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Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 10:07:53 AM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		Unless you are one of those who is a lover of scat, normally, there is poop in the shoot.

On the top end - do you require or apply an enema before anal?

Bottoms - do you stop eating 24 hours before anal, or give yourself an enema?

Do you wait the proper amount of time after an enema before anal?

Or do you just like having a flying shit fest?

I myself have YET to meet a man that has even mentioned any kind of cleansing beforehand - and yet they all are big fans of anal. Im thinking they all must be big fans of scat too. Its always a great indication to me that they dont know what theyre doing.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 10:29:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Depends on the person really. I had one ex who didn't need it to have "clean" fun. And I had another who if you didn't prep, there was a mess in more than one sense of the word. Enemas are great for both cleaning out, or just good ole fashioned kink. But the time it takes to prepare, administer, and wait out the results, makes enemas more a luxury than a requirement

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 10:33:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Does the poop blow your buzz though? Its not like it isnt intruding to almost all the senses - unless youre into that kind of thing.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 10:37:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, they say hind-sight is yada yada, but at the time it didn't bother me one bit. My mind was otherwise occupied. Afterwards, the mess was something I would rather not have had, but sex is always messy in one way or another (oh the stories I could tell)

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 10:38:04 AM   
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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 10:43:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you don't cover your toothbrush then you're already a fecophilac, Janah (you certainly have the focus on it).

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 10:58:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Dont you have a Planned parenthood to go and protest Michael? Why you dont go and throw some rotten tomatos at "baby killers" make yourself useful.


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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 11:13:47 AM   
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Dont you have a Planned parenthood to go and protest Michael? Why you dont go and throw some rotten tomatos at "baby killers" make yourself useful.



Until this, I was simply teasing but WTF?

As a lover of dirty nasty messy sex and as someone who includes some form of anal in most of my sexual encounters I have found anal is rarely dirty. Doing enemas is NOT how to get most women comfortable with anal as they reinforce that they are unclean otherwise.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 11:47:33 AM   
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Unless you are one of those who is a lover of scat, normally, there is poop in the shoot.


While you are correct that there is some, I'm only concerned if a poop is imminent, in which case I'm passing on all types of sex, not just anal.

I just shower before hand and have paper towels, a trash can, and a shower nearby.

I don't understand why a guy wouldn't want to wear a condom for anal to stay cleaner...

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 11:48:39 AM   
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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 12:18:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		OK going to put my foot into this area-LOL. I personally drop down to a liquid diet 24 hours prior to anal play- if I got advanced warning that W/we were going to be doing Anal- all tho have Had Him just decide almost last minute that that was what He wanted and had used an enema for a quick cleanse- but if the mood stuck him and we had not prepped- then He would use a Condom if He was going to expect me to do any oral on Him. Otherwise if we did it then we hit the showers right after anal and for us it was the last thing we did in that session that night as he knew I would want to clean up right then and there and He respected my comfort,

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 12:39:31 PM   
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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 12:40:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		I only bottom while completely clean. It may just be my hypersensitivity, but I can feel anything in there far too clearly which makes me really hate the feeling of any fecal matter getting moved around. The feeling of that fudge getting packed leaves me distracted with the rearrangement of everything in there. Also, it changes the friction texture to something far less pleasurable and just feels...sticky. I usually just stop eating a day before planned anal, and switch to a liquid diet or something that I know will pass through my system beforehand. When I top, I will always use a condom if my partner isn't cleaned out. Is it not dangerously unsanitary to get fecal matter in your urethra?

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 12:42:04 PM   
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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 12:43:08 PM   
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My ex owner required me to use those disposable Fleet enemas first. Problem with those is they contain a formula which left me with a bit of diarrhea a few hours later, or less.

Current owner us neither "a fan of shit" nor does he require enemas. Nor do I do a liquid diet beforehand. He prefers spontaneous sex according to his mood, rather than something planned out.

There isn't a mess that I'm aware of. Worst I've seen is him do a quick wipe down with a towel after, but that's very rare. Even "clean up" in the bathroom afterward is really mild, if anything. Maybe because I have a pretty healthy diet to begin with? No idea, it's just not an issue here.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 12:44:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Michael - I apologize. But when I start sensing that Im getting followed around thread to thread by someone focusing on me and making comments to everything I post, I tend to get irritated. If that was not your intent - then once again I apologize.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 12:45:56 PM   
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Michael - I apologize. But when I start sensing that Im getting followed around thread to thread by someone focusing on me and making comments to everything I post, I tend to get irritated. If that was not your intent - then once again I apologize.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:02:41 PM   
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My ex owner required me to use those disposable Fleet enemas first. Problem with those is they contain a formula which left me with a bit of diarrhea a few hours later, or less.

Current owner us neither "a fan of shit" nor does he require enemas. Nor do I do a liquid diet beforehand. He prefers spontaneous sex according to his mood, rather than something planned out.

There isn't a mess that I'm aware of. Worst I've seen is him do a quick wipe down with a towel after, but that's very rare. Even "clean up" in the bathroom afterward is really mild, if anything. Maybe because I have a pretty healthy diet to begin with? No idea, it's just not an issue here.


My experiences have been the same. I don't eat a perfect diet, have never given myself an enema or been given one before anal, and most times there is not a big mess. Once in a while there will be a little bit. The way the body works, fecal matter only moves into the rectum right before a movement. I still would not do ass to mouth or allow a switch from anus to vagina unless washing or condom change was done before.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:05:28 PM   
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Unless you are one of those who is a lover of scat, normally, there is poop in the shoot.



This made me laugh but actually, if you have a healthy bowel then its not true. Shit does not constantly enter and sit around in the rectum, it accumulates in the colon before it gets moved into the rectum. On arrival sensors tell the brain of the need to have a shit. People start having problems when they decide to hang on to their shit longer than they need to. When your body tells you to go, you should go!
The rectum is actually a very clever self cleaning vessel and giving someone an enema just before might be fun but can take away a lot of that natural lube and so make it more painful and anyway it shouldn't be necessary.
I wouldn't suggest one has a curry the night before but hell, anal is a random act as anything sexual and so if you normally eat sensibly and don't over indulge, then your bowel 'should' be healthy.
A shower (not douche) and cleaning round the opening should be sufficient.


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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:05:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes it is most defiantly very harmful to health and that was why it should be brought up if anal play is in the game then respecting each others health IS A MUST and a HARD LIMIT.

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