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RE: need some help with my man - 11/7/2012 11:54:23 AM

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vodka makes everything more fun!

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/7/2012 12:00:14 PM

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remember, you ask the questions here, not on your blog. the stuff can be copied and pasted here, it is not for getting hits on your blog.

Manners.

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its just me being lazy :P sorry for that
and if people want answers faster then i can give them , they can always read on the blog..
i will answer here when i have time ;)

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/7/2012 12:01:25 PM

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I am so confused.

The guy needs clear words, but if you speak the words, he gets angry?
He is totally against everything but turns porn on now?

Nothing like running in a circle with no exit.

Gess, I have a terribly bad attitude today, but Im thinking your holding on to something that needs released...........hands you a pencil so you can draw you a door.

thank you for the pencil. i will keep it safe untill i have used it :)

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/7/2012 12:02:25 PM

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vodka makes everything more fun!

agreed....

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/7/2012 8:07:42 PM

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remember, you ask the questions here, not on your blog. the stuff can be copied and pasted here, it is not for getting hits on your blog.

Manners.

I'm going ditto...now all of a sudden its all on her blog & mr. Don't even say the word sex is SUGGESTING porn & accepting BJ???? I've smelled less bull shit on a feed lot. This is a writer having fun with us

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/8/2012 3:42:40 AM

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hey...
I had a man I was madly inlove with, we got married, I stayed vanilla with him all the way. Like it was a perfect marriage, he was kind, loving, supportive, understanding, everything I could ever want in a man.
It took me 6 years into being with him before I started finding the courage to reveal my submissive side as my gut told me he would leave me if I did, so I was scared. By the next 3 years, we were over, our relationship deteriorated so much.
I started with commenting that I'd like to spice up our sex life by doing new fun things.
I told him I'd like to kneel to him while his standing up, to suck his cock for a start. I told him to start experimenting with a lil spanking. I introduced bondage, and told him it would be fun if he tied me up. I started buying toys, to slowly slowly push the envelope. I told him I wanted him to command me to crawl to him and things like that.
But he went along with it, but I felt zero excitement from him, and deep inside, he was kinda horrified, like who the hell has he married?
Anyway, eventually he told me, he just stopped loving me and he lost the spark. Prior to all my mission to introduce kinks into our lives, he was still always excited with just regular vanilla sex with me.
So..., all I am saying is..., it's a 50-50. Some people have happier endings than me, but you probably have to make the decision whether you want to find out now or later.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/8/2012 7:18:36 AM

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Greta its called the whore/madonna complex. You lived on the missionary wifey pedistal. Asking for what you wanted...needed, changed that june cleaver image.

Reminds me of something I read:
"Women marry men hoping to change them to what they want"
"Men marry women hoping they will never change & they always do"

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/8/2012 8:07:15 AM

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But there are many men that want the maddonna to whore around with, and then put on her fresh lipstick, her panties, sew the tear in her dress and go back to madonnaing.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/8/2012 9:26:08 AM

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But there are many men that want the maddonna to whore around with, and then put on her fresh lipstick, her panties, sew the tear in her dress and go back to madonnaing.

Still having trouble finding this man though.
I always meet opposite extremes instead.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/8/2012 2:00:31 PM

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its just me being lazy :P sorry for that
and if people want answers faster then i can give them , they can always read on the blog..

No offense, but it took you longer to type that than it would have taken to copy and paste it from your blog.

See, I just copied and pasted the Preamble to the Constitution.

"We the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America".

That took me 10 seconds. Not hard at all. You could/should do the same.

I don't want to go to your blog. And I'm not going to. Neither will lots of others.

You sound like a blog writer who is fishing for readers. I hope that's not the case, because lots of people have tried to help you.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/8/2012 2:18:12 PM

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^^^he is smart and right.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/8/2012 3:00:55 PM

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^^^^ Seconded!

I went to the blog in the initial stages but won't go back there again to find the follow-up.

It needs to be said HERE where people are reading and trying to give advice.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/8/2012 3:19:59 PM

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i dont blog for reades.. i blog to write.. i always write.
i asked for help with a question... and i got that...
you are the ones who wanna hear the rest .. right?

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/8/2012 3:26:23 PM

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No, sinful.... YOU are the one with the questions and the dilema!

We don't/won't read your blog.
We don't give a fig about the rest.
You either take the answers or ignore them - we really don't care.

If you want answers instead of fishing for blog readers then you post HERE first, blog afterwards - not the other way round.
Otherwise this thread will just die off or go seriously off-topic.

If you say you've got your answer then fair enough; this thread should be closed.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/9/2012 5:05:09 AM

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GIrl I want all the goorey details, start to finish. Took my pencil drew me a chair and a cigarette, blew a big puff of smoke and says "Carry on Darling, I love a good show"

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/9/2012 5:13:20 AM

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No, sinful.... YOU are the one with the questions and the dilema!

We don't/won't read your blog.
We don't give a fig about the rest.
You either take the answers or ignore them - we really don't care.

If you want answers instead of fishing for blog readers then you post HERE first, blog afterwards - not the other way round.
Otherwise this thread will just die off or go seriously off-topic.

If you say you've got your answer then fair enough; this thread should be closed.

like i said .. i asked.. i got answers .. and i am not the one working on keeping this thread alive huni .. and its ok u dont give a fig about the rest.. but some people keep asking .. and like i said .. if u wanna know, read it where you can .. if you ask for something on a forum, does that mean u have to update it for the rest of your days ? i had no idea it worked that way .. im am so sorry...
so - when i dont sit here and answer all of your questions about my life .. but tell you (or who ever) yo go and read if you really wanna know.. u can either do that or stop asking .. it really that simple.. u dont have to climb up on ur ohhh so big horse and point fingers at me .. cus .. u might just fall down if u wave ur arms too much.. so.. i asked.. i got answers.. end of .. if u want to know more .. thats up to you .. not me.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/9/2012 5:15:05 AM

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GIrl I want all the goorey details, start to finish. Took my pencil drew me a chair and a cigarette, blew a big puff of smoke and says "Carry on Darling, I love a good show"

take ur pencil and fix me a cigg and some breakfast an ill give u a show..

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/9/2012 5:19:21 AM

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Asking people to go read your blog for updates is called trolling.

And FWIW, the last sensible post you made on here didn't say you had answers and that you still had problems working out how to tell him.

Some of us tried to give you answers but you kept coming up with excuses.

Well I don't need any excuses not to bother with this thread and I certainly won't go back to your blog!
Keep writing it hun, someone will want to read it.
You clearly don't want to know and are just trolling.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/9/2012 5:24:58 AM

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GIrl I want all the goorey details, start to finish. Took my pencil drew me a chair and a cigarette, blew a big puff of smoke and says "Carry on Darling, I love a good show"

take ur pencil and fix me a cigg and some breakfast an ill give u a show..

ALright deal, but get the blender out a fruit smoothy would be wonderful and refreshing about now.

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RE: need some help with my man - 11/9/2012 11:47:47 AM

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i say if you want to know what happens.. go find out ... cus i didnt sign up for a lifetime of updates.
and the last thing i wrote about my problem is that i told him and we are both still alive.. ''''

chatterbox .. i dont have one :O

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