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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 7:04:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		One thing which I do find in general, that as well as being genuine died in the wool people who will always try to become the authority on every subject under the sun or if the can't, they'll usually exit from the discussion rather than converse with someone who knows more.. Shows me that these people have a low self esteme or an over inflated ego or both..... Having said that, there are people whop possibly due to their thirst for knowledge or have just been around longer than many others, and have gained a lot of knowledge. They are not experts but are usually happy to pass on what they either know or believe and often will direct people where theycan get the required information. Lesser people often incorrectly refer to this group of knowledgable folk as know it alls too.....In most cases it is the way people respond to questions which can lale them as know it alls too. As soon as some one demands attention to climb on a soap box and sprout their knowledge or opinions they will turn many others off. As John commented the ones who really on the ball and have it all together, rarely attempt to take over the discussion but will state their learned opinion often in a sofy, gentle and non threatening or agressive or even a bombastic manner and may as necessary explain that they either have years of experience or that they are not experts but may give directions to locate those who have greater expertise......There is nothing more dangerous than some one with a little knowledge who thinks they are an authority...

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 7:04:52 AM   
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Tonight seems to be the night for people post to a forum all of their complaints about people who post to forums.  Weird. 


Shhh don't discourage them.  I like reading posts made about me.

This WAS a post about me right (specially Nurses)?  Because we all know, it's all got to be about me. 

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 7:22:14 AM   
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Because we all know, it's all got to be about me. 


Dang! I thought it...and your sigline...and that song by Carly Simon were all about me!!
 
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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 7:39:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
Tonight seems to be the night for people post to a forum all of their complaints about people who post to forums.  Weird. 


Shhh don't discourage them.  I like reading posts made about me.

This WAS a post about me right (specially Nurses)?  Because we all know, it's all got to be about me. 


Hahaha, well I finally made 4 paddle status, can you believe it?  So I must have no life either.  But, I'll concede it's all about you in this one.  I was going to comment on that post but it stood so well on its own, and spoke volumes more than I could have possibly said, so I changed my mind.  Remember the analogy about enhancements?  That one didn't need any. 

Enjoy the attention

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 8:12:12 AM   
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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 8:40:39 AM   
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Well fast/slowlane/kev/sirmise/kickinchick........... life can be hard, right?


Good eye, Level. Someone who has been banned from the site has found a proxy...a mouthpiece.
 
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Banned???  How did I miss that?  Geez....and I did so enjoy his smart-ass comments!


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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 9:04:30 AM   
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I have a life offline otherwise where would I get the experiences that I write about??


Don't get all bent out of shape over this, but I think the point was that some of the people with "experience" are simply making it up. 

I'm not suggesting that you or anyone else is doing that, but simply pointing out that, if you were, how would any of us know any differently?

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 10:27:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Banned???  How did I miss that?  Geez....and I did so enjoy his smart-ass comments!

Laughs and looks up, you have know idea how many people enjoyed his smart-ass comments. It is what attracted me to him in the first place. I don't know how anyone would have known that he was banned unless he told them personally, like he did me when I contacted him and asked why he had stopped posting. His posts made my day begin with a smile, but now it's his voice that does it for me

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 10:37:29 AM   
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Banned???  How did I miss that?  Geez....and I did so enjoy his smart-ass comments!

Laughs and looks up, you have know idea how many people enjoyed his smart-ass comments. It is what attracted me to him in the first place. I don't know how anyone would have known that he was banned unless he told them personally, like he did me when I contacted him and asked why he had stopped posting. His posts made my day begin with a smile, but now it's his voice that does it for me



Well, he hasn't posted since the end of May, when he was put on moderation again for bad behavior. Then, he tried sneaking in as Sirmise, but was found out and all those postings were pulled. So now it just seems logical that he would try to get someone else to "beard" him in here. I know some people liked his posts. I also know other people did not like his stalking and his harrassing, obscene phone calls.
 
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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 11:02:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think you are referring to your submissive who was with him first. I also think jealousy is a huge factor here. I read much of what was going on back when and it appeared time and time again that all Fastlane was doing was defending himself and apologized more then once to your sub and to the other one as well. Stalking and harrassing are very strong statements when he lives in MD. and the two in question are both in different states. I am proud to be with him and will not criticize you or the others that you have formed in your Pack, Sir, however I would asks you to kindly leave me alone and not to harrass me again for being with and believing him....not you!

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 11:19:58 AM   
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The man is a cheating, backstabbing, liar and should have been banned a long time ago.

Well if THAT merits someone being banned, then 80% of us wouldn't be here.

The issue wasn't what he chose to do in his personal life, but his disruptive behavior on the boards.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 11:35:14 AM   
kickinchick


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Status: offline 		Very good reply L.A. and it did make me smile through all this torment. Reflective, I think you are the type who believes everything that she reads. Yes, he defended himself for a reason, he did screw up and I know all about it. Who hasn't here? I'd say, all of us, but he stood up and admitted, apologized for it and has learned from it. A liar, backstabber and cheater, is not the type of man who has raised two boys on his own for the past ten years. One who has told me everyone he has met here in person and the list is extremely small. One who writes poetry and loves pets and volunteers to help others on a regular basis. This is the man I know Reflective and if you think this is a train wreck...I want on that track and I want him as my Conductor.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 11:38:31 AM   
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A liar, backstabber and cheater, is not the type of man who has raised two boys on his own for the past ten years.

Uh sure they can.  I  know of plenty of liars and cheaters and backstabbers who make pretty good parents.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 11:58:33 AM   
kickinchick


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Status: offline 		Well, I would not argue with that statement, for you are probably correct, but I don't know of any who have the number of  friends that Fastlane has if that type of behavior is obvious and consistent. Now, I 'm talking true friends...not those who many consider fans of his from this board. I tend to trust the people that know him personally and have for a number of years. Call me crazy, but I'm going with my instincts and my instincts have not failed me yet.
L.A. your post are always true and thought provoking and if you thought I was referring to you in the beginning of all of this, I was not. I had someone else in mind that post on another Forum, not this one.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 12:08:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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The man is a cheating, backstabbing, liar and should have been banned a long time ago.

Well if THAT merits someone being banned, then 80% of us wouldn't be here.

The issue wasn't what he chose to do in his personal life, but his disruptive behavior on the boards.


I'd like to see where I said that was the reason he was banned.... the comment was My opinion of the man plain and simple.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 12:14:13 PM   
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Very good reply L.A. and it did make me smile through all this torment. Reflective, I think you are the type who believes everything that she reads. Yes, he defended himself for a reason, he did screw up and I know all about it. Who hasn't here? I'd say, all of us, but he stood up and admitted, apologized for it and has learned from it. A liar, backstabber and cheater, is not the type of man who has raised two boys on his own for the past ten years. One who has told me everyone he has met here in person and the list is extremely small. One who writes poetry and loves pets and volunteers to help others on a regular basis. This is the man I know Reflective and if you think this is a train wreck...I want on that track and I want him as my Conductor.


Believe everything I read, hell no, believe what I see from people, yes. I watched first hand what he did to a friend of mine. Learned from his mistakes, apparently not because he is still doing the same shit as he was doing before. You know what he wants you to know..... How long have you been talking with him anyways, cause he was with someone else up untill a very short time ago.... and was begging her to come back to him just a few days ago....

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 12:21:23 PM   
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Call me crazy,

I'll wait a month or two before calling you that -- if we haven't seen the train wreck by then then I will call you crazy because I can only see you two staying together if you are as crazy as he is. Otherwise, you'll see through the bs and toss him to the curb like others have.

Until then I'll assume there is the possibility that you are simply naive, brainwashed or a huge sucker (as in gullible). But with each post you make proclaiming his virtues the liklihood diminishes that you are anything but crazy .

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 12:32:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		wait, I'm confussed..is this post all about Level, Fastlane or LA? How can I get so lost?* tilts head and blinks* Me thinks I should re-read once my dizziness wears off

Editied to say: oh wait never mind, I've got it now...




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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 12:41:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is funny how  the casts of characters that he told me about are all checking in. He is right on target. He calls it the pack of four. Anyone can e-mail on here privately if they want to air Fastlane's dirty laundry, especially all of these women that he is angered and hurt so badly. I know of the two in the four pack he speaks of and the other's he has been with and still contact him all the time because they have become friends. Let me hear from the ones that you keep ranting about that seem to be nowhere other then in your imagination. It must be nice to say what you want, knowing he can't reply to your nonsense. Personally, I see it as cowardly, but that's just me.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 12:49:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		Kickinchick, I find it very bad form for you to continue this line of posting.  Truly all it is doing is digging your 'Master' a bigger hole.  Your coming across as ignorant for going out of your way to try to bring up old news and re-upset people who have not been talking about what happened.  For those of us who are new, we could have lived happily judging Fastlane on his recent postings, I found him to have been funny and witty, and I even stood up for him on his I'm sorry thread' now, I just find him sad, and you sad to be acting like this.  This isn't high school your acting like an imbalanced PMS'ing teenager. Please, stop now and save yourself some dignity. Let this drop, you say your happy, and Fastlane should be happy with you, I'm thinking you should let this drop, go off and be happy, and let the four others be happy too.

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