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RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad - 12/2/2012 5:29:46 PM

BlackTigerDragon

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My best advice is to find a nice person who wants a nice dominant. It will be much easier to find and it will work out better for both anyway.

Then I would leave these women who apparently want assholes to go out with assholes and let natural selection take its course :)

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RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad - 12/3/2012 8:06:12 AM

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RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad - 12/3/2012 1:19:05 PM

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Actually, I'd say if you have to be an asshole, you're not really dominant.

But what if, like me, your natural state is to be an asshole? Am I just stuck like chuck, relegated to a life of jerking off to bad bondage porn?

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RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad - 12/4/2012 9:53:52 AM

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being a dom/master is a big responsibility ......... i thought basically the same as you but what i have learned is that slaves/subbies have needs and deserve our utter respect.
By taking her and using her makes her feel needed and owned....
She is ur property and u have to look after ur property or it ceases to be yours

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RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad - 12/4/2012 2:00:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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Actually, I'd say if you have to be an asshole, you're not really dominant.

But what if, like me, your natural state is to be an asshole? Am I just stuck like chuck, relegated to a life of jerking off to bad bondage porn?

Your other option is making it for the greedy CM masses?

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RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad - 12/4/2012 6:23:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Actually, I'd say if you have to be an asshole, you're not really dominant.

But what if, like me, your natural state is to be an asshole? Am I just stuck like chuck, relegated to a life of jerking off to bad bondage porn?

Your other option is making it for the greedy CM masses?

I like the way you think

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RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad - 12/4/2012 8:13:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Actually, I'd say if you have to be an asshole, you're not really dominant.

But what if, like me, your natural state is to be an asshole? Am I just stuck like chuck, relegated to a life of jerking off to bad bondage porn?

Your other option is making it for the greedy CM masses?

I like the way you think

OOOOOOOOW MY EYES MY EYES!! Need some bleach for my eyes!!!

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RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad - 12/4/2012 10:43:47 PM

Mezrem

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Well crap, I'm screwed then, spell check is my best friend!

To the OP, dude like other people have said be yourself. I have heard it here before and will repeat it.. find a munch group. Yeah like some here will tell you not all have good experiences with them, but alot of people do as well. I know the groups in my area were the life blood of my early lessons in things.

You you don't have to be an ass hat to people if you are not one. You will get much further by refining your interests and skills. The play partners and partners you find will thank you for the time you put into developing these things.

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RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad - 12/5/2012 12:06:14 AM

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I know what you mean and i dont know if your to nice or not

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