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Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 6:51:19 PM

alhamdullilah

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I'm evidently not in a place where I can... date. I'm in a "complicated" situation I'm endeavoring to make sense of BUT... I have a question: Is the following true?

"Hi. I'm going to be (where you live/Tucson) on the following date...." -Period = "Wanna risk your life meeting me near where you live on the following date and at least fuck if not get mutilated and/or murdered?"

That's an introduction so often. But really? I'm naive and silly and of course it means that, right?

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 7:01:55 PM

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Drive by Doms!

I've always found it ridiculous. Women generally don't have a hard time getting laid, so why would we do it with a complete stranger from somewhere else?

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 7:02:06 PM

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You get this often?? Really? I've been here for years and I've never received one that said that. I'd just delete and forget about it. I don't even know why this is a question one would ask.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 7:03:43 PM

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You get this often?? Really? I've been here for years and I've never received one that said that. I'd just delete and forget about it. I don't even know why this is a question one would ask.

I get a few a month. I just delete them.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 7:13:40 PM

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I haven't gotten that here yet, but get it a lot on Alt

I delete them, too.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 7:17:02 PM

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I get those types of letters all the time, a couple times a week. I find them ridiculous. Like I need to meet someone from out of town that I'll never see again, and is almost surely married, to get some action. I just tell them I'll find a penis locally if I need one, or use my vibrator. The guys asking get offended often and tell me I'm really missing out on something amazing and special....lol. I often wonder if anyone takes them up on it.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 7:27:07 PM

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You get this often?? Really? I've been here for years and I've never received one that said that. I'd just delete and forget about it. I don't even know why this is a question one would ask.

I get it alot too. Men just think we are waiting for them to drive through NJ or NYC; as if there are not tons of men here already. Why would they ask? Because it is easy to ask.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 7:28:18 PM

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My favorite is when you tell them your not interested and they tell you how much you are missing...please.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 8:53:44 PM

littlewonder

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Oh I get the ones about fucking without knowing each other, from out of town, etc...but never one that included murder and mutilation.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 9:52:57 PM

JanahX

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Its because theyre too broke to hire a hooker - tell em to fork out some cash, and theyll never contact you again. (How is it that people have to come here to ask about shit like this - It seems so obvious ... )

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 10:20:43 PM

alhamdullilah

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Yep, happens constantly and yep, the solution is obvious. I just wonder how many of them turn out to be psycho-sadists. Anyway, it still surprises me how often it's the first message so many of them even send.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/8/2012 11:03:47 PM

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I get a couple per year. Ignore and delete and don't worry about the creeps.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/9/2012 1:16:59 AM

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It means that, if you're willing to ignore all the safety rules you've been given, he's offering you the chance to be a whore. Except you don't get paid.

Lilah, you're worth a lot more than that. Block, delete, move on.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/9/2012 1:26:46 AM

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I doubt many of these people actually intend you any harm, but it does show a certain cluelessness about women's safety concerns. I don't think they're thinking any further than 'great I'm away in a hotel for the night, no wife around, best message every woman in that area to maximise my chances of getting laid'.

I generally get a variation on this, something to the effect of 'I'm in town on Friday, will your Master loan you out to me?'. Which is amusing since I don't even list a town. I wonder if I said 'sure, we're in the Outer Hebrides, see you Friday' whether anyone would travel that far for a shag.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/9/2012 5:44:20 AM

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I get them although for some reason on alt, not here. They are usually very nice Americans who are over in London on business and want dinner (and more) with a fairly bright pretty sub. I would never do it as I just do relationships and I'm very busy and it doesn't meet my own personal safety rules which is being with someone who cares for me, about whom I know a lot, who is stable and has as much to lose as I do and is experienced.

The other one is men who say they know they can be trusted. It's a stupid comment which surely reveals they have a low IQ if they do not get the point as to why that's silly. Surely a sub who is being cautious, wanting to meet in a public place is that rare prize they ought to desire, someone wise who is going to be good to know.

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I doubt many of these people actually intend you any harm, but it does show a certain cluelessness about women's safety concerns. I don't think they're thinking any further than 'great I'm away in a hotel for the night, no wife around, best message every woman in that area to maximise my chances of getting laid'.

I generally get a variation on this, something to the effect of 'I'm in town on Friday, will your Master loan you out to me?'. Which is amusing since I don't even list a town. I wonder if I said 'sure, we're in the Outer Hebrides, see you Friday' whether anyone would travel that far for a shag.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/9/2012 6:15:24 AM

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Oh crap, could you at least reply to mine?

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/9/2012 6:38:05 AM

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OP...I just delete/block...welcome!

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/9/2012 6:40:00 AM

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Happens all the time. "Hey I have a friend in your area that I am always looking for an excuse to visit....let's chat endlessly online getting to know one another because you never know" was this morning's.

He may be a nice sincere guy. But the 1000's of such requests to waste my time online previously tell me that he's just looking for online wank material.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/9/2012 7:21:00 AM

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I haven't gotten any quiet that bad, but I got a few that made me laugh. I get so tempted to respond with something sarcastic just for fun. Oh wait one time I did and wow that was fun.

But I am too tired and lazy to these days so I just delete them.

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RE: Ok. I'm sorry- WHAT?!! - 11/9/2012 7:44:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I generally get a variation on this, something to the effect of 'I'm in town on Friday, will your Master loan you out to me?'.

Anybody who asks that gets referred to Master. Once they see him, they usually change their minds.

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