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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:10:41 PM   
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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:14:03 PM   
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Yes it is most defiantly very harmful to health and that was why it should be brought up if anal play is in the game then respecting each others health IS A MUST and a HARD LIMIT.


Actually, this is not true. There are risk levels to everythong we do, bloodplay and needles are very risky. Anal play between healthy adults is low risk for any sort of serious issue, between long term partners, virtually nil. Ass to mouth between fluid bonded partners is higher risk than say vaginal to mouth sex. The mouth has most bacteria found in fecal matter already. Not to be gross but swallowing entire bowel movements is something pro dommes have been doing for decades...no known cases of death. So, a spot or two between lovers is unlikely to be an issue.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:20:40 PM   
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Yes it is most defiantly very harmful to health and that was why it should be brought up if anal play is in the game then respecting each others health IS A MUST and a HARD LIMIT.


Actually, this is not true. There are risk levels to everythong we do, bloodplay and needles are very risky. Anal play between healthy adults is low risk for any sort of serious issue, between long term partners, virtually nil. Ass to.mouth between fluid bonded partners is higher risk than sau vagonal mouth sex. The mouth has most bacteria found in fecal matter already. Not to be gross but swallowing enture bowel movements is somethong pro dommes have been doing for decades...no known cases of death. So, a spot or two between lovers is unlikely to be an issue



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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:32:10 PM   
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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:33:16 PM   
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That said, hep A is a risk for lots of things we do, B as well.

Again, I am mainly speaking of sex betweeb people who are in some form of long term relationship, not casual sex where a whole host of risk factors come into play.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:36:15 PM   
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I myself have YET to meet a man that has even mentioned any kind of cleansing beforehand - and yet they all are big fans of anal. Im thinking they all must be big fans of scat too. Its always a great indication to me that they dont know what theyre doing.


This paragraph is pretty full of shit itself.

Incidentally, I hear there's this newfangled thing called a condom, which some sex wizards apparently use when worried about germs.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:37:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		our deal is shower first with disinfective soap. I do like a nice licking while being dried off. Before she comes to bed most nights, she cleans herself back there just in case I want her that way.

Since we are mainly oral asswise and always squeaky clean, ass to mouth, either way, is no biggie. I doubt we have dick penetrative anal sex even 4 times a year, so an enema would be overkill for us. When we do have it, it is a spontaneous and short lived thing with some bedside hospital wipes and an intermission right afterwards.

She loves prepping for service and has a sweet routine that starts with a body butter treatment and ends with a little squirt of astroglide up her ass. I am real grateful to have her lovely self at my beck and call and would do anything to make her fully comfortable while obeying and serving.


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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:41:17 PM   
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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:42:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Not really - they just tend to watch a lot of porn and dont know the realities of anal - But its true, in the past when I was on the other side and conversing with guys that contacted me - I would say a MAJORITY of them were anal lovers and it was something that they always brought up. So - I would ask them point blank what that would detail from start to finish - just to see if there was any cleansing done or if this was something that was any kind of priority. Guess what - it NEVER WAS. NOT ONCE.

Unless you are dealing with guys Aswad - which I dont know if you do or not, I promise you - so many men are clueless about this aspect of it. They think that its just like it is in porn. But like all porn, they dont show the behind the sceen details and that the women are douched and enema'd out several times before any thing happens.

I know ... Im blowing the fantasy bubble again. Shoot me.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:45:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Janax by concluding that anal lovers are either fans of scat or don't know what they're doing, I'd conclude you don't know much about the subject either. Not trying to be rude here, and it is good you are asking questions, but your conclusions are pretty off the mark.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:50:23 PM   
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Unless you are one of those who is a lover of scat, normally, there is poop in the shoot.

On the top end - do you require or apply an enema before anal?

Bottoms - do you stop eating 24 hours before anal, or give yourself an enema?

Do you wait the proper amount of time after an enema before anal?

Or do you just like having a flying shit fest?

I myself have YET to meet a man that has even mentioned any kind of cleansing beforehand - and yet they all are big fans of anal. Im thinking they all must be big fans of scat too. Its always a great indication to me that they dont know what theyre doing.



I have to admit, i was a bit surprised at the assumptions in this post. As pointed out by a previous poster, there isn't always shit in the rectum. If you have had a a bowel movement, your rectum should be empty for several hours to a day.

As for the idea that you need to stop eating or need an enema before anal sex - didn't ever occur to me that either would be needed.

Anal sex = flying shit fest - well, this one confused me too. I've enjoyed lots of anal sex, and seldom had a flying shit fest. Yep, occasionally things get a bit messy, but nothing that soap and water didn't clean up. Hell, as good as anal sex feels for me, i'm happy to buy soap!

Actually for me, the wet spot from regular sex is just as icky as the left-overs from anal. The most inconvenient thing for me, is the santorum that comes about 20 minutes after we're done - which means that i need to be around a loo about then. The benefits far outway the icky factor.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:53:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Janex, porn is porn, you are right there. Each woman is different, combine that with cock size and fucking style and you have a wide range of experiences. My last lover and I primarily did anal sex, not once a mess. In fact I have had only one woman who was messy to the point it was something I tended to make sure I had a towel handy and I stopped doing ass to mouth with for that same reason.

You dont like the thought of it, fine. Lets just keep the hyperboly to a low level though, shall we?

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 1:59:52 PM   
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Unless you are one of those who is a lover of scat, normally, there is poop in the shoot.



This made me laugh but actually, if you have a healthy bowel then its not true. Shit does not constantly enter and sit around in the rectum, it accumulates in the colon before it gets moved into the rectum. On arrival sensors tell the brain of the need to have a shit. People start having problems when they decide to hang on to their shit longer than they need to. When your body tells you to go, you should go!
The rectum is actually a very clever self cleaning vessel and giving someone an enema just before might be fun but can take away a lot of that natural lube and so make it more painful and anyway it shouldn't be necessary.
I wouldn't suggest one has a curry the night before but hell, anal is a random act as anything sexual and so if you normally eat sensibly and don't over indulge, then your bowel 'should' be healthy.
A shower (not douche) and cleaning round the opening should be sufficient.




This.

I've never ever experienced anything that would remotely resemble a "flying shit fest".

Well, not outside the P&R section anyway.


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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 2:01:24 PM   
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Now, as for the other side, my listing does note mine is a one way street, so I don't see the same action you might and couldn't comment on that market. I will say, however, that it seems you're turning down good business. There will be plenty of rotten deals, but your insurance is ill equipped to handle it, in my estimation.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 2:02:29 PM   
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Unless you are one of those who is a lover of scat, normally, there is poop in the shoot.


This isn't true unless you have a bad diet or malfunctioning digestive tract. Poop isn't just sitting there waiting to come out every time one relaxes their sphincter. If it is, I would strongly suggest meeting with a doctor to figure out why.

As another poster indicated, stool sits in the colon and not the rectum. It moves to the rectum when it is time for one to defecate. Otherwise, the rectum is a fairly clean orifice assuming a decent diet, healthy digestive tract, and good hygiene.

I would never suggest an enema outside of the kink of it. There are some that are more comfortable engaging in anal play if they do an enema earlier in the day and I'm fine allowing them that psychological comfort but I would never suggest it right before anal or for penetrative anal play. It shouldn't be necessary and if it is, again, it's time to check with a doctor to see what is wrong.

Communication and a good idea of how ones body works should be sufficient in having a fun time of it.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 2:07:54 PM   
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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 2:08:00 PM   
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Bloody hell, I must be one hell of a dirty bitch


I would be gutted if you turned out not to be one hell of a dirty bitch.


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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 2:10:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		See ,,, thats not true. If this was true then in porn they wouldnt give not ONE enema - but sometimes TWO or THREE. And I find it hard to believe that all the women and men in porn have unhealthy diets.

Also - if you take a poop say a half hour beforehand - then there would be residue left in the colon correct?

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 2:10:31 PM   
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Well .. if they are, fill me in.


I think all the replies in this thread are doing just that.

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RE: Do you enema before anal? - 11/1/2012 2:12:43 PM   
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See ,,, thats not true. If this was true then in porn they wouldnt give not ONE enema - but sometimes TWO or THREE. And I find it hard to believe that all the women and men in porn have unhealthy diets.

Are you saying everything in porn represents truth?

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