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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/21/2012 8:55:07 PM   
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is "eye fucking" a bad or good thing lol I am confused!


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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/21/2012 8:56:37 PM   
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Oh no, the Daddy Dom and Little Girl relationship has nothing to do with all that. It is more of him being a guardian, protector, lover, mentor, guiding his little girl with a firm but gentle hand. I am still learning more about the Daddy Dom as the days go by...


How is this different than any other relationship in the world?? I have to say Master is all those things and more for me and I for him. We just don't call each other Daddy or little girl. Neither of us likes those terms. This is why I never understood the daddy thing. When I hear people explain it it really just sounds the same as all loving, caring relationships. Doesn't all people do that for each other? Maybe we're just different. <shrug>


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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/21/2012 9:07:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Break it down Daddy's are (supposed to be) people who love you unconditionally, protect you, provide for you, punish you when you are bad, praise you when you are good. Doms are (supposed to be) fully in control and able to use you how they please, including sexually if that's what you both agree to, going in.

Just because someone is looking for a slave or a slut does not mean that they are not a daddy dom, but, if they are talking about extreme use and abuse it probably means they are not even close.

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/21/2012 9:41:26 PM   
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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/21/2012 10:21:27 PM   
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Oh no, the Daddy Dom and Little Girl relationship has nothing to do with all that. It is more of him being a guardian, protector, lover, mentor, guiding his little girl with a firm but gentle hand. I am still learning more about the Daddy Dom as the days go by...


How is this different than any other relationship in the world?? I have to say Master is all those things and more for me and I for him. We just don't call each other Daddy or little girl. Neither of us likes those terms. This is why I never understood the daddy thing. When I hear people explain it it really just sounds the same as all loving, caring relationships. Doesn't all people do that for each other? Maybe we're just different. <shrug>


Not all M/s relationships are loving and caring. Some don't have anything to do with love. Not all M/s relationships are guided with a gentle hand. My last M/s relationship was in no way like my current M/s-D/lg relationship. So no, not all relationships do this for each other.

Plus, in my D/lg relationship, he brings out the sweetness, vulnerability, and innocence (whatever is left, haha) in me like no previous relationship has done. For me, it's a completely different mindset.

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/21/2012 10:58:47 PM   
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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/21/2012 11:04:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		Interesting, but in my case, he has total authority and likes to enjoy his sadistic side by beating my ass. It has everything to do with M/s and BDSM for us. However, he engages in this much differently than my previous M/s dynamic. Yes, he loves and cares for me, within the umbrella of M/s and D/lg. Any opinions about my relationship stating that it's different than what it actually is would be incorrect.

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/22/2012 4:12:37 AM   
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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/22/2012 8:39:19 AM   
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I personally don't think it has anything at all to do with bdsm, d/s or M/s or s/m, but just plain old love and caring for each other.


We always beat the ones we love.

In a broad sense you are absolutely 100% correct, lw. How each of us expresses love and caring is going to be personal and individual, but some generalisms may be applied. To clarify: Kana probably won't read you a bedtime story, but could I see him taking you shopping to put you in clothes he wants you to wear (and take off later). The latter is more of a general act - it's a good old fashioned example of control - but the former is perhaps a bit more intimate, romantic, bonding (the type of thing a Daddy and his girl might do, if their dynamic is not solely sexual based). That doesn't mean you two are any less romantic by any stretch! Just that you would express it differently.

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/22/2012 12:44:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well put but saying "bed time story" can still depict a pretty wrong picture... I doubt if most Daddy Doms read bed time stories

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/22/2012 4:16:20 PM   
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Well put but saying "bed time story" can still depict a pretty wrong picture... I doubt if most Daddy Doms read bed time stories


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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/22/2012 5:01:11 PM   
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Well put but saying "bed time story" can still depict a pretty wrong picture... I doubt if most Daddy Doms read bed time stories

No bedtime stories here, but he does pull me onto his lap, rock me, and put his thumb in my mouth.

It's part of how we get our freak on.

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/22/2012 5:13:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Now call me a freak but that sounds sexy and something I would probably do :) tell me more!

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/22/2012 5:19:01 PM   
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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/22/2012 5:21:47 PM   
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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/23/2012 1:13:05 AM   
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I personally don't think it has anything at all to do with bdsm, d/s or M/s or s/m, but just plain old love and caring for each other.


We always beat the ones we love.

In a broad sense you are absolutely 100% correct, lw. How each of us expresses love and caring is going to be personal and individual, but some generalisms may be applied. To clarify: Kana probably won't read you a bedtime story, but could I see him taking you shopping to put you in clothes he wants you to wear (and take off later). The latter is more of a general act - it's a good old fashioned example of control - but the former is perhaps a bit more intimate, romantic, bonding (the type of thing a Daddy and his girl might do, if their dynamic is not solely sexual based). That doesn't mean you two are any less romantic by any stretch! Just that you would express it differently.



He would if I asked him to. There have been nights even when I couldn't see anything due to temp. blurred vision and I asked him to read something to me. As for clothes shopping, he would if I asked but for the most part, I already know what he likes and doesn't like so he just trusts me to shop on my own. If he's with me I will just ask what he thinks and if he hates it then I won't buy it. But I don't think he's ever picked out clothes for me while shopping. He realizes that if a man buys a woman clothes, she will most likely put it in the closet, never to be seen again, because it's either ugly or waaayyy too big.

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/23/2012 1:55:59 AM   
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I personally don't think it has anything at all to do with bdsm, d/s or M/s or s/m, but just plain old love and caring for each other.


We always beat the ones we love.

In a broad sense you are absolutely 100% correct, lw. How each of us expresses love and caring is going to be personal and individual, but some generalisms may be applied. To clarify: Kana probably won't read you a bedtime story, but could I see him taking you shopping to put you in clothes he wants you to wear (and take off later). The latter is more of a general act - it's a good old fashioned example of control - but the former is perhaps a bit more intimate, romantic, bonding (the type of thing a Daddy and his girl might do, if their dynamic is not solely sexual based). That doesn't mean you two are any less romantic by any stretch! Just that you would express it differently.



He would if I asked him to. There have been nights even when I couldn't see anything due to temp. blurred vision and I asked him to read something to me. As for clothes shopping, he would if I asked but for the most part, I already know what he likes and doesn't like so he just trusts me to shop on my own. If he's with me I will just ask what he thinks and if he hates it then I won't buy it. But I don't think he's ever picked out clothes for me while shopping. He realizes that if a man buys a woman clothes, she will most likely put it in the closet, never to be seen again, because it's either ugly or waaayyy too big.


LOL

Well I'm glad to hear he would, and you're probably right about the clothes! Even so, you two have a good dynamic, and it's nice to hear about it. Thank you for sharing.


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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/25/2012 7:39:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		In my opinion, the role Daddy, in and of itself, is already an extension of the Dom in a Dom/sub relationship. It would appear to me, that someone who lists themselves as such; wants to place extra emphasis on the Domination part of the relationship.

Or they are new to the scene and don't want to be confused with a submissive Daddy ?? :P

But honestly, I would believe that anyone replying to this type should be aware to expect more extensive and extreme punishments and be very aware of the Dom role and be aware that affronts (real or perceived) to their Domination will be dealt with strictly and severely.

PS: Kudos on the essay DS!!!

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/29/2012 2:16:21 PM   
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Well put but saying "bed time story" can still depict a pretty wrong picture... I doubt if most Daddy Doms read bed time stories

I would say a daddy would be more likely to read dr seuss or twilight to his girl than others.

Pretty sure now I wank me down to sleep
I pray that she can take a heap
If I should cum before she reaps
I'll play with her while she sleeps
Is the more traditional version of a dom bedtime story

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RE: What does a Daddy Dom actually mean? - 10/29/2012 5:30:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		1-Kana don't buy her clothes because she is imfreakingpossibly picky. I mean, she hates everything. It's amazing she has anything other than a burlap sack to wear...which kinda sucks because in general I enjoy buying gals clothes (My best friend for ages was a head personal shopper at Nordstroms, and a damn good one at that-top seller in the east coast so I know more than a bit about women's clothes. And yes, I can nail most gals sizes pretty damn well)
2-He does read her bedtime stories, all the time. Usually comedies, an occasional tragedy, some fantasy, lots and lots of fiction. We call em the CM forums!

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