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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:13:17 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Dude, just because people enjoy fucking doesn't necessarily mean they are interested in fucking YOU. Truthfully, if all I was going to do was use someone for a fuck buddy, I'd be going for the best looking eye candy that I could find, the best conversationalist so we could still have a good time during dinner, and somebody who wasn't so desperate that they needed to use the internet to get laid.

Do you see what the problem is now?


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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:14:53 PM   
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I am wondering what makes a BDSM site more of a sex site than any other meeting site. BDSM/Ds does not necessarily equate with sex.


Very true. There's a whole segment of people on this site that are here to be denied sex.


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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:16:33 PM   
onlyifyouwanna


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Status: offline 		by the way i just want to clarify something this post is not about casual sex its meaningless its not what im seeking if not i would of taken janehx advice and called a escort what im seeking is long term im just not interested in wasting 6 months of my life to see if we match sexually i appreciate the other aspects of a relationship this is more of a way to take into consideration public opinion and see the pros and cons of initiating a relationship with sex

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:17:03 PM   
BKSir


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Status: offline 		Sex site? Pfft, I've been on here, for... uh... 4.5 years now and haven't even tried to have sex with anyone from here. Not saying there aren't a few people I would LIKE that with, but that's not why I'm here, and not why a LOT of people are here. If I wanted to have sex, I would just go to the club, pick someone, grab their wrist and say "come on, I want you to entertain me.". Not that hard. I, and many others are here to simply network, make friends, etc. If I happen to find a perfect pet here, even better, but even then, sex isn't the primary part of it. Although, it is a rather enjoyable perk. ;)

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:19:10 PM   
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We may need Columbo to solve this mystery.


And, like Columbo, guys like this keep coming back. "Oh, yeah. One more ting. I almost forgot"

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OP: Stick around. Keep trying. Why not? You fit right in with most of the guys here. Maybe that's your difficulty: competing with 87,394 metric tonnes of guys just like you. Don't go away. Keep it up. But...

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But if you come over to this side and ask for info don't be so rude to those who offer it. Ya get what ya give, dude.

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:19:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Dude, just because people enjoy fucking doesn't necessarily mean they are interested in fucking YOU. Truthfully, if all I was going to do was use someone for a fuck buddy, I'd be going for the best looking eye candy that I could find, the best conversationalist so we could still have a good time during dinner, and somebody who wasn't so desperate that they needed to use the internet to get laid.

Do you see what the problem is now?




im not desperate for sex i got plenty of people i can call for sex your missing the point of this perhaps its my fault for wording this incorrectly im simply saying whats wrong with establishing your compatiple sexually and building on that

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:20:41 PM   
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im just not interested in wasting 6 months of my life to see if we match sexually

And that view is why you're failing.


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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:22:08 PM   
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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:23:28 PM   
onlyifyouwanna


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Status: offline 		lon dom who was i rude too ive been respectful to everyone here i snapped on one asshole for basicly saying i have the writing of a four year old honestly im fairly proficient in grammar and most subjects just done to many term papers to worry about perfect grammer on a furom

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:24:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna

by the way i just want to clarify something this post is not about casual sex its meaningless its not what im seeking if not i would of taken janehx advice and called a escort what im seeking is long term im just not interested in wasting 6 months of my life to see if we match sexually i appreciate the other aspects of a relationship this is more of a way to take into consideration public opinion and see the pros and cons of initiating a relationship with sex


Here is your problem, among many.

You are one of thousands of men who want to get laid without doing any work or investing any time getting to know someone.

You do realize that the target group you are seeking are women, right?

Most women, not all, but most women, don't seek out meaningless sex if they are seeking a relationship. The women who just want sex are likely involved already or they want money.

You want to short circuit the dating process. I hear this ALLLLLLLLLLLLLL the time from men saying, hey, let's see if we are compatible sexually first, then we can find it we are compatible. Uh, no.

Well, here is the rub: I don't lead with sex, sex follows the interest I have in someone. Not the other way around. There is no benefit to starting a relationship with sex; you can have great sex but you might be a complete moron so no relationship will happen. The fact that you see this as "wasting 6 months of your life" on dating, says exactly what you are.

A guy who just wants to get laid, which at least, you are honest about.

There is a site called adultfriendfinder that you should go on. You got lots of married women who want to fuck outside their marriage.

A site like Collarme is a kink based site, not a sex hook up site.

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:27:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Dude, just because people enjoy fucking doesn't necessarily mean they are interested in fucking YOU. Truthfully, if all I was going to do was use someone for a fuck buddy, I'd be going for the best looking eye candy that I could find, the best conversationalist so we could still have a good time during dinner, and somebody who wasn't so desperate that they needed to use the internet to get laid.

Do you see what the problem is now?




im not desperate for sex i got plenty of people i can call for sex your missing the point of this perhaps its my fault for wording this incorrectly im simply saying whats wrong with establishing your compatiple sexually and building on that


Because life is not that simple or black and white. Sometimes the sex can suck, so you might be short circuiting a great relationship where it could get better and then you give up. Sometimes the sex is amazing, and then you find out the person is crazy, stupid, emotionally unstable or just not right for a long term thing. So it either develops into a booty call which leaves me cold, or you end up trying to base a relationship on sex, rather than compatibility.

So, instead of developing patience and not leading with your cock, you will likely fail in your endeavor. Or you could get lucky. Who knows.

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:30:06 PM   
JanahX


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ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna

lon dom who was i rude too ive been respectful to everyone here i snapped on one asshole for basicly saying i have the writing of a four year old honestly im fairly proficient in grammar and most subjects just done to many term papers to worry about perfect grammer on a furom



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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:32:13 PM   
onlyifyouwanna


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1


quote:

ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna

by the way i just want to clarify something this post is not about casual sex its meaningless its not what im seeking if not i would of taken janehx advice and called a escort what im seeking is long term im just not interested in wasting 6 months of my life to see if we match sexually i appreciate the other aspects of a relationship this is more of a way to take into consideration public opinion and see the pros and cons of initiating a relationship with sex


Here is your problem, among many.

You are one of thousands of men who want to get laid without doing any work or investing any time getting to know someone.

You do realize that the target group you are seeking are women, right?

Most women, not all, but most women, don't seek out meaningless sex if they are seeking a relationship. The women who just want sex are likely involved already or they want money.

You want to short circuit the dating process. I hear this ALLLLLLLLLLLLLL the time from men saying, hey, let's see if we are compatible sexually first, then we can find it we are compatible. Uh, no.

Well, here is the rub: I don't lead with sex, sex follows the interest I have in someone. Not the other way around. There is no benefit to starting a relationship with sex; you can have great sex but you might be a complete moron so no relationship will happen. The fact that you see this as "wasting 6 months of your life" on dating, says exactly what you are.

A guy who just wants to get laid, which at least, you are honest about.

There is a site called adultfriendfinder that you should go on. You got lots of married women who want to fuck outside their marriage.

A site like Collarme is a kink based site, not a sex hook up site.



1)of course im not trying to spend 6 months if i got to wait six months without getting laid of course i wanna leave you
ladies no disrespect but have ya ever thought that a man in a relationship without sex is gonna find it somewhere else and become so consumed with that mission that he doesnt have the time to get to know you

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:37:34 PM   
onlyifyouwanna


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So, instead of developing patience and not leading with your cock, you will likely fail in your endeavor. Or you could get lucky. Who knows.


so if your willing to admit that why are women hesitant to try it in mean hey you said it who know ladies ya dont realize that some not all men put the same emotional commitment in from the start as yourselves we just approach it differently hey where a different sex

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:40:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna

1)of course im not trying to spend 6 months if i got to wait six months without getting laid of course i wanna leave you
ladies no disrespect but have ya ever thought that a man in a relationship without sex is gonna find it somewhere else and become so consumed with that mission that he doesnt have the time to get to know you



Is that a threat to the women you would be dating? If she doesn't put out then you're gone? Gosh I hope so, because I love it when idiots weed themselves out and save me the trouble of kicking them to the curb. Btw, I'm calling BS on you saying you have plenty of people to call for sex, you wouldn't be on here looking for precisely that if that were true that you had so many other sexual prospects.

Since you can't seem to figure it out, what is wrong with seeing if two people are compatible sexually first, is that it's a weak base for a relationship and more likely to end in failure than seeing if you like each other as people first. Your reasoning is trying to serve your purpose of getting your dick needs met, but it's not actually making any sense.

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:42:36 PM   
onlyifyouwanna


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Status: offline 		look im a head to work i work night shift today i still want to keep this circulating becuase i just want all ya women who say you are open minded ya sure are set in old ways for a new modern age just something to think about ya have a good night ill see ya tommoroow see ya replies

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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:42:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna

lon dom who was i rude too ive been respectful to everyone here i snapped on one asshole for basicly saying i have the writing of a four year old honestly im fairly proficient in grammar and most subjects just done to many term papers to worry about perfect grammer on a furom


You're looking for a female in a venue where men outnumber women at least 10:1. That means there's a lot of competition for their attention. You're on a venue where your written word is your advertisement and the first impression that you create. And you're saying that the women who you are trying to impress are not worth the effort to write in a coherent manner.

Seriously, your post was bad enough that someone actually thought English wasn't your first language. BTW, she was asking out of kindness because knowing if English is not your first language would have prevented comments about how bad it was. Instead you lashed out at her and behaved like an ass.

So, between the lack of effort, thinking sex is the most important thing, and the temper tantrum.....we have a pretty clear picture of why it's not happening for you.






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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:48:30 PM   
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i just want all ya women who say you are open minded ya sure are set in old ways for a new modern age

Nope, cupcake. We're just picky.


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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:48:56 PM   
JanahX


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ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna

look im a head to work i work night shift today i still want to keep this circulating becuase i just want all ya women who say you are open minded ya sure are set in old ways for a new modern age just something to think about ya have a good night ill see ya tommoroow see ya replies



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RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid - 10/29/2012 4:49:11 PM   
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1)of course im not trying to spend 6 months if i got to wait six months without getting laid of course i wanna leave you
ladies no disrespect but have ya ever thought that a man in a relationship without sex is gonna find it somewhere else and become so consumed with that mission that he doesnt have the time to get to know you


That one is easy. We are not compatible. If you do not have enough respect for me to wait until I am ready to have sex with you, that frankly, IS disrespectful.

I am also not compatible with someone that thinks a "good" picture is one taken in the bathroom. Nice moobs though!

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