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E2Sweet -> RE: were on a sex site why so hard to get laid (11/1/2012 7:43:42 PM)
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ORIGINAL: descrite
...No, that doesn't suck. You know what sucks? Finding out, two months after having invested in another human being, that the two of you simply don't click physically. And never will. And then having to tell that person, "I have to see someone else to get my needs met." And the way they look at you, after 60 days of intense relations, when the truth is made plain (according to some users here, 60 days would even obligate you to stay with that person if they were diagnosed with a terminal illness, or be labeled a cad).
It must be the suckitude felt by super-christer kids who get married at 18, having dated each other but never fucked for 4 years, only to find out they really, really don't like the same things in bed, from their wedding night on. And now she's pregnant. Or the suckage of a woman who marries a gay man who doesn't know he's gay (or doesn't admit it, even to himself), only to find out 14 years and three kids later.
You know what would be better than all of this? Just about anything...
If you, or someone else for that matter, wants to put ALL of those bricks in a bag, sling it over your shoulder and carry it around complaining about your back ache, then by all means commence to carrying. The really interesting thing here is that, if you're not willing to put in some time and effort before you get some whopper pay-off, you're arguably reducing your chances of ever being with someone worth having from the get go. It's a human being we're talking about after all, not a dog, so the reality is that you're probably not gonna get to do all the things you wanna do in the order you want do them. Relationships with even semi-healthy individuals simply DO NOT work that way.
All of these are decisions real adults have to make to participate in the thing we call life. The alternative, I suppose, is to move back in with mom and dad and let them make our decisions for us so we don't get hurt or upset with the way the world actually works... I'll pass on that.
Sickitude, however, is a very cool new word for me and I'd like to use that if I may.
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