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A question - 10/28/2012 8:05:40 PM   
Torc87


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Joined: 10/26/2012
Status: offline 		For those that met on here. How did you do it? Browsing profiles, chatting, forum boards? Pure chance?
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RE: A question - 10/28/2012 8:08:03 PM   
Hillwilliam


Posts: 19394
Joined: 8/27/2008
Status: offline 		The folks Ive met face to face here were from a combination of browsing profiles/getting messages from women who found my profile and chatting.
It was kind of funny that one of the old chatrooms had 5 regulars that were within about a 15 mile radius and I live in a REMOTE fucking area.

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RE: A question - 10/28/2012 8:23:58 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		I met one woman from her profile, and we got to chatting. Eventually, she moved here from Alabama.

I met several women who liked my posts, and we chatted. One actually tried a trial with me. We're still good friends.

I met a few others from their profiles, and we met but didn't click.

And I met several with no intention of anything beyond friendship, and nothing ever happened past that.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: A question - 10/28/2012 9:33:11 PM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline 		platonic, regular, old, normal, late night chatting when neither of us could sleep.
No cyber, no sexual innuendos, etc...just more like life stuff.

Then we decided to meet in person at a coffee shop and that's all there was to it.

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RE: A question - 10/28/2012 9:35:44 PM   
RemoteUser


Posts: 2854
Joined: 5/10/2011
Status: offline 		I tend to get approached, so call it serendipity. (My profile certainly does.)

In my case, she liked my poetry put in my journal. I now write something daily for her, a small thought or poem or inspiration to make her day a little brighter. It's a lovely argument for just being yourself!


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RE: A question - 10/28/2012 10:17:31 PM   
ResidentSadist


Posts: 12580
Joined: 2/11/2007
From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline 		All of the above.

I have met and dated several from CollarMe. I have taken a select few as slaves.

I have been perved on the the other side and they wrote introducing themselves and expressing interest and it lead to a relationship or date.
I have checked my perv list on the the other side, perved them back and written to them making my introduction and expressing interest and it lead to a relationship or date.
I have perved them cold on the other side, written to them making my introduction and expressing interest and had it lead to a relationship or date.
I have flirted openly on this side and had it lead to a relationship or date.
I have perved people on the other side because I found them interesting on this side and had it lead to a relationship or date.

I even met someone by chance in person at a leather event and they knew me from reading my posts online . . . they always thought I was hot but were afraid to write me or take the first step. Meeting by chance was all it took to to set it off.

So, yes, all of the above.

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 4:03:57 AM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline 		Mostly they wrote me but I met one person from the boards.

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 5:30:21 AM   
myotherself


Posts: 7157
Joined: 3/9/2006
From: The cold bit of the UK
Status: offline 		Mostly they found me. Liked my profile, sent a message, we talked and then coffee.

A couple led to dates, although they didn't work out in the long-term for various (non-kinky) reasons.

Master sent me a message. We chatted for several months, then decided to meet for a half-hour coffee, which turned into 2 hours. That was 2 years ago, and next year we're moving in together

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 8:02:46 AM   
DomMeinCT


Posts: 2355
Joined: 5/5/2005
Status: offline 		Viewed his profile/he viewed mine, used CMail for a while, then chat and phone calls.
Eventually we met up at a coffee shop.

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 2:46:45 PM   
areallivehuman


Posts: 277
Joined: 1/16/2010
Status: offline 		I was going to a training seminar for work, 2 days, in a city about 100 miles away. Browsed profiles, found hers a challenge, emailed her, e-mailed back and forth a bit. Made a dinner date, second date a week later, the rest it history.


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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 3:22:27 PM   
ivone1


Posts: 111
Joined: 7/20/2004
Status: offline 		sorry i didnt meet Master on this site.. i met him on the local bdsm clubs board... i answered a post he had written.. that was in march of 2000, we are still together not only as Master/slave but also as husband/wife... i got lucky

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 5:09:36 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Torc87

For those that met on here. How did you do it? Browsing profiles, chatting, forum boards? Pure chance?


I use 10 dollar bills and the opportunity to sit bitch in my Vega Station Wagon.

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 5:16:34 PM   
Kana


Posts: 6676
Joined: 10/24/2006
Status: offline 		I talk to me, like they're real people and all.
Never met anyone from the forums (sexually that is-I've met more than a few as friends or at clubs), but did real well off the other side when I was looking
Craaaazy, I know

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 6:50:58 PM   
sexyred1


Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline 		I have met a number of men from the other side. No one from the boards, which probably would have been far more fun.

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 7:13:14 PM   
mysteries1984


Posts: 36
Joined: 3/9/2011
Status: offline 		I was browsing profiles in my area, saw his photo and sent him a message. That was it, my one and only meet from here :)

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 7:16:07 PM   
AnimusRex


Posts: 2165
Joined: 5/13/2006
Status: offline 		Ours was sort of a rom-com cute-meet thing.

I was sending out a blizzard of cock pics with a caption that read "suk it bitch", when suddenly an email popped up from a lovely young woman, who said "hello am britney by name am looking for good master not fake master am into cock sucking dog fucking needles fire play hot waxes extreme torture and cuddling by fire my last master was rough master but died in cancer and my mum move me to Ghana."

Well, being the noble gentleman I am I proposed marriage on the spot but as it turns out there are all sorts of fees and bribes that need to be paid- who knew? But again, as luck would have it her uncle turns out to be a finance minister in Nigeria, who happens to need a place to stash a billion dollars in embezzeled funds and will pay me a cut if I help him out.

So we kinda have this investment to look forward to, once she gets my bank account info and password.

Here's her pic- kinda cute, don't ya think?





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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 7:16:52 PM   
OsideGirl


Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself

Mostly they found me. Liked my profile, sent a message, we talked and then coffee.

A couple led to dates, although they didn't work out in the long-term for various (non-kinky) reasons.

Master sent me a message. We chatted for several months, then decided to meet for a half-hour coffee, which turned into 2 hours. That was 2 years ago, and next year we're moving in together


Psst. I love the Halloween avatar Miss Bunny.


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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 7:43:51 PM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Torc87

For those that met on here. How did you do it? Browsing profiles, chatting, forum boards? Pure chance?

Those who have successfully gotten My attention on CM originally messaged Me to INTRODUCE THEMSELVES and actually invested in a conversation (rather than just saying "Hello" or listing off their fetishes as if I'm the local Chinese take-out---those get ignored).

I had lunch with a lovely fellow Domme the other day whom I met on CM (while browsing profiles). I believe it was Me who may have made the first contact.

I have tentative plans to have lunch with three Chastity submissives (separately) in the next two weeks, all of whom I met on CM. There are a few more new subby friends from CM I hope to meet for lunch in the next month or so, depending on whether friendships develop well enough. (Some of these browsed Me, and some of them I found Myself). I have only been here a little over a month now, but have had VERY good luck with CM and have recommended it to a few of My friends.

Some people say they aren't having success on CM but I feel it may be their approach. It's a simple matter to study someone's profile to see if you have personalities and interests that might go well together, then introduce yourself and start up a conversation about your common interests. (Just like in "real life", wow, who'd have thunk it?) If you are hoping to actually MEET someone, be realistic and stay within a comfortable geographical distance. I occasionally get CMails from men in CA and WA...even TURKEY, offering to clean My house and give Me the key to their CB6000....REEEEALLY? Come on boys, gee whiz!

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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 9:44:41 PM   
ThatDamnedPanda


Posts: 6060
Joined: 1/26/2009
Status: offline 		I first spotted my owner years ago, posting on the CM forums. I was just blown away by the very first post of hers that I read, and was fascinated by her profile. I followed all of her posts, and every one of them sounded as though she was writing about my own heart and soul. I'd never come across anyone who felt so completely right and so completely compatible, and so completely perfect.

I eventually wrote her an e-mail over on Fetlife; she responded very sweetly, and started paying more attention my posts. More e-mails, chatting... then more e-mails... a plane ride.... more plane rides... these last couple of weeks, we've been shopping for a permanent collar, and I'm pricing moving truck rentals. And even though this wasn't where we started writing to each other, the profiles we both put up here years ago, and the posts we made in the forums, were where it all started.

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In the forest of the night
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RE: A question - 10/29/2012 10:54:16 PM   
NuevaVida


Posts: 6707
Joined: 8/5/2008
Status: offline 		He liked my profile and messaged me. We emailed for about a month, just talking about life. Talked on the phone for another month, then met for dinner, 3 1/2 years ago.

I'm just glad I replied to his email. I wasn't replying to most of them then.

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