CynthiaWVirginia
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Joined: 2/28/2010 From: West Virginia, USA Status: offline
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I've never had problems with this...I enjoy anal but have had to give it up with bo because his piercings HURT, lol. Giving is a different matter. For fingering, I've worn gloves and sometimes there is a little something up there that is a bit abrasive. Because I didn't want him to get sore while I was getting him used to enjoying anal, I stopped sooner than I would have liked to. I've never had someone get an enema first when I am putting on my gloves...and yes, sometimes there is a little bit of something remaining up there that will come out and soil my glove...that's when I change gloves and wipe the outside with a dry wash rag and then re-lube and dive back in. Enemas have become part of our prep now because I am finally into something I said I would never get into, strap on play. I am not happy with the enemas because it gives him gut cramp and the saline can cause burning during anal sex. With smaller dildos we didn't need anything beforehand but I've worked him up to larger stuff and...I noticed that on some days, stuff had moved down the pipes but were still 4 inches up there and hadn't triggered his need for a BM. It would limit penetration to about 4 inches. Because of the girth (we're talking 2 1/2 inch diameter) I worried that "packing the fudge" could harm/rupture his bowels so we have been experimenting with enemas beforehand. Neither of us are happy with this; I am not into enema play and neither is he, it's just a means to an end and I dislike the saline ones...and there is no other type offered in my area. JanahX, some risk factors for infection for men can be reduced by their...simply having a piss afterward. It flushes out the urethra and helps with bacteria. When bo got his piercings, to help keep them from getting inflamed, he was told to piss on them. This worked better than the saline spray he bought, lol. (Psst...my ex-husband was told to piss on his feet after showering to help clear up his athletes' feet, and it worked.) We also inject about 4-6 oz of mineral oil up there because we like the extra lube. I handle the mess after I pull out...by holding a small hand towel over his butt and then tell him to push some of it out. Even then, for hours afterward, he has to sit on a towel...when he passes gas he also passes some oil. He messed up a chair before I figured this out.
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