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RE: Forced... education? - 12/12/2012 3:51:16 PM   
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RE: Forced... education? - 12/12/2012 3:51:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mysteries1984

In a riddle.

Hmmm, more of a physical force? Really depends on the topic at hand, I suppose.


It doesn't necessarily have to have physical force behind it.

It could be achieved by consequence (or perceived consequence).

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/12/2012 6:24:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

The Mouse when back to school on my command...and she gets discipline/affirmations based on her scores


Yeah...am I thrilled about college? Not really. I'd rather not but he likes a woman who knows many things and sees it as a benefit to me and to him. He also has me read certain books and articles and will question me about them and he likes testing me on certain topics that he finds interesting.

Oh and never mention you would like to learn something or find something interesting. You just may find yourself being forced to learn it.

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/12/2012 6:35:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

http://japanese-tea-ceremony.net/
http://www.thehomebutler.com/special-training-for-butlers.html

^^^^^^^^^typical courses of study.

I could use a girl educated in accounting and finance. Blowjobs?  I can train at the olympic level.

There is more to forced education than what it sounds like.


Hey, I have a degree in Finance and started as an accounting major!!!

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/12/2012 7:38:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		What if the person is more than willing? Does the thought then lose its appeal?
In my case, I cannot think of a subject that I would have to be forced to learn (I'm a highly curious person who loves to learn...and one of the few who actually loves math).

To me, it's not force, just supportive.
I would find it to be extremely beneficial.
Especially if it's something someone already shows an interest in, but is being held back because of another subject, such as math.

Regardless, I don't believe anyone regrets bettering their education.

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/12/2012 7:54:18 PM   
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RE: Forced... education? - 12/12/2012 8:50:41 PM   
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RE: Forced... education? - 12/12/2012 9:18:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tinkerer


Submissives: Have you ever been forced to learn a subject? Were you successful? Did the pressure from your dominant help or hinder you? Did you enjoy the experience? How did they do it?

My former owner required me to go back to college, so I did. I was required to get straight A's, so I did. I did get one B, though, in a Statistics class, but I was going through a divorce at the time, and my father had just died, and I was working a lot of overtime at work.

At first I enjoyed it. I was kind of scared to go back to school after 20 years and it was good for me to realize I could still get A's in everything. Plus, some of the classes were interesting, and even fun (until Statistics and Economics!).

But there was too much pressure. School, working 50 hours a week, divorce, several deaths in the family, trying to get my house sold, medical problems, and an extremely demanding owner who would keep me up until all hours of the night did not provide an optimal environment for me to succeed in. The pressure became too much and I cracked....like majorly cracked.

I don't go to school anymore. I didn't finish my degree. I decided at my age and with my history, I'd rather enjoy all I can out of life than sit at home every night and weekend for the next 5-10 years with my nose in books. I have an awesome job, family, friends, relationship. If I didn't work full time I'd probably go back to school. But it's not a priority for me now.

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/12/2012 9:28:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		My Master is having me learn his native language. Of course it's not "forced" since I'm interested.
But if I'm right, op, what you mean forced in the same way a tutor might force you to learn something.

With my learning being guided by someone I care about via micromanaged scheduling, testing, etc. definitely helps me take more interest and work harder to study and learn. Perhaps "forced studying" is a better term?

For me my Master's method has really been working.
Lessons are simple enough that I can pick up at least a new key word with the level being high enough that I have a sense of how much I really need to learn.

I'm enjoying the experience, but it's just been light and introductory so far.

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/13/2012 6:20:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		You mean taught not forced, or encouraged.

Well, in red dragon, at least the book anyway, he eats the painting - to give him powers or something.

Wonders if he should cook himself quantum make it all up as we go along mechanics for loons, or a nice scone for tea and sell it to students for gold doubloons - i could cut it up with some Shakespeare and to add some harry potter to ponce it up a bity
now is the winter of our sconeless discontent
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Sometimes people just say stuff for the sake of it - usually this one, as they fondly reminisce pantaloons conjecture.

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/13/2012 6:32:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

http://japanese-tea-ceremony.net/
http://www.thehomebutler.com/special-training-for-butlers.html

^^^^^^^^^typical courses of study.

I could use a girl educated in accounting and finance. Blowjobs?  I can train at the olympic level.

There is more to forced education than what it sounds like.


Hey, I have a degree in Finance and started as an accounting major!!!


But whattemp should the water be for darjiling?
How does one steep proper green tea?
These are the pressing issues of the day

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/13/2012 6:34:27 PM   
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RE: Forced... education? - 12/14/2012 9:21:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Now you have me thinking of a couple I met at a Much a few years ago. An interesting dynamic.

They loved the teacher/student age play type of thing and they had a schedule of punishments linked to test scores in her college exams. <grin>

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/14/2012 9:23:05 AM   
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RE: Forced... education? - 12/14/2012 10:13:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		My initial thought on this topic was that education must be something that you enjoy in order to be successful at it. But then I remembered that the act of submitting to somebody is one thing and the learning to enjoy the act of submitting is something else.


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RE: Forced... education? - 12/14/2012 10:20:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think in all loving relationships each of you can encourage the other whether dom or sub to be the best you can be . I like a slightly paternalistic relationship with a dominant man who can lead and guide,. I am pretty well educated, a leading thing in my area, earn a lot so I suspect at my life stage there is not a lot of forced education other than learning to serve his needs that would be needed but certainly I have gained from contacts in a business sense of men I've known and they probably have the other way round too. I would not really want to date someone with a low IQ who was unsuccessful and worse than I am at everything.

I am sure some men like submissives who are a bit lost, useless with money and perhaps with addictions, problems, disorganised lives and in comes this knight in shining armour to save them even though Mr Knight is only on £30k working at his local bank but to little miss useless on benefits with her drug habit he has saved her life. She looks up to him like an absolute hero as he actually owns a car and flat. That dynamic of man saving girl is repeated across all income groups in many male/female relationship. I would simply caution all men that however appealing if the girl really does have genuine and hard to solve problems you might be better off looking for a little miss competent longer term.

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/14/2012 5:13:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tinkerer

Forgive me if this has been brought up before. I did a quick search and didn't find anything, so I'm assuming that if it has been brought up, it was a while ago.

We have all heard of forced orgasming, forced bi, forced chastity, forced fem, ad nausea, etc. I've even read discussions on forced exercising, but what about forced learning? I get nothing from making someone worthless, but I do enjoy pushing someone hard to better themselves. I know there are people like me in this way on here, so I'm curious if anyone has experienced this.

Learning is not something you can actually force, so I mean the word more in the way of "Strongly encouraged". Owners and trainers: have you ever forced yours to learn a subject like math or science or the like? Why and how did you do it? Were they successful? Did you both enjoy it?

Submissives: Have you ever been forced to learn a subject? Were you successful? Did the pressure from your dominant help or hinder you? Did you enjoy the experience? How did they do it?


One has to be forced to better themselves?

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/14/2012 9:19:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		My current sub is pre-med. That turns me on (as successful women do), so I encourage her studies as much as possible. In the middle of a weekend, I will stop all recreaton, and order her to sit down for two-three hours with her books and no other distractions (iPhone, etc.).

She can study, or she can sit there and do nothing. I am continually pleased by how hard she studies. I demonstrate this by sometimes bringing her a snack or drink (but not too often-- don't want to distract her).

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RE: Forced... education? - 12/15/2012 5:57:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Forced? Not really.

I wanted to quit my crappy job and go back to school and could afford to do so but was scared of the risk. He had me do it, because it was what I needed to do, and it's been good, for the most part. And I've learned things just to help with his business. But I can't say any of that was forced.

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