but if your child is crying, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!! IT'S CRYING FOR A REASON!!! FIX IT!!! NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Okay - sorry, but I have to say..."IT?" LOL No shit, you don't have children. :) General reply....I agree that nicer adult restaurants are not the place for babies. A crying baby/child, though, does not always equate to having to "do something about it." A golden rule of motherhood (for me, anyway) - do not give attention every time the child cries. It might make for a few lessons learned in a more public place than we would choose (and believe me...moms are just as strung out about it as those watching it happen) but it's a necessary lesson. There's that funny bit by Louis CK, I think - he's talking about how, now that he's a parent, he sees a crying child and a mom in a store and he thinks "What is that fucking shitty kid doing to that poor woman?" LOL I think "it" is being gender neutral, as opposed to using "them". And a shrieking child is noise pollution. Tantrums get removed from the immediate area for the benefit of the listening public. Babies don't "just cry", that's how they communicate. Parents who ignore child mealtimes and naptimes and drag their cranky kids around? Not people I like. Mom and I were in some airport, and there was a teeeeny baby in a carrier with that newborn cry, the one where you simultaneously want to pick up the baby and stick a spike in your ear? The parents ignored the poor little one utterly and ate sandwiches. Mom and I sorta/kinda pondered just asking them if we could take the baby off their hands, they obviously weren't interested. Why not, right? We were thinking maybe pay them for the carrier? #jetlagjudgment I say Pick UP the BABY! Whenever I hear one with that plaintive cry. I really do not like babies one tiny bit.
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