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RE: Negative experiances - 12/2/2012 9:53:01 PM   
Aylee


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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I've met not a single person the six on/off years of being on collar me

Then you are a person that nobody wants to meet. What do you make of that?


This.

Because I've met over a dozen people from here. In fact, I met my Kitty here. How you like them apples?


Eating apples or cooking apples? (Either way, I think that the best ones are the ones you pick from the orchard yourself. Maybe more work, but it is worth it. Do you want an invitation next fall?)

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 12:07:49 AM   
blacksword404


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ORIGINAL: Aylee


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: efafaef
I've met not a single person the six on/off years of being on collar me

Then you are a person that nobody wants to meet. What do you make of that?


This.

Because I've met over a dozen people from here. In fact, I met my Kitty here. How you like them apples?


Eating apples or cooking apples? (Either way, I think that the best ones are the ones you pick from the orchard yourself. Maybe more work, but it is worth it. Do you want an invitation next fall?)


It's funny. I've never ever considered going to a farm to pick stuff myself. I don't know about apples but I know there must be loads of peach farms in Georgia. I might have to check on that when peaches are in. Besides it gives me an excuse to ride anyway.


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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 3:50:26 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Dude, I read your profile. I'll be happy to not meet you as well.

You making this thread is the equivalent of a leper ringing a bell and yelling "Unclean! Unclean!"

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 4:00:52 AM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Good god! I thought the other posters were being way too snarky - but no. That may be the most negative profile i have ever written. There is absolutely nothing positive in it.

and its a pity because the poster is not hard to look at, if he can smile.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 4:18:08 AM   
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The way I look at it is these types of men weed themselves out of the running for the others.

Dude, don't change a thing. Keep doing what you're doing.




Ah yaaa........

Internet dating 101 in action.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 5:28:10 AM   
wandersalone


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Status: offline 		OP do you have a friend that can take a photo of you rather than the camera in front of the face pose in a mirror?

Keep in mind that many women, including the thin ones, will read a guy's profile AND his journals to get a feel for the type of person he is. Yours speaks volumes.

I have over the years met so many people, some will be my dear friends for life, some are people I dated and I am still close friends with two of them and I met someone for lunch today who I will be seeing again.



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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 5:29:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have never met anyone from here but I have had made many a good friend here . Ive had lots of good talks and a few bad ones .
If you have a problem look with in yourself first them look at others . Then look back at yourself you missed something the first time .

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 8:26:08 AM   
theshytype


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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt


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I don't think your profile will help you meet someone. At all.

Your profile is so negative. I don't know many people who are attracted to that attribute.
It's focused so much on "fakes", that any information about you gets lost.

I'd spend more time trying to paint a good picture of yourself, and less time trying to out others.


But that's who he is. Darwin was right, most people self select just fine.



True. Now, if only we could get rid of warning labels...

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 10:13:01 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: efafaef

I've met not a single person the six on/off years of being on collar me



I'm not going to touch on the negative profile and the whining putting people off, since if you haven't got that message from the posts above me, you're not going to get it. I will say this:

You want to meet someone. Everyone genuine you've come across has either been a)unattractive in your eyes or b)not interested in you, for whatever reason.

It's been six years.

What lesson can we take from this?

Do you think, maybe, it's time to try something else?

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 10:22:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		OP. I looked at your profile. It's a rant and whinefest.

It's not them, it's you.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 6:59:33 PM   
MisPattySweets


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Status: offline 		I was recommended this site by a friend, unfortunatly What we have both encounted on this site are many dishonest people. We are both very disappointed. Would anyone recommend a better site?

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 7:03:27 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Here we go again.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 7:04:30 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Yeah, you're in LA ffs. How many munches and clubs are there?

Go meet people in real life.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 7:14:22 PM   
BrokenKajira


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Status: offline 		I know his very first message to me wasn't "hello" or "hi" ... it was just that I was a fucking fake, lol. I asked him how so, since my pics have the same furniture, same face (duh!), same tattoos ... so out of boredom I dedicated my profile pic to him, lol. I normally wouldn't give someone like that a care in the world,but it was how amazingly rude he was that make me take a few moments out of my day *winks*. Tonight a friend told me he was whining about fakes in the forum and it made my day!! I love the fact he thinks I'm a fake!! It means my 165 pound weight-loss makes me look so hot it makes me too fake to be real HAHAHA

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 7:17:31 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		There are no sites out there that can ever guarantee that the
people you are chatting with are exactly who they say they are.

As a new user to the site, your profile was like a red neon flashing sign to the
people on the other side of this site that sit and wait for fresh meat to pounce on.
Lot's of people join sites such as this for a free wankfest, and will say anything
if it gets them off. It may simmer down a bit once your newness wears off.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 7:19:34 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Well done BrokenKajira, and congrats on the weight loss!
But be careful to let any strange man dictate your actions
with the threat of you being a fake. Many will do that just
to try and get a cam show out of you.

< Message edited by poise -- 12/3/2012 7:20:42 PM >

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 7:58:32 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: BrokenKajira

I know his very first message to me wasn't "hello" or "hi" ... it was just that I was a fucking fake.


Geez. So his modus operandi is to say "You're a fucking fake" to random women. 99.99% will refuse to reply, which he then takes as "proof" that they really ARE fake.

He's actively pissing off the very people he wants to meet. Brilliant.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 9:05:09 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: MisPattySweets

I was recommended this site by a friend, unfortunatly What we have both encounted on this site are many dishonest people. We are both very disappointed. Would anyone recommend a better site?

whinydipshits.com might be more to your liking.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/3/2012 11:53:34 PM   
MisPattySweets


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Status: offline 		ZzzzzZzzzz!

Wow... pure brilliancy here. Instead of being constructive here you just slash out and go straight to criticizing others. And you still wonder why so many are disappointed with this site.

< Message edited by MisPattySweets -- 12/4/2012 12:07:14 AM >

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 2:49:03 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I'm afraid the dishonest people are all over the internet. It's true that some of the nonsense calms down when you have been here a few weeks and no longer show up as a new user. But liars will always be drawn to the internet, because it's much harder to hide your true self in person. So my advice would be, if you're running into a lot of dishonesty, go out and meet people in the flesh. You can meet people here and on other sites, but meeting time wasters is a hazard you must accept.

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