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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 12:05:28 PM   
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The other says that people, even those who commit gross violent acts or who are the victims of gross violent acts, that take a beautiful thing meant to engender love and turn it into a horror festival, should not then be allowed to dehumanize and victimize, and murder, their own progeny; but, they should accept that life is precious and each new creation of it is a miracle, even if not begun in love, and that the end can still be love.


And it is only the victim of this crime that is told to suck it up and live with the consequences.

It really pisses me off when others insist their morality can determine how I live MY life irregardless of the laws.


tazzy, if I understand you correctly, you and I are very much on the same page, regardless of the scripture debate. My point in quoting the scripture was only to illustrate that religious scripture (often, if not always, written and interpreted by men) usually treated women as second class citizens, or as others have pointed out, as property, and that when it came to certain issues, did treat women as morally responsible should they find themselves victims of certain situations. I was using it to simply point out that it is quite difficult to follow all of what is in any religion's scripture, and to question whether or not we should even be trying to do so. Much of what is in scripture, of any religion, simply does not square with our notions of contemporary society. Again, we are in agreement that others' religious morality should not necessarily prevail over any one's individual rights.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 12:10:05 PM   
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He was being accused of stating that God intended the rape to happen. That is not the case. He stated that the result of the rape being a pregnancy, was the intention of God. The pregnancy is the gift, not the rape.

Are you going to get around addressing any of the questions I asked?


No, Im sticking with my OP. Are you going to stop parsing Mourdocks words so they fit your argument. Incidentally brains, you are now saying what you previously claim you were not saying or doing. You are defending Mourdocks statement.



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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 12:16:21 PM   
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So again, it simply takes us back to why scripture (of any religion) ought to have any great weight on how we resolve contemporary issues. On issues relating to women, almost all the major religions would not support anything even remotely resembling equal rights for women.

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Hear my supreme word, for thou art surely loved by Me; I speak for thy good.
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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 12:21:00 PM   
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Well, predestination would blow all Romneys claims that "Its Obamas fault" out of the water, right ?

Genius reply...there really is no answer to that!! Good work, Sir!

I try my best.

Maybe you should try harder.

Without arguing the premise, it also blows all the "it's Bush's fault" claims out of the water too.

Funny how selective some people can be in applying their "genius," eh?

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 12:23:44 PM   
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Maybe you should try harder.

Without arguing the premise, it also blows all the "it's Bush's fault" claims out of the water too.

Funny how selective some people can be in applying their "genius," eh?

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If the cap fits......

You are not so fussy about being selective yourself.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 12:33:24 PM   
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Maybe you should try harder.

Without arguing the premise, it also blows all the "it's Bush's fault" claims out of the water too.

Funny how selective some people can be in applying their "genius," eh?


If the cap fits......

You are not so fussy about being selective yourself.

I'll be looking forward to your examples.

Take your time.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 12:44:12 PM   
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That's what simplicity is, at its heart, and I find it somewhat discouraging and disappointing when I see it in people that are usually quite enlightened.


Okay, I think what I wrote was not that the distillation should be simple, but that the distillation should make sense. In other words, a comprehensible distillation of relativity should make sense. And if one can't come up with a distillation that makes sense, then I wonder about whether it makes sense at all. While "the devil may be in the details", I do feel religions ought to be able to have a sensical distillation. I hope this clarifies a bit. I was not necessarily favoring simplicity, as much as trying to encourage "sensibility".


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There's plenty of misogyny in any doctrine that has passed through a patriarchal stage, where weak men are allowed to thrive and to oppress women and thereby all of humanity. This one, however, is more a question of people interpreting it superficially, much as you have just done. On the surface, yes, this is about capital punishment for levelling an allegation of rape when the alleged rape happened inside a densely populated area and with the accuser not calling for help during the event. That is not, however, the deeper meaning. If the deeper meaning is not read, how can one hope to implement the underlying principle in a different context, let alone after the thing has been mangled by misogynistic pricks throughout the years?

A rough outline of a very simplistic transposition to a modern context, confined to the passage in question, might go like this: Men should not rape the women of their own people, should prevent others from doing so, should intervene if it happens, and after it has happened should investigate, try, convict and sentence the perpetrator, then carry out the sentence, which should be the strictest conventional punishment on the books. Women should take precautions to avoid rape, should call out and resist, even at risk to themselves, should secure what evidence they can (e.g. clawing), and afterwards they should promptly have a rape kit done, report it, press charges, give testimony and generally do their part to make sure the perpetrator doesn't get a chance to do it to someone else. In this context, when one raises allegations of rape without having tended to these civic duties, one should face the same punishment as the accused would if the charges are determined to be false by the courts.

Lo and behold, that's not so far from modern thought as it seemed, is it?

The main difference seems to be the solidarity requirement.

Of course, one can simplify it to "stone women that get raped", and many choose to do so, just as anything else can be simplified to an absurd extent. The fault, then, lies in the implementation of the idea, not the idea itself. Unfortunately, some older texts aren't quite as verbose as me (and I'm still being pretty brief, simple and superficial, myself), and describe an intermediate stage in the progression from an idea or principle to a concrete instance of it. This requires some thinking to be applied (an implied imperative of the "in Our image" thing), but many refuse to think, whether they are Abrahamists of some denomination, or critics thereof. Directing criticisms at what is at fault- in this case, humans, not ideas- would seem to be the best application of thinking for the critics, but since the fault is in them, too, that usually doesn't happen. Instead, the needle in the other guy's eye is pointed out, or- more commonly- the impaired vision the other guy has as a result of his needle.


Now, I feel you are oversimplifying (and how often have you been accused of that?) But seriously, part of my point is that the deeper meaning has no fixed context. And therefore, we are simply back to why, or how, any given religion should have any greater weight as we try to elucidate deeper meaning. And I believe we can explore deeper meaning without requiring religion. And, even if one is elucidating deeper meaning, how does one deal with the fact that most religions do treat women as property (incontrovertible in my mind)? How does one elucidate a deeper meaning of "women cannot be property" without, essentially rejecting the religious text. And if we reject the text, are we elucidating deeper meaning of the text, or simply searching elsewhere for guidance. I feel we should be searching elsewhere for guidance.

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In my mind, it represents a literal-minded piece of mental acrobatics to avoid the effort to truly question and think as his religion tries to teach him.


Okay, I grant you that perhaps some religions encourage one to question and think - but again, here I would argue that this questioning and thinking is still meant to occur within a framework that is considered sacred. In other words, I don't really think that any religion has at its core, "you can question all of it and reject what you don't like, and even reject all of it if you want".

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If you replace the word "believers" with the word "humans", we can agree here, too. The need to replace one with the other, that's my point. He sees it from his perspective, with flawed vision. You see it from your perspective, but crucially with the same flaw in your own vision. The shared flaw is where "human" comes into the picture. You see that his perception is flawed because you see something other than what he sees, but do not extrapolate from this what to attribute to your differences and what to attribite to your shared humanity.

Take it up to the meta level. Never just consider the product. Consider the process. Consider the method applied in the process. Consider the theory on which is based the method that is applied in the process. And so forth. This is what Lockheed-Martin did for software, and a direct result has been that they're the only company that has been rated Systems, Capability and Maturity Model level 5, their products (in the software branch, I mean) keeping a standard that exceeds every other. I have encountered nothing to suggest this does not also hold true for thoughts. Alice recognizing that Bob made a mistake isn't much use if she doesn't recognize why Bob made that mistake and eliminate the causative problem from herself, as well.

We all pick and choose. Being aware of it, we can try to counteract it in ourselves, and to make others aware of their own problem. Since our brains are all but hardwired to work that way, it's something most of us will need to have pointed out and will need a significant effort to adequately counteract.


I think we can conduct the process without religious input. I don't deny the need for a process as a society to determine laws. And as a society, we are free to pick and choose. But religious belief and doctrine do not work that way within their own structure. And to the extent that individual believers feel they can pick and choose what aspects of their religion to follow, I simply feel that this is not being religious. So I am making a distinction here between "within the religion" and "within the society". As a society we can consider many approaches and determine what works. What I reject, is the religious telling society that we must follow the religious approach because it is the only acceptable approach, especially, when the religious want to impose some aspects, but not all.

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Bullshit. My feelings about animal rights are a private, individual thing, as are my preferences in kink and my thoughts about the value of individual freedom versus social harmony etc., but all three of those have- and should have- an impact on politics and political decisions, as those are about what compromises we as a community reach as regards our views and preferences. In politics, you deal with me as a person, a package deal, and if you try to dictate what parts of that package can have representation, you deny me representation, and then we're done with politics and on to something else. Exactly what, I'm not sure, but I am certain it will benefit neither of us.

A vegan may well choose to attempt to impose veganism through politics, which is no different from religion.

I may choose to attempt to further individual freedom through politics, again no different.


I think what I am trying to say is that a vegan who explicitly states that they want a vegan diet imposed garners my respect for consistency. A vegan who says everyone must stop eating dairy, because my beliefs tell me so, but I don't care what others do about eating animals, doesn't garner my respect. One is either a vegan, or not. And one either thinks veganism should be part of the political process or not. But the picking and choosing of only some aspects of veganism to be imposed on everyone seems weird to me.

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Where I think you and me have common ground is, we both seem to want politics not to impose too many straitjackets, but rather to help people from having them imposed by the majorities around them. Since we have common ground in that, we can cooperate politically and reach good compromises that secure us freedom and independence from each other. But it still comes down to a preference about how to use power, which is the basis of all politics. Without sharing that understanding, our common ground is just a temporary shared cause, a conflux or coincidence, not true commonality.

The unfortunate side effect of this is that we must tolerate that others have different preferences, whether their preference is socialism, libertarianism, Sharia, or even the crap the WBC is pushing. The alternative, though, is worse: a conflict that almost inevitably ends up with civil war. We coexist and cooperate, or we fight, that seems to be the way of things. Communists are a great case in point.

I know atheists that want to ban abortion on secular grounds. I also know people that want to ban it on religious grounds. Whence that preference derives isn't important to me. My own preference is pro-choice. The political process is about whose preferences win out. You can't pick and choose (oh, the irony) what preferences you admit into politics without being a democratic hypocrite, which I'm convinced you don't want to be.

You can, however, vote your own preferences.


Okay, agreed. At a very micro level, we are all just voting our preferences. Again, I refer to my vegan example above. What irks me more is people who claim to be something, but then break that down into pieces and push some pieces of the agenda but not others. It does not hold up to any rational scrutiny. And if we are going to make choices as a society, I see no other alternative then to have some sense of "rationality" around the process. Otherwise, what are we doing?

I agree that the source for preferences "can" come from any source, but I prefer it when people have actually thought through "why" they support something rather than just taking it from religious doctrine. In order for us to have meaningful dialogue as a society around any issue, it requires people being willing to think through things from multiple perspectives. Most of my solutions to contemporary problems come from fashioning something that tries to take into account many different perspectives and then stepping back to assess what is best for society at large. I may be mistaken, but I do not feel that deep religious belief enables that type of approach. Many political questions have already been answered by religion. The problems occur when contemporary society is at odds with those answers. Obviously we have no problem when there is no challenge. But when there is, it seems to me the religious viewpoint on that particular matter might have outlived its usefulness. But given that religion was structured as an overall framework (that was thought through and meant to work together just like a statutory code), you can't jettison just pieces of it, and claim to still be in the framework. I don't find that particularly inspiring or compelling as a defense of religion i.e, we just keep what suits us, and that is good enough.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:11:24 PM   
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"Then ye shall bring them both out unto the gate of that city, and ye shall stone them with stones that they die; the damsel, because she cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he hath humbled his neighbour's wife: so thou shalt put away evil from among you."


Yes, which means it wasnt rape.

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As for the subsequent text that you provide, do you really find the distinction of in the city and in the field meaningful for contemporary purposes?


Yes, a woman in the city who cries out will be heard more readily than a woman in the field.

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So a woman who is raped in a house in a city where no one hears her cries has not been raped??


At that time, they didnt have working wives and many men worked from home. So, yeah, its not in the same context as today. She would have been heard even if no one could do anything to stop it.

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And what about the passage that you cite that basically allows a man to rape a woman, pay her father off and take her for his wife is there anything about the woman's consent to any of this in the passage that you cite?


28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;

29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.


Thats not rape. Look at the differences in how its written.

One is rape within ear shot of others.

One is rape outside of earshot of others.

And then there is consensual sex. The tip of is being found with another and no screaming to be heard.

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And why should a woman have to resist to make a claim of rape?


Because, at the time of the writing of the Bible, that was the law. Wasnt that long ago that women were ostracized for being pregnant outside of marriage either. Thankfully, we have become an enlightened society.

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Is this helpful when we are discussing rape - which has to do with "consent" NOT with where specifically the rape occurred or whether the father can marry off the victim or whether the victim resisted in a way that society deems appropriate?


Those passages did deal with consent. It recognized that not all sex is rape.

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The passages you cite in their totality do not really make me feel like women were treated well. I'm not seeing it from your King James Version. Still reads in a pretty misogynistic way to me.


Because at the time they were written, society was misogynistic.

My problem is not with the Bible. It was written in a time when men ruled completely. We cant change history. And Im not a bible thumper. It doesnt rule my life.

My problem was with holding up a site that cherry pick's through the bible, changing versions to suit its need and prove its own moral superiority.

Not everything in those verses I gave you was about rape... some was about consensual sex, or what was deemed consensual at the time.


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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:12:38 PM   
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P.S. Tazzy, I agree that evilbible can not be relied upon to give sufficient context but when you're making an accusation of cherry picking you probably shouldn't quote from the least understandable and most inaccurate translation available to english speakers to back it up.


I quoted the KJV because its what most of his generation grew up with.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:25:28 PM   
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This is a completely incoherent response to my detailed answer to you. You asked me why killing is not the same as murder. I've explained it both definitionally, as well as with practical examples.

The fact that you don't like the distinction is not really my issue. Sorry.




No you have simply parroted euphimisms created to justify murder and then arbitrarily assigned to me the status of one who is against murder. You then use that arbitrary assignment to put forth straw man arguements about me being a pacifist etc. and thus avoiding the original issue that taking another persons life is murder.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:28:15 PM   
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Murder is the unlawful killing, with malice aforethought, of another human, and generally this state of mind distinguishes murder from other forms of unlawful homicide (such as manslaughter).


Murder is killing.... killing isnt always murder.

Killing someone in self defense is killing... its not murder.


If one has the ability to end a life in "self defense" then it follows that one has the ability to disable their asailant...thus the laws concerning appropriate levels of force. Pink lipstick on a pig is still pink lipstick on a pig.


How does it "follow" if we are facing each other with, for example, guns, in my home, and you are threatening to kill me? Do I wait for you to do so?

Come on... you are really stretching things here.

Murder is killing.

Not all killings are murder.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:33:28 PM   
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Murder is the unlawful killing, with malice aforethought, of another human, and generally this state of mind distinguishes murder from other forms of unlawful homicide (such as manslaughter).


Murder is killing.... killing isnt always murder.

Killing someone in self defense is killing... its not murder.


If one has the the ability to use lethal force in self defense one also has the ability to use less than lethal force...still murder still lipstick on a pig...just another euphimism for murder.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:40:47 PM   
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Murder is the unlawful killing, with malice aforethought, of another human, and generally this state of mind distinguishes murder from other forms of unlawful homicide (such as manslaughter).


Murder is killing.... killing isnt always murder.

Killing someone in self defense is killing... its not murder.


If one has the the ability to use lethal force in self defense one also has the ability to use less than lethal force...still murder still lipstick on a pig...just another euphimism for murder.


And yet you neglect to include my scenario.

What of a child defending themselves against an adult?

What of a woman defending herself against a man?

You have yet to prove your point that the lipstick is all the same shade.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:45:15 PM   
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So again, it simply takes us back to why scripture (of any religion) ought to have any great weight on how we resolve contemporary issues. On issues relating to women, almost all the major religions would not support anything even remotely resembling equal rights for women.

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Hear my supreme word, for thou art surely loved by Me; I speak for thy good.
He who sees the supreme Lord existing alike in all beings, is he who truly sees.


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Excellent example of a man to man, dictate.



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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:46:14 PM   
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So you are saying that Hitler having killed millions was just acting on what he believed. Consequently, though you might disagree with his views you'd not have raised a hand to stop him?

Another proof of Godwin's Law.
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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:50:30 PM   
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He was being accused of stating that God intended the rape to happen. That is not the case. He stated that the result of the rape being a pregnancy, was the intention of God. The pregnancy is the gift, not the rape.
Are you going to get around addressing any of the questions I asked?

No, Im sticking with my OP. Are you going to stop parsing Mourdocks words so they fit your argument. Incidentally brains, you are now saying what you previously claim you were not saying or doing. You are defending Mourdocks statement.


I'm humbled that you have given me such a great title. However, your OP argument is incorrect. He did not say that rape is a gift from God, or intended by God. I am not defending his statement, because I don't agree with it. But, at least what I am in disagreement with, is actually what was meant.

I do find it deliciously ironic that you accuse me of parsing his words so they fit my argument.

For instance, you left out what came before his statement, which would have divulged, quite easily, what he was calling "it." But, I do understand.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 1:52:02 PM   
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Murder is the unlawful killing, with malice aforethought, of another human, and generally this state of mind distinguishes murder from other forms of unlawful homicide (such as manslaughter).


Murder is killing.... killing isnt always murder.

Killing someone in self defense is killing... its not murder.


If one has the the ability to use lethal force in self defense one also has the ability to use less than lethal force...still murder still lipstick on a pig...just another euphimism for murder.


And yet you neglect to include my scenario.

What of a child defending themselves against an adult?

What of a woman defending herself against a man?

You have yet to prove your point that the lipstick is all the same shade.



You are trying to argue justifiable homicide(murder)vs. homicide 1(murder). That is not the issue. The issue is that dead is dead and that death is murder...whether it is justified or not is simply your strawman.
As I mentioned above if one has the ability to exercise deadly force in a case of self defense then they ipso facto have the ability to use less than lethal force in self defense...unless of course you are using grenades or nukes etc.

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 2:00:09 PM   
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Tazzy, I'm copying another response that I made to you earlier:


tazzy, if I understand you correctly, you and I are very much on the same page, regardless of the scripture debate. My point in quoting the scripture was only to illustrate that religious scripture (often, if not always, written and interpreted by men) usually treated women as second class citizens, or as others have pointed out, as property, and that when it came to certain issues, did treat women as morally responsible should they find themselves victims of certain situations. I was using it to simply point out that it is quite difficult to follow all of what is in any religion's scripture, and to question whether or not we should even be trying to do so. Much of what is in scripture, of any religion, simply does not square with our notions of contemporary society. Again, we are in agreement that others' religious morality should not necessarily prevail over any one's individual rights.

And then I will add the following comments to your latest response to me:

Just to clarify there is no "consent" that is part of the man raping a woman and then taking her as wife. She doesn't have to consent to either the sex or to the marriage. She goes from her father's house to that of her husband's. So I disagree with your characterization that "consent" is at play there.

What if no one in the city hears her? Is it still rape according to your interpretation of the Bible? In other words, if she claims she cried out, but everyone else says they never heard her (maybe she cried out too softly, maybe there was other noise because there was something else going on that day, maybe they did hear her, and just dislike her and lie), then what happens?

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Because at the time they were written, society was misogynistic.

My problem is not with the Bible. It was written in a time when men ruled completely. We cant change history. And Im not a bible thumper. It doesnt rule my life.

My problem was with holding up a site that cherry pick's through the bible, changing versions to suit its need and prove its own moral superiority.

Not everything in those verses I gave you was about rape... some was about consensual sex, or what was deemed consensual at the time.



Tazzy, if you read my other posts on this thread you will see that I agree with you that many religious writings from many religions are misogynistic and I agree that religious writings should not rule my life.

I never cited a website in any of my posts and am not advocating any website. I am not even advocating any particular translation of the Bible. And while I used the Bible as an example, if you read my other comments I have included references to Islam and Hinduism, so I do not want to be viewed as isolating one religion. But as I read that particular passage (including in your translation, and your cites), it does leave out some possibilities, and in those omissions, the risks lie with the victim. If no one hears her, too bad - she has no recourse. The list you cite is not exhaustive of all the possibilities. And it seems to me that when there is doubt the woman will become a double victim. I agree it was written when men ruled - and that is why I'm coming to the conclusions that I'm coming to. That's all I meant. If you feel that as written it provided ample protection for women, then fine. We will have to agree to disagree on those passages from the Bible.

My point about cherry picking was also to illustrate that people who are religious also should not cherry pick. I feel that along the thread, you've somehow misunderstood my comments. You are telling me things that I have been saying on this thread all along. Again, I'm not sure we are in disagreement.





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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 2:06:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Who votes for these despicable Republican morons ? He actually said that in a political debate.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-20054737




Can you point to the video? He doesn't say that god intended rape to happen in either of the videos linked on the url you've cited?

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RE: Now God intended rape to happen. - 10/26/2012 2:12:32 PM   
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You are trying to argue justifiable homicide(murder)vs. homicide 1(murder). That is not the issue. The issue is that dead is dead and that death is murder...whether it is justified or not is simply your strawman.
As I mentioned above if one has the ability to exercise deadly force in a case of self defense then they ipso facto have the ability to use less than lethal force in self defense...unless of course you are using grenades or nukes etc.


Homicide (Latin: homicidium, Latin: homo human being + Latin: caedere to cut, kill) is the act of a human killing another human.[1] Murder, for example, is a type of homicide.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homicide

Although the term homicide is sometimes used synonymously with murder, homicide is broader in scope than murder. Murder is a form of criminal homicide; other forms of homicide might not constitute criminal acts. These homicides are regarded as justified or excusable. For example, individuals may, in a necessary act of Self-Defense, kill a person who threatens them with death or serious injury, or they may be commanded or authorized by law to kill a person who is a member of an enemy force or who has committed a serious crime. Typically, the circumstances surrounding a killing determine whether it is criminal. The intent of the killer usually determines whether a criminal homicide is classified as murder or Manslaughter and at what degree.

http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/homicide

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