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Aylee -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 4:50:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna quote: So, instead of developing patience and not leading with your cock, you will likely fail in your endeavor. Or you could get lucky. Who knows. so if your willing to admit that why are women hesitant to try it in mean hey you said it who know ladies ya dont realize that some not all men put the same emotional commitment in from the start as yourselves we just approach it differently hey where a different sex What? Are your punctuation keys broken?

BBBTBW -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 4:50:38 PM)
Sex is a thing relative to 2 people. It can be exceptionally mindblowing after you know someone and develop feelings for them. It can also be horrible right out of the gate with a stranger. Good and bad sex is not an indicator of a good or bad relationship.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 4:56:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna ok hear me out i can respect people trying to avoid looneys and a std but im honestly std free and if theres amutual attraction why not meet up and fuck i mean i hate the dating for months just to find a partner im compatible with then we have sex and either im not satisfied or your not satisfied hey it happens so why not just get it out of the way and go from there and see if a relationship develops i mean honestly in this day and age there no more risk for me then for you and like the saying says no risk no gain i mean if youre not trying to fuck or some form of intimacy then here your on the wrong site i know just my opinion sorry if i offend you its just how i feel about it Your header says "were on a sex site" which would suggest you once were but are no longer, yet you still continue to post here. This is not a "fuck for food" site, so....get over it. Everything else was even more convoluted.

JanahX -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 5:02:16 PM)
quote: ok hear me out i can respect people trying to avoid looneys and a std but im honestly std free and if theres amutual attraction why not meet up and fuck This might be another reason why someone might not take your word that youre STD free - The Southeast has been hard hit by HIV, with infections concentrated along the I-95 corridor from Washington to Florida, and in the Mississippi Delta. Eight of the 10 U.S. states with the highest rates of new HIV infection are located here. High rates of poverty factor in as well, as does the region’s low ranking on many basic health measures. Nearly 50 percent of newly diagnosed U.S. AIDS cases each year are reported in the South. and according to the map on this link - it looks like Miami is heavy hit. http://thinkprogress.org/health/2012/07/24/574721/map-united-states-hiv/

Bemyprize -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 5:35:07 PM)
Only if you wanna, This is enlightened self-interest. (We have recently met a wonderful slave girl, and are dealing with some triggers left behind from the collarmongers). Go to okcupid (its the site you want): 1) Make a profile, answering only the BDSM questions. 2) Check the box looking for casual sex or similar. 3) Use your Paul Jankesque moves and BAM.... you will find scores of willing girls, who are kink in the bed room friendly. 4) There is a great thread about checking for STD's and such that you might find useful. 5) Rinse and repeat until you are about 35-45 and become the creepy old guy. 7) Complain that all women (18-25) are fickle and only want you for your money. THEN either A or B 7A) Find a wonderful therapist that will help you understand how to have a relationship. 7B) Continue the cycle until you find a wonderful 'soul mate' who is 20+ years younger than you, (there is one posting on another thread if you want a preview) 7B1) Reap what you have sown until you either run out of money OR leave a happy 35 year old (or so) widow. Yours in blithely ignoring karma, Michael...,

DarkSteven -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 5:42:34 PM)
Hi there. I'm sorry, but there are no legit Internet sites where you sign up, and get laid right away for free. The women on sites like to be choosy. They don't just grab onto any man who looks at them, rip off their clothes, and hump his leg. You CAN get laid. It's the same ol' bit - conversation, and taking the time to know someone.

absolutchocolat -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 5:48:03 PM)
i can't help but think that this thread isn't exactly gonna scare up some business, either. poor guy.

BoundSlave4Life -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 5:48:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl 1) It's not a sex site, the headline says it's "The world's largest BDSM COMMUNITY" 2) Many are here to date and find relationships. Because engaging in BDSM and power exchange requires at least a modicum of trust to be established, you'll find not many are willing to put they're into the hands of a stranger. 3) There are sites designed for hooking up and then there's Craigslist. I would suggest you head over to one of them rather than telling everyone else where they should or shouldn't be. To add on to what you just said -- BDSM isn't just about sex. There's a whole lot more depth to it so no. This isn't a sex site.

ShaharThorne -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 5:52:37 PM)
insert sarcasm I am available though I am in Texas. All I require is fuzzy navel wine coolers, dark chocolate and gator clips to use on your moobies. I do have to warn you that I am bipolar with PTSD so if something triggers that, I will beat you to a pulp. I am also morbidly obese, mainly in the chest.... end sarcasm

anniezz338 -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 5:59:56 PM)
The OP isn't serious. He's just stirring the pot being kind of a weasel about it. He knows all it takes is a wallet with some money in it.

slvemike4u -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 6:06:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef We may need Columbo to solve this mystery. "uh.just one more question"

alovelylady4U -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 6:15:41 PM)
On an interesting side thought- and my mind does wander off topic often lately- if the dynamic is one of dominance/submission- W/who really decides? Does it weaken the dynamic when a sub/slave decides? What if the dominant- OO gtg

OsideGirl -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 6:18:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat i can't help but think that this thread isn't exactly gonna scare up some business, either. poor guy. Yup, all they've got to do is click that little button on his profile and this little gem will be there for all of posterity.

JanahX -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 6:27:08 PM)
??? decides what and whom are you talking about? What is this in relation to in this thread? quote: ORIGINAL: alovelylady4U On an interesting side thought- and my mind does wander off topic often lately- if the dynamic is one of dominance/submission- W/who really decides? Does it weaken the dynamic when a sub/slave decides? What if the dominant- OO gtg

Silentrunner26 -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 7:01:06 PM)
It is not about sex here it is about finding the right one to (hopefuly) spend a large part if not all of your life with . Finding that one person that make life more than just fun but sensual and meaningfull . No matter what end of the paddle your on we all want someone we can think about and know they are waitting for use when we get home . Or in some cases tied up at home waiting on us . Point is we came here to meet like minded people have chats and just take off the mask we have to wear out side . Here we can be who we are and enjoy those around us with out being judged . If you came here looking for sex your in the wrong frame of mind .

JanahX -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 7:29:39 PM)
Why on earth are you telling that to me?

DesFIP -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 7:40:59 PM)
It was a fast reply to the op, I'm betting. And op, intimacy to women is usually defined as emotional intimacy, not physical. Any women who wanted to get laid tonight could go to her nearest bar and find a willing guy. We don't have to advertize for it. More importantly, what you're doing isn't working. So you can continue to do what doesn't work, while expecting it magically to start working - which is a good working definition of insanity - or you can change what you're doing. Up to you.

Missokyst -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 7:46:31 PM)
wow. It takes you six months of dating to get laid? Damn.. maybe I was a slut. quote: ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna im just not interested in wasting 6 months of my life to see if we match sexually i appreciate the other aspects of a relationship this is more of a way to take into consideration public opinion and see the pros and cons of initiating a relationship with sex

OsideGirl -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 7:55:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst wow. It takes you six months of dating to get laid? Damn.. maybe I was a slut. Yeah, but I'm guessing his attitude is off putting. It goes back to what I've said before: Men seem to have no problem reducing women to a sex/kink delivery system. But, they get offended if women reduce them to just a wallet. They don't see the similarities between those two acts.

LadyPact -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (10/29/2012 8:01:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onlyifyouwanna im not desperate for sex i got plenty of people i can call for sex your missing the point of this perhaps its my fault for wording this incorrectly im simply saying whats wrong with establishing your compatiple sexually and building on that Yeah, I'm calling shenanigans there. See, if there were plenty of people that you could call for sex, you wouldn't be here bitching about people not jumping at the chance to fuck you. Let's make this really simple. I'm a Dominant woman. I don't have one shred of issue teaching somebody how to be compatible with Me sexually. I've already got people who are with the program, so why would that be an issue? Face it. Fucking isn't that complicated of a skill. That's why it doesn't need to be pushed to the forefront. Any woman worth her salt can teach a male how to satisfy her. If you don't know this, and that is what made this subject such a priority, I would suggest you either have met the right women or your sexual ability isn't versatile enough in the satisfaction department.

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