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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 12:49:56 PM   
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It is funny how  the casts of characters that he told me about are all checking in. He is right on target. He calls it the pack of four. Anyone can e-mail on here privately if they want to air Fastlane's dirty laundry, especially all of these women that he is angered and hurt so badly. I know of the two in the four pack he speaks of and the other's he has been with and still contact him all the time because they have become friends. Let me hear from the ones that you keep ranting about that seem to be nowhere other then in your imagination. It must be nice to say what you want, knowing he can't reply to your nonsense. Personally, I see it as cowardly, but that's just me.



This all has a familliar ring to it...
 
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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 12:59:17 PM   
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dancer, I will take your advice as it is sound and I will be happy with Fastlane, as I already am. However, this post wasn't about the past. That was brought up by someone else and the thread was then hi-jacked. I too loved Fastlane's recent postings as they were filled with humor, wit and some good advice when you looked between the lines.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 1:02:45 PM   
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Doms, who say "kneel bitch" on the first meeting
People on here that only give you links to threads....and sites....geez, move away from the computer and get a life!
Smart asses, that only make me laugh, but I do enjoy that!
However, I hate some of the advice that is said in the manner of "this is the way it is, there are no options?"
Are there not always options and understanding and agreements and communication and meetings of the minds?
I think some people should read my profile and then contact me as a friend, if that is what they wish?

As someone who tells bitches to kneel on the first meeting, who has posted links and sites, who needs to move away from my computer and get a life, who eliminates options, gives advice, and is a general BDSM know-it-all,
I find this entire thread offensive and feel you should be banned, come back with a different user name, and whine about something else.


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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 1:06:27 PM   
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   Amen and kick away!  There is Zen saying that "those who say they know, don't."  Pretty good rule around here too.


Or those who cant; Teach....

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 1:09:19 PM   
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As someone who tells bitches to kneel on the first meeting, who has posted links and sites, who needs to move away from my computer and get a life, who eliminates options, gives advice, and is a general BDSM know-it-all,
I find this entire thread offensive and feel you should be banned, come back with a different user name, and whine about something else.



Or maybe she should dump Fastlane and hook up with Sirmise.
 
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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 1:21:02 PM   
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As someone who tells bitches to kneel on the first meeting, who has posted links and sites, who needs to move away from my computer and get a life, who eliminates options, gives advice, and is a general BDSM know-it-all,
I find this entire thread offensive and feel you should be banned, come back with a different user name, and whine about something else.



Or maybe she should dump Fastlane and hook up with Sirmise.
 
Bob


Bob,
 
You forgot slowlane....

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 1:52:04 PM   
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I am a little confused. For those "not in the know", this thread is meaningless. I have no idea why Fastlane got banned and frankly don't care. I thought this thread was about what we thought about the questions asked. They were good questions in the OP, now I find this whole thread stupid and pointless. I guess I don't come here often enough to keep up with the little soap opera.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 1:55:38 PM   
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I am a little confused. For those "not in the know", this thread is meaningless. I have no idea why Fastlane got banned and frankly don't care. I thought this thread was about what we thought about the questions asked. They were good questions in the OP, now I find this whole thread stupid and pointless. I guess I don't come here often enough to keep up with the little soap opera.

Well that's what people were saying about your thread when you were trying to deal with the ending of your relationship.

Drama tends to spill out, no matter what.  Like everything, take what works for you and leave the rest.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 1:58:56 PM   
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I really have no clue either Moga. I was just trying to fit in because it was alluded to that someone somewhere got banned for something and might or might not have come back with a different user name. I had to pretend I knew what everyone was talking about so I could keep up my hard-earned appearance as a BDSM know-it-all.
Ahh well. On to other threads so I can spread the all-knowing truth and omnipotence of BDSM and tell bitches to kneel before me.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 2:02:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa
I am a little confused. For those "not in the know", this thread is meaningless. I have no idea why Fastlane got banned and frankly don't care. I thought this thread was about what we thought about the questions asked. They were good questions in the OP, now I find this whole thread stupid and pointless. I guess I don't come here often enough to keep up with the little soap opera.

Well that's what people were saying about your thread when you were trying to deal with the ending of your relationship.

Drama tends to spill out, no matter what.  Like everything, take what works for you and leave the rest.


LA,
I hope that isnt what people were saying about my relationship ending. I came here seeking advice and comfort. I didnt critisize anyone (including pup) on the board. That was a cheap shot. I hope it made you feel better.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 2:11:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa
I am a little confused. For those "not in the know", this thread is meaningless. I have no idea why Fastlane got banned and frankly don't care. I thought this thread was about what we thought about the questions asked. They were good questions in the OP, now I find this whole thread stupid and pointless. I guess I don't come here often enough to keep up with the little soap opera.

Well that's what people were saying about your thread when you were trying to deal with the ending of your relationship.

Drama tends to spill out, no matter what.  Like everything, take what works for you and leave the rest.


LA,
I hope that isnt what people were saying about my relationship ending. I came here seeking advice and comfort. I didnt critisize anyone (including pup) on the board. That was a cheap shot. I hope it made you feel better.


atleast we were talking about the same person..... fastlane.... which wasnt hard to gather if you read the whole thread.... its been spelled out...
 
This other situation I have no clue about, and I know it doesnt have anything to do with the OP so uhmmm how is it that we have all derailed the thread.... did you not just do it as well?

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 2:18:30 PM   
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Yep, I think LA was making the point that drama tends to play out here. Just like it is doing now.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 2:29:28 PM   
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My God, I get some days where I just feel like I wandered into a Matisse...surrealistic.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 2:50:59 PM   
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My God, I get some days where I just feel like I wandered into a Matisse...surrealistic.


*hands CD a lolli *

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 3:15:04 PM   
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MistressOfGa,

I did not see your thread as "drama" in the sense that you were expressing how you felt, not denigrating others, and trying to gain insight into your own situation. I define drama as stirring up a hornet's nest  and everyone doing the Jerry Springer dance of name calling and accusation tossing. I never saw that on your thread whatsoever. Different people view things differently though.

Now if you had a new slave every week, and they came on the forum and you were fighting on here with people about your situation, THAT would be drama... I hope things are going better for you now!

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 3:26:30 PM   
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Well fast/slowlane/kev/sirmise/kickinchick........... life can be hard, right?


Good eye, Level. Someone who has been banned from the site has found a proxy...a mouthpiece.
 
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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 3:35:20 PM   
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Considering we're all different and react differently to situations, it would seem impossible to know it all. The way I've always seen it (and this is just me) is the only rules or protocols are the ones the people involved in the relationship set; none others matter. What works or is pleasurable for some, isn't for others.

Whether or not some will admit it, we're all still learning about ourselves and each other. If we were to try to stop learning, we'd be shutting off the possibility of some potentially rewarding experiences.

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 5:08:51 PM   
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Well fast/slowlane/kev/sirmise/kickinchick........... life can be hard, right?


So many are thinking it....thanks for stating it for the record.



Ya ever get the feeling that you stumbled into somebody's little spat? 

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 5:54:28 PM   
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Ya ever get the feeling you shouldn't have wasted the last ten minutes reading a thread?

I'm having that feeling now...or is it deja vu?

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RE: curious about BDSM know it alls? - 6/15/2006 6:10:02 PM   
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I refer you to post # 73.

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