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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/15/2012 7:33:50 PM   
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You could certainly turn it around on them, keep them "locked" and tell them they aren't WORTHY of having sex with. That is, if it's HUMILIATION they are after, give it to them but on your OWN terms. Put them to work cleaning house.

OH my god, I love that! I may have to suggest it.

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/16/2012 2:15:35 AM   
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Part of me wonders if gay subs ever have forced straight fantasies...

Sure they do...its called marriage!!! Goes hand in hand with "I can't be gay (even though I just had sex with a man) because I'm married". Comes with the whole self loathing, ruin an unsuspecting womans life package

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/16/2012 2:26:33 AM   
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The thing is, they don't want a butt plug, they want a real penis, with a man attached to it.



Oh, that's only available at Dom/mes-R-Us' adults-only bar, "Submit, Bitch." There we have leather-clad men and women at the bar who force a patron to lick the barstool or shine the bartender's boots before they can order a drink.

"Mistress, I ordered a whiskey. This is water from the toilet."
"Yeah, so? You think I care what you ordered? You'll drink what I give you, and you'll thank me for it."
"Yes, Mistress. Thank you for giving me a drink, Mistress."
"Good boy. Now, that'll be $7.50. Don't forget the tip jar."

I can see a whole string of these going nationwide. It would sure give Hooters a run for their money!

Ok maybe I've just spent too many years behind a bar...but I call that saturday night!!

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/16/2012 2:40:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Speaking from experience you would be amazed how many lies a person will tell themself. Lord and Lady both know I lied to myself for YEARS about who and what I was. I honestly think "forced bi sexuality" is in most cases a fiction. (Don't flame me I said most!). The exceptions being instances as Lady Pact brought up in a post in the early part of this thread. Most of the people specifically seeking out "forced bi" have yet to come to terms with the fact that they are either in fact bisexual or homosexual.

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They do it because they can't admit to themselves or society that they are either gay or bi. so instead they do this but continue to say they are straight to try and convince themselves they are even though they are not.



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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/16/2012 7:05:48 AM   
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Sure they do...its called marriage!!! Goes hand in hand with "I can't be gay (even though I just had sex with a man) because I'm married". Comes with the whole self loathing, ruin an unsuspecting womans life package
This is one of My issues with darn near every thread we have on bisexuality. We don't call it 'bi-who I have relationships with'. For Me, the term really is about sexual desire. A person doesn't have to want to spend his life with the guy attached to the cock to want some encounters with that part of the anatomy. A person only having relationships with one gender or the other has very little to do with it.




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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/16/2012 10:17:59 AM   
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A person doesn't have to want to spend his life with the guy attached to the cock to want some encounters with that part of the anatomy.


LadyPact the above is a notion you very seldom hear a woman profess. I salute you for your honesty and insight into the true human sexuality…at least a part of it though often disdained and falsely denied by women.

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/16/2012 10:51:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: theRose4U
Sure they do...its called marriage!!! Goes hand in hand with "I can't be gay (even though I just had sex with a man) because I'm married". Comes with the whole self loathing, ruin an unsuspecting womans life package
This is one of My issues with darn near every thread we have on bisexuality. We don't call it 'bi-who I have relationships with'. For Me, the term really is about sexual desire. A person doesn't have to want to spend his life with the guy attached to the cock to want some encounters with that part of the anatomy. A person only having relationships with one gender or the other has very little to do with it.






What is bolded is the exact reason why many gay males are always out cruising bars, back alleys, backwoods trails, adult video stores etc.

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/16/2012 11:51:47 AM   
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LadyPact the above is a notion you very seldom hear a woman profess. I salute you for your honesty and insight into the true human sexuality…at least a part of it though often disdained and falsely denied by women.

Butch
Thank you very much, Butch. I sincerely take that as a compliment.
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What is bolded is the exact reason why many gay males are always out cruising bars, back alleys, backwoods trails, adult video stores etc.

I see that with two different meanings, Bear. One being that not everybody wants to have sex only in committed relationships and the other as not everybody being as honest with themselves about their sexuality as they could be.



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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/16/2012 4:29:36 PM   
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They do it because they can't admit to themselves or society that they are either gay or bi. so instead they do this but continue to say they are straight to try and convince themselves they are even though they are not.

EXACTLY but why do we have to be the lightening rod for their fippery?? If I wanted a relationship with a waffle...I'd hit IHOP!!

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/16/2012 10:27:26 PM   
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What is bolded is the exact reason why many gay males are always out cruising bars, back alleys, backwoods trails, adult video stores etc.

I see that with two different meanings, Bear. One being that not everybody wants to have sex only in committed relationships and the other as not everybody being as honest with themselves about their sexuality as they could be.





Yes though from my own experience especially from volunteering for my local HIV agency doing Awareness Education; the majority of the men who were out cruising those areas I previously mentioned, they we far from being honest about their sexuality. And out of that over half of them did admit they had a wife and were just out cruising for dick, a small percentage were single gay males who's fetish was cruising for anonymous sex and a very few were unsure of their sexual orientation and was just out looking to hook up for a quickie in the bush or picking up a guy when they cruised the washrooms in the malls. Keep in mind that all this is based on info that was voluntary given to me as I was not allowed to ask questions or judge them on their activities.

Personally I have had straight men wanting to explore their curiosity on what it would be like to have sex with a gay man and for some idiotic reason, they decided I was going to be the one. As one guy stated, " I want to experiment." Frankly the thoughts of being a notch on some straight guy's belt is a real turn off. Though maybe under the right conditions I may feel different yet it would have to be the right set of circumstances.

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 6:24:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Marini
There is something "creepy" to ME, about men on here asking/and requesting people to "force them" into bisexual activities.


I find quite a few kinks that I'm not into creepy. I'm having a hard time thinking of a kink that I'm not into that I don't find creepy at the moment.

So I tend to take a live and let live on this stuff so long as it's SSC.

P.S. Do you think that heterosexual rape roleplaying is creepy?

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 6:27:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

You could certainly turn it around on them, keep them "locked" and tell them they aren't WORTHY of having sex with. That is, if it's HUMILIATION they are after, give it to them but on your OWN terms. Put them to work cleaning house.

OH my god, I love that! I may have to suggest it.

Lmao suggest? No its a new requirement ESPECIALLY for wankers!! Kind of hard to think with your erection when its painfully caged downward

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 6:38:27 AM   
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Kind of hard to think with your erection when its painfully caged downward


Huh, I would have expected that to make them especially mindful of it.

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 6:40:21 AM   
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Sure they do...its called marriage!!! Goes hand in hand with "I can't be gay (even though I just had sex with a man) because I'm married". Comes with the whole self loathing, ruin an unsuspecting womans life package
This is one of My issues with darn near every thread we have on bisexuality. We don't call it 'bi-who I have relationships with'. For Me, the term really is about sexual desire. A person doesn't have to want to spend his life with the guy attached to the cock to want some encounters with that part of the anatomy. A person only having relationships with one gender or the other has very little to do with it.




While I get what I think is your point...I'm very anti liar. If your bi & like sex...go for it cool, but honesty woith yourself & others. Most of the "forced bi" guys ivseen are 85% married or partnered female, always sneaking around & usually cheating...trying to use the "but have a GF/wife" as the get out of jail free card for why they can't possibly be gay.
As one of my friends put it,"excuse me you had your dick in my ass every night this week WTF do you mean you're straight?". Gay gets hurt because they think the possibility of a relationship is there. Woman eventually gets hurt because of all the things under the lying/cheating umbrella & for what?

Think we need to change the label of forced bi to gay field trip!!

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 6:42:22 AM   
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Kind of hard to think with your erection when its painfully caged downward


Huh, I would have expected that to make them especially mindful of it.

Lmao mindful they aren't going to be using it eventually & painfully over rides trying to think with it

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 9:30:05 AM   
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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 11:01:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel

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ORIGINAL: Marini
There is something "creepy" to ME, about men on here asking/and requesting people to "force them" into bisexual activities.


I find quite a few kinks that I'm not into creepy. I'm having a hard time thinking of a kink that I'm not into that I don't find creepy at the moment.

So I tend to take a live and let live on this stuff so long as it's SSC.

P.S. Do you think that heterosexual rape roleplaying is creepy?


GotSteel, I am talking about men that have approached me asking/or begging for this sort of scenario.

I haven't thought much of heterosexual rape roleplay much, I will have to get back to you on that one.



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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 11:03:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Rose, now you know having sex with another man, doesn't make you bisexual.
You can totally AGREE to have sex with other men and be straight!

If I have sex with a tree/"you fill in the blank" _______ / etc...
I am not a tree fucker damn it, I only fuck the tree's every now and then.

What I want to say is against TOS, but use your imgination.

It only counts if I kiss or marry the tree.

Some situations are a "grey" area here, if you engage in an activity once in your life, maybe you are not a tree fucker.
It just means you fucked a tree once.

If you did it more than once/on a regular basis/every 10 years/when willingly forced/ or whatever/ many will call you a tree fucker.

So what?

In the end, it really doesn't matter a lot, WHAT you call yourself.

What matters, is that you have enough integrity to tell a potential/or CURRENT mate, about your past proclivities, regardless of what you consider yourself to be{straight, bisexual, gay, ex/current tree fucker}

As always to each their own.

< Message edited by Marini -- 11/17/2012 11:44:20 AM >

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 12:44:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		My big issue is being a bush lover, married or greenhoused & tree hunting!
Worse is closeted tree lovers doing their thing then going "I'm not a tree fucker I have a bush at home".
Yeah you may slip & fall on a naked tree no harm no foul.
In my mind you can kiss & hug a tree no harm
If your greenhouse is bush, tree, bush, tree, tree bush...YOU ARE BI-SEXUAL!!!

Being a cheating bastard in my mind doesn't change bi-sexuality whether they insist on opening & closing the closet door is just a distraction. If you're out then in then out then in I don't care whether you say you're straight in a relationship or not...you're bi in my book!
Part of why I label as poly switch...doesn't mean my next partner will be that lucky, just means its how I roll.

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RE: Straight subs wanting Gay Doms - 11/17/2012 12:47:18 PM   
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