marie2
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ORIGINAL: Marini quote:
The victim's family was good with it, according to the reports. I can't remember it verbatim, but they said something to the affect that they didn't want to see two lives ended. marie, you have to marvel at how forgiving that his family, especially his parents appear to be. Even though it was an accident, not many people would agree to his sentencing, after losing a child. I suppose they are taking the high road....Maybe they had known this kid and his family for a while...I don't know. If it were me who had lost my child, I'd be an emotional basket case. However, from a non-emotional point of view, if a person is killed in this fashion, I'd likely think that he/she might have been drinking too, and might bear some responsibility for getting in the car to begin with. I do wonder why the passenger who is killed in these types of cases is never held at least somewhat responsible for their own fate. That doesn't exonnerate the driver, of course. In this particular case, I have a hard time blaming just the one kid, knowing it was a mistake that any of us could have made at that age, and that this will haunt him for the rest of his life. I can't imagine going on having that burden to carry with me for the rest of my days. I don't know, I suppose that would be a "lifetime sentence" of it's own kind. It's just sad all the way around.
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