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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 8:14:32 AM   
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not very many who could swing a 5' broadsword though...Mykal


You'd be surprised.

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 9:35:35 AM   
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I agree. I have met too many dumb women to believe that ALL women are superior.

And I've certainly met too many dumb men to believe that ALL men are superior.

Unfortunately Stupidity is an equal opportuity affliction.

(Been known to have an occasional attack myself.)

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 11:15:43 AM   
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Why isn’t there a male supremacy equivalent to female supremacy? I don’t see male dominants or female submissives post their belief in male supremacy.

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 2:32:56 PM   
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Why isn’t there a male supremacy?.


Because any male who openly advocates generic male supremacy is just a moron - rightly viewed as a first cousin to the neanderthal neo-nazi who advocates white supremacy.

Those "maledoms" won't get much traction - or much trim - in the bdsm community - unless they fish in the murky backwater of "femsubs" who utterly despise themselves.

Best wishes -

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 5:00:48 PM   
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Kind of an interesting double standard.

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 5:12:26 PM   
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Why isn’t there a male supremacy equivalent to female supremacy? I don’t see male dominants or female submissives post their belief in male supremacy.


I don't believe one gender is superior over the other, just certain individuals over other individuals, and only by choice.

Grrrrrrr am i ever gonna get a post right the first time?

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 6:25:49 PM   
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I know many women who think this patriarchal world we live in used to be dominated by females, not very many who could swing a 5' broadsword though...Mykal

Five foot long swords started being made in the early 1200s, before that metalurgy was too primitive and armour too light to make a big sword useful or feasible. A Roman gladius (350 AD) was 2-2.5 feet, and even a warrior with arms like Olive Oyl can handle one of those fairly well. When it comes to matriarchal societies we're mostly talking earlier than 600 BC, so think javelins, slings, darts, big daggers and leather armour. I'm not making claims either way, but it doesn't seem to me that prehistoric technological achievements inevitably propelled men into domination by military force. That waited until the stirrup started to be used in Western Europe (600 AD), giving rise to the cavalry lance, ever heavier armour, and a hereditary military aristocracy.

An afterthought: In discussions on the topic of gender dominance, there always seem to be some lurking, implicit suggestions that those who are dominant are superior in some fairly broad sort of way. A dominant should make good decisions, and should handle those under their command in such a way as to inspire confidence, but may otherwise be inept and incompetent. Those taking orders from them may be far more gifted, overall. There were some very un-PC social scientists in the past who felt that there was significant correlation (in humans) between dominant behavior and lower cranial capacity/IQ. Dom-inferiority is a very interesting concept, and provides a lot of food for thought when it comes to topics like this.

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 8:27:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Yankeestick

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tristan

Why isn’t there a male supremacy?.


Because any male who openly advocates generic male supremacy is just a moron - rightly viewed as a first cousin to the neanderthal neo-nazi who advocates white supremacy.

Those "maledoms" won't get much traction - or much trim - in the bdsm community - unless they fish in the murky backwater of "femsubs" who utterly despise themselves.

Best wishes -

Yankeestick

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ORIGINAL: Tristan

Kind of an interesting double standard.



Indeed.

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 9:19:49 PM   
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it stands to reason
that really a man
being ipitimized by
a worm would be
catigorically
incorrect being
that most worms
are asexual.
That is except
those whom
have been
anywhere near
the chernobil site.
It seems that
radiation brings
out sexual reproduction
in worms that were
once asexual.
I wonder if the
radiance of a
Supreme Female
would do the same
for a wormie man?
~WINK~ JMO

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 9:49:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

it stands to reason
that really a man
being ipitimized by
a worm would be
catigorically
incorrect being
that most worms
are asexual.
That is except
those whom
have been
anywhere near
the chernobil site.
It seems that
radiation brings
out sexual reproduction
in worms that were
once asexual.
I wonder if the
radiance of a
Supreme Female
would do the same
for a wormie man?
~WINK~ JMO



Truly, who could argue with that?

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 10:05:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tristan

Why isn’t there a male supremacy equivalent to female supremacy? I don’t see male dominants or female submissives post their belief in male supremacy.



Isn't Gor based on that principle? (Honestly asking...not wanting to stir up a Gor debate)

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/12/2004 10:20:31 PM   
MistressDREAD


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why Yes Thorns * kinda*


Gor is based off of the
Natural Order of Men
being physically stronger
in life hence ruling with
that strenth however the
superiority stance of
Woman is based more
on the beauty and strenth
of her mind and will
and soul which in the end
I think would always out
live that of the Natural
Order of Mens strenth.
Personally speaking I
feel that both genders
hold both kinds of strenths
depending on thier up
bringing and area
raised and inborn
beliefs and processes
to fullfill such positions. JMO

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/13/2004 3:52:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MrThorns


quote:

ORIGINAL: Tristan

Why isn’t there a male supremacy equivalent to female supremacy? I don’t see male dominants or female submissives post their belief in male supremacy.



Isn't Gor based on that principle? (Honestly asking...not wanting to stir up a Gor debate)

~Thorns


It sure is.

There are lots of places that place emphasis on male supremacy. I would go out on a limb and say that the majority (more then 50%) (EDIT many months later, this should have said more then 80%....sorry!) of self-idenfied BDSM and Ds enthusists are oriented towards male domination. This isn't to suggest it is better or worse, simply most common.

Stephan

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/13/2004 4:52:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MrThorns

Isn't Gor based on that principle? (Honestly asking...not wanting to stir up a Gor debate)

~Thorns


My own conversations with Goreans convince me otherwise - the difference is between choosing an archetypal mythos for me to live my life in, versus saying that this is how the whole world should think, and be constructed.

To move away from the BDSM world for clarity's sake and to keep the heat down while we talk concepts: In pre-modernist Islam, such as the Wahabism of Saudi Arabia, women are simply "back of the bus" people. They can't drive, they can't hold office, etc. They're not free beings - by design and cultural mandate. This was also the Islam of the Taliban.

These people believe not that this is right for them - but that it is right for everybody - that there was a cultural imperative to impose their archetypal world vision of male supremacy on ALL people in Muslim countries - and if they have their druthers, on the rest of the world as well.

That's how good Christians thought before the so-called Age of Enlightenment too. Martin Luther said, "We must convert the Jews". And when the Jews didn't want to be converted, he said (shortly before his death), "We must kill the Jews".

Of course, even modern fundamentalist Christians like Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson don't believe in this approach to the human condition anymore. Of course they believe that their doctrines regarding male supremacy are right FOR THEM because that's the Bible's teaching- but they don't recognize a mandate to be philosophical imperialists in the same way as their forbears did, when comes to my life as a non-believer.

They understand that their doctrines, including the doctrine of man as the head of the household, are right for their people because that's the memetic package you buy when you accept the Bible as the literal world of God -as they do. Ditto the Catholics, who accept the doctrine of Papal Authority. Within the unbrella of their church woman are restricted when it comes to ecclesiastical office. But they don't say that the Episcopalians, or the Church of Christ, must do the same.

Ok...back to the BDSM community to deconstruct the issues.

The Goreans (from my perspective) seem to be just that way. They believe that their Master/slave ideas, and their free companion concept, are right in the context of stepping into THEIR archetypal world. They don't say (as far as I have heard) that this is the way it should be for everyone. In that, they're non-virulent in the same sense modern Christians, and modern Muslims, are. They choose a model, mythos and set of memes that's right for them.

And that's exactly the differerence, whether I use as a contrasting example a white supremacist neo-nazi type philosophy to illustrate my point, or the kind of female supremacist/gynocracy concept advocated academically by people like Mary Daly of Boston College, and by any number of female supremacist Dommes on the net - whose virulent rants can be found in under a minute using Google.

And - in case anyone is confused - I have nothing against a Femdomme lifestyle for any who choose to embrace it. I'm in entire agreement with MistressFire70 and any number of articulate, reasonable Dommes whose posts I read with interest and respect on these boards. I consider their insights into power exchange relationships just as useful for my own ongoing education in our lifestyle as a male dominant's.

Where I'm taking out the long knives and doing a bit of deconstruction is in considering the entirely VIRULENT set of memes that, if left unchecked and unchallenged, always end up justifying non-consensual crimes against humanity. That's really what's at stake in this discussion - in my opinion.

It's the oldest problem we have on this planet - this idea of generic supremacy advocated by one group against another - and we're not done with it just yet. Osama (just to use an example) has just the other day been reported as having gotten permission from some extremist clerics to detonate a nuke somewhere in the western world. If he doesn't get the job done, it won't be from lack of trying...and if he does, it is this basic supremacist philosophy which provides the memetic rationale for doing so - just as Hitler's doctrine of Aryan supremacy (and jewish inferiority) provided him his rationale.

So...more than absurd, I find it appalling that this kind of female supremacist thinking would be tolerated rather than denounced for the hate speech that is really is, by the general BDSM community.

So - anytime a Domme with her head on straight decides to do a bit of denouncing, I'm inclined to give her a hearty yea and amen, and maybe stomp an internet toad or two in the process.

It's the Lord's work - and fun, to boot.

And yes - I'm an equal opportunity meme stomper when some neanderthal with a pecker advocates that women shouldn't hold elective office, and only men should rule the world, too - something I've not heard (so far) from any Gorean I've spoken with.

Best wishes -

Yankeestick


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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/14/2004 9:40:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressFire70

All women are superior to men; therefore, all men are worms and should acknowledge the superiority of the female sex.

As a Female Dominant and a Mistress I feel that this statement is a crock. Surely, I'm not the only one!

To me, men who make this statement are just showing a lack of intelligence, self esteem or both. To say that anyone is superior because of their sex, race, religion is idiotic, in my opinion.

Now, do I want my slave to think I'M superior? You betcha. Do I want them to think that every woman deserves to be worshiped? Not on your life. There are those who do NOT deserve such. A slave who falls at the feet of just anyone is really devaluing themselves and not honoring those of us who are deserving of quality service.

Ahhh…I feel better.


ranting can be good for the soul...can't keep that sh!t bottled up forever.

p.s. i think your irrogent, pretentious, and above all else, a winer















naw, i'm j< (only on the irrogent part)....lol

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/14/2004 11:01:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: yellovv

ranting can be good for the soul...can't keep that sh!t bottled up forever.


Welcome aboard, fellow Y person.

FYI - Here on CM (that's an acronym for CollarMe, used by those in the know) it's ok to use the word SHIT in your posts just as the good lord intended.

Bonus: You get to save your exclamation points for punctuation purposes when you wish to inform the rest of us about your strongly felt opinions (see example below).

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p.s. i think your irrogent, pretentious, and above all else, a winer


Spoken like a true dominate! We need more like you.

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/15/2004 12:12:54 AM   
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I have the mindset like this:


Anyone has the right to be racist, biased, predudice, arrogant, follow a society thats conservitive, follow a religion thats communist, fight with words for a cause thats seperatist and I can listen to their rants and raves on such issues till they are blue in the face and Im bored beyond words and thats ok for them and their right and My right not to agree, And I will fight for that right with My death towards anyone whom would tempt to take away your opinions for your self or from Me, HOWEVER tempt to force Me to accept Your racisum, your biased views, your predudice ridacule, your arrogant ways, tempt to make Me bend to a conservitive societys ways, force your religion on Me or your communist living, or kill for the sake of only One type of anything to be superior to another type of anything and I will fight You with everything that is with in My being untill You are dead My Freind. When I choose to live a Alternate way of Living that is My CHOICE. When I choose to live along the lines of sumthing that has a positive influance on Me that is MY CHOICE. When I choose to live in what most would concider extream conditions that is MY CHOICE and My WAY. I do not force MY WAY on another, the others CHOOSE to live MY WAY as well, and thats the way it should be illregardless of what part of the world you live or what your beleifs are...... I know plenty of Gender, Race,Religion and Age Supremists and thats what They get off on and thats OK for them............... JMO

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/15/2004 4:38:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: smile2cu

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ORIGINAL: MistressRage
I agree. I have met too many dumb women to believe that ALL women are superior.

And I've certainly met too many dumb men to believe that ALL men are superior.

Unfortunately Stupidity is an equal opportuity affliction.

(Been known to have an occasional attack myself.)



"You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy." - Erica Jong

Just food for thought and a little stir of the pot ;)

In all honesty, I look way beyond racial, gender and other lines to think of one type of individual as being superior to another.

- LA

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/15/2004 7:19:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


"You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy." - Erica Jong

Just food for thought and a little stir of the pot ;)


I'm tempted to say Laura Bush - but since that's another pot altogether, I won't.

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RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... - 11/15/2004 10:33:37 PM   
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I think it's better to separate the idea of female supremacy from women who simply abuse men, although there are a number of dommes who's profiles combine the two, at least rhetorically. A female supremacist, it seems to me, can just as easily be a loving, caring, righteous woman as not, and a woman who believes in equality of the sexes can be mean and vicious.

Intellectually, I find female supremacy is just silly. Why even bother to argue about it? You might as well try to argue with a flat-earth believer. Then again, I'm a sub. I don't want to argue with a domme. Not usually anyway, and certainly not a domme I want to play with (unless, of course, that's what she wants ...). Loads of happy marriages have taken place between spouses who had differing ideas about God, politics and the supremacy of one sex over the other. Why not happy BDSM relationships?

Emotionally, I find that a woman who says she's a female supremacist really turns me on. It's the BDSM equivalent of charming. No, it IS charming -- to me, anyway. She puts me further into the mood to submit. She arouses me. She's like a walking, real-life erotic story.

There is, of course, a downside with female supremacists: They may want to make all the decisions in the relationship. They may feel they have more rights than I have. They may expect me to treat them with more respect than they will treat me. They may be condescending.

What a dilemma.

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