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ORIGINAL: metamorfosis

I'm glad you're okay. But, no, it doesn't change my mind about the gun issue. What I would have done, what I think you should have done, is to stay in your room, lock the door, and call the police.

Pam

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ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

You are a very generous person to have not pulled the trigger, and he is a VERY lucky asshole.

Funny you should say that. Several of the officers told me I should have, and they wished I had.

I need to add something at this point. In Colorado, where Duskypearls and I both live, there is a law on the books called the Make My Day law. If a resident shoots and kills an intruder on their property who they have reason to believe could injure or kill them, no crime has been committed. In Dusky's case, she would not even have been charged or been subject to a trial.

Good job, kiddo, and I'm glad you had such presence of mind.

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: Duskypearls

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ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

You are a very generous person to have not pulled the trigger, and he is a VERY lucky asshole.

Funny you should say that. Several of the officers told me I should have, and they wished I had.

I need to add something at this point. In Colorado, where Duskypearls and I both live, there is a law on the books called the Make My Day law. If a resident shoots and kills an intruder on their property who they have reason to believe could injure or kill them, no crime has been committed. In Dusky's case, she would not even have been charged or been subject to a trial.

Good job, kiddo, and I'm glad you had such presence of mind.

Same thing in Maine, the Castle Doctrine and he would have left in a bodybag. Good job Dusky. *makes sure my .357 is riiiiight in arms reach* In all seriousness, I'm glad it worked out ok and I'm proud of you.

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ORIGINAL: oralfxtn

IMHO - you did the right thing and I would like to think I would have done the same thing except my gun would have been empty shortly after I screamed for the intruder to "halt".

FAIK- in America, I've been told if someone is in your house at night without permission, you have a right to test their allergic reaction to lead and their ability to stop bleeding from multiple holes simultaneously. Although, I've also heard that if you pull the trigger you should aim to kill because if you don't you could be supporting that criminal's medical needs for a very long time. (not sure how true that is but it is advice I've heard more than once, but I'd verify with my lawyer next time I get a gallon of milk if I were a gun owner)

On a different note... regarding gun control, knife control, any laws designed to control who has or carries what kind of weapon... I only have one term to share...

M.A.D. - Mutually Assured Destruction - it works for more than just nuclear weapons, if everyone in the world owned a gun, carried it with them everywhere they go, and were trained to use it... people would be less likely to try to take advantage of each other.

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ORIGINAL: Uplift

First, I would like to thank you for sharing your story and state that I am very glad you have your wits about you. Second, you definitely put something positive in my mind in terms of guns. Though I am still wary of being near one (even if I owned it), I will remember that there is a lot of good in having one around when used responsibly.

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ORIGINAL: descrite



My impressions.

1) You are a badass. Remind me not to piss you off.

2) Holy shit.

3) Never, ever, leave your bedroom if you even suspect something may be amiss in the house. Pick up the gun, your cell phone, lock the door, and call 911. Tell them you think there is an intruder in the house, and that you are armed. Stay on the phone and in the room until officers force entry. Scream "I have a gun and police are coming." Wait for the cops to come to you-- be prepared to be a bit rousted and roughed up, as they ensure you are the caller and not a threat and secure your gun. There is zero reason to search the house yourself....and about 80 why you shouldn't. The Numero Uno is what prosecutors call "house hunting": if you leave the room, with a gun, expecting to find someone, you have created premeditation: you fully expected to kill someone, upon leaving the room. This doesn't help you (depending on the state). It is not worth saving your life if you're going to spend it in prison.

4) Also, turning on the light is bad tactics: you illuminate yourself, and kill your night vision. You know your home better than anyone else; move through it silently in the dark. If you can't adhere to #3, I mean.

5) Please, please accept my gratitude that you are healthy, happy, and whole. From the few of your posts I've read, you're a quality person, and I would be loathe to think something untoward had befallen you. I think I can safely speak for everyone here: we're very glad you're hale and sound.

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

bloody hell Dusky, i'm very glad to hear you are still in one peace!

i don't have a gun, and i'm not sure what i would have done in your situation.

here in the uk there is a farmer; he shot a robber in his house and killed him. the farmer was charged with murder and sent to prison. this happened after his home had been broken into numerous times, and he'd been threatened/attacked. this is how our stupid law system works. thankfully for the farmer he was realeased in the end, but as far as i am concerned it should never have got to court in the first place.

for me....you break into my home then i should have the right to defend myself, and mine from some arsehole who has made the choice to break the law. even with a gun i'm still not sure how i would react though.

all credit to you Dusky!

needles

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ORIGINAL: VideoAdminTheta

My thoughts are that I am thankful you are here posting. That must have been quite the shocker to you. I hope you can rest and get some sleep tonight.

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ORIGINAL: Uplift

First, I would like to thank you for sharing your story and state that I am very glad you have your wits about you. Second, you definitely put something positive in my mind in terms of guns. Though I am still wary of being near one (even if I owned it), I will remember that there is a lot of good in having one around when used responsibly.

Most gun ranges have either female instructors or men good at teaching women fire arms safety. Worth some phone calls toget over the fear. Sadly the difference between dusky being alive & not is TO HIM she looked like she had no problem shooting thus the quiet sneak out. He knew as soon as she got a shot off his hiding place was done & he would become a blood donor.

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Dusky...

         That's a scary situation you found yourself in.  As a life long gun owner and now a ccw holder I commend you for your clear headedness and stable thinking in what easily could have turned into a tragic situation.  Guns are great in the right hands and I';m very comfortable in handling mine but I also have 5 German Shepherds and a Doberman on the premises.  Quite an alarm system if I do say so.  However, if they get passed the K9's........there's a loaded Sig 9MM waiting.....................

                   ~servos cor~

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ORIGINAL: LizDeluxe

So very glad that you were not hurt. Also very glad that you were armed and able to defend yourself.

I likely would have opened fire in your position. My cousin returned home unexpectedly one afternoon to find a burglar in her house. At first she just saw the open back door that had been kicked in. He heard her come in and had time to exit through that door. When he saw her he began to approach her. She was already reaching in her purse for the handgun she carried with her. She fired twice. One round hit the refrigerator and the other hit him in the chest. He stumbled out the door and fell into the yard. That's where the police found him. He didn't make it.

That is the reason I carry a handgun today. I was never interested in it before that day. I'd have shot him. He'll do this again and the next person may not be so fortunate. That's why the police wish you had pulled the trigger. I'm going to sidestep the gun rights discussion as it is a waste of time. I'd love to hear Bob Costas' thoughts on your ordeal.

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First, I would like to thank you for sharing your story and state that I am very glad you have your wits about you. Second, you definitely put something positive in my mind in terms of guns. Though I am still wary of being near one (even if I owned it), I think it is very wise to be wary AND respectful of guns. They're a serious business! I will remember that there is a lot of good in having one around when used responsibly.

Most gun ranges have either female instructors or men good at teaching women fire arms safety. Worth some phone calls toget over the fear. Sadly the difference between dusky being alive & not is TO HIM she looked like she had no problem shooting thus the quiet sneak out. He knew as soon as she got a shot off his hiding place was done & he would become a blood donor. Yep, I'm sure the very last thing he expected was to encounter someone w/a loaded, cocked .357. No doubt he knew I meant business AND, as you said, he and his hiding place would be toast. That's funny about him becoming a blood donor!

I think I would like that, seeing how my husband seems pretty intent on owning a firearm in the near future. Is this a fear that you also shared at some point?

It's fortunate that she didn't get nervous, and it's very admirable. Many people would crumble in that situation, despite extensive training.
I know it's an obvious statement, but I am still in awe at her strength.