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Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 8:13:19 AM   
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The violence is done,the victims are all now known to a grieving nation.
Now this small northeastern town must face the logistical nightmare of burying all of these victims.
One local funeral home will handle 11 services itself !
Over 100 Conn. funeral directors have offered the town it's services on a volunteer basis.
Cars,hearses and limos are needed in large numbers.....it almost qualifies as an invasion of sorts when you consider the size of the town.
Lastly....and perhaps most poignantly coffin manufacturers are offering to donate 20 little coffins.

Newton will bury its dead.....but will Newton be able to overcome all of this once the grief has receded ?

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 8:27:07 AM   
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Newton will bury its dead.....but will Newton be able to overcome all of this once the grief has receded ?


Yes. Absolutely. It won't be easy. It won't be quick. But, it will be overcome. It's what people do. And, when they have trouble dealing with it, Americans will step up to the plate and help, as is already being done. There will always be an indelible mark in history for Newton, CT, but it will bounce back.

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 8:31:10 AM   
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Why are you so sure DS,by all accounts part of Newton's appeal to young families was it's schools.
Why is it so improbable to think that this will no longer be so,that young families looking to find a place to settle down and plant roots will pass Newton by because of this scar ?

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 8:36:41 AM   
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Why are you so sure DS,by all accounts part of Newton's appeal to young families was it's schools.
Why is it so improbable to think that this will no longer be so,that young families looking to find a place to settle down and plant roots will pass Newton by because of this scar ?


It will take time, Mike. No doubt about it. There are, apparently, still people living in Littleton, CO.

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 9:17:57 AM   
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I was thinking along the same lines as you. This is a raw wound and it is going to take time, but I do honestly think that Newtown will overcome as well. Will the same innocence that existed before the tragedy on December 14th be there? Probably not. But just because it is not there does not mean that everyone in Newtown will cease to exist.

Littleton, Colorado didnt become a ghost town after the tragedy there. Virginia Tech didnt just disappear off the face of the earth after the tragedy there. Aurora, Colorado didnt vanish after the tragedy that happened there. Tucson still exists as far as I know. And we here in Portland, Oregon have all managed to continue living. Dont get me wrong, we are all more painfully aware of how fragile and fleeting life can be...and we know now that no place is safe from violence. But we, like Littleton, Aurora, Tucson, Blacksburg, and Newtown will all find our way to move forward. To do anything less is to give an incredible amount of power to people who just flat out do not deserve it.

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 10:05:17 AM   
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I hope so. I only have what I've seen on the news to go by but it seems like the type of community that will pull together. They already recognize the need for counseling and support. From seeing the reports of the vigil at the church the night of the shooting and such, I think they are going to have a lot of help.

As for people moving into the town or what real estate will be like for the next few years, I couldn't say. It's not exactly something that people will automatically think 'it happened once, so it will happen again'.


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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 10:22:43 AM   
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This kind of traumatic experience is going to take time to heal.

If I sound callous, I dont mean to, but it is not the body count that is traumatic, it would be the same if it had been as low as one.

Yes the pain to the families is magnified by the number of the dead, I am not disputing that.

But sadly, and this is my opinion of humanity in general, due to times we live in where it seems that random acts of violence is the answer to a desperate person, this is going to happen more often and not just in the US.

This time it was an adult with a semi automatic rifle and an excessive amount of ammo at his disposal. The next time it could be a kid with a revolver, then it could be some ideological fanatic who finds the solution Timothy McVeigh came up with the perfect way to make his point.

When terror and violence is the solution, everyone suffers.

Nothing is going to take away the pain, I know this from experience, until the survivors have died.

All we as a society can do is to prevent those who come to that desperate level in their lives from acting, and that means prevention and accessible treatment.

My prayers are with the families that lost loved ones and the town for its collective loss.

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 10:51:30 AM   
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Whether or not you mean to sound callous...I am going to be honest with you Jeff,to my ears you do in fact sound callous.
It seems very important to you to point out as often as possible,in whatever threads you can find, other methods of mayhem,Oklahoma being the most prominent and oft mentioned occurrence .
The whole point of course,IMO ,is your fear of what this episode will mean vis a vis your guns.

I don't wish to rehash that,or to turn this particular thread into a gun discussion.I feel events have bypassed our concerns anyway.
The nation has reached a tipping point and things are moving ,I do not feel this tide can be altered at this point,certainly not by anything said here.

But I do wonder whether or not you are able to internally accept the fact that these particular children did not die from an explosive device,they did not die from knife wounds....they died from bullets fired from a semi-automatic weapon,a Bushmaster-223 to be exact.

Constantly inserting that there are other means of violence will not change that,nor alter the clamor for meaningful legislation.

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 12:03:25 PM   
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Whether or not you mean to sound callous...I am going to be honest with you Jeff,to my ears you do in fact sound callous.
It seems very important to you to point out as often as possible,in whatever threads you can find, other methods of mayhem,Oklahoma being the most prominent and oft mentioned occurrence .
The whole point of course,IMO ,is your fear of what this episode will mean vis a vis your guns.

I don't wish to rehash that,or to turn this particular thread into a gun discussion.I feel events have bypassed our concerns anyway.
The nation has reached a tipping point and things are moving ,I do not feel this tide can be altered at this point,certainly not by anything said here.

But I do wonder whether or not you are able to internally accept the fact that these particular children did not die from an explosive device,they did not die from knife wounds....they died from bullets fired from a semi-automatic weapon,a Bushmaster-223 to be exact.

Constantly inserting that there are other means of violence will not change that,nor alter the clamor for meaningful legislation.



I accept the fact the children did indeed die of a firearm.

And whatever the law of the land becomes I will abide by it.

The only point I am trying to make is that if someone wants to kill a lot of people they are going to do it.


Yeah, I am worried about a bomb, for more reasons that just the lone gunman problem. I happen to read the reports put out by Homeland Security on soft target vulnerability. Schools being the number one on the list.

Kids as young as six have been caught with guns in school, form .22's to 44 magnums, semi auto pistols and revolvers. It scares the living shit out of me. You see, while my kids are grown, I have grandkids going to public schools, I have great nieces and nephews going to public schools.

While the lone gunman with any kind of weapon and lots of ammo concerns me, I am more worried about the incidents that dont make national news, just because the body count isnt high enough, the incident where a kid takes daddy's or mommy's pistol to school to deal with a bully and not only shoots the bully in question but a couple of other kids.

I learned to shoot when I was six. I taught my son when he was seven. I have never owned a glass fronted gun case in my life, it has always been either a double key safe or now a key and combination key pad. I grew up in the country where my biggest worry was a rattlesnake in the hay in the barn, so mom and dad had me carry a 22 when I went to put hay out. Because I was more aware of gun involved accidents, when my son was old enough to feed stock, i helped him and I carried the gun.

Since I have grown older, I have changed. My grandson turned 8 and my son asked me if I was going to teach him to shoot, my answer was not till he is 13.

I am a combat vet, I have seen what guns can do. I have also seen what kids do to kids with guns.

If it was up to me there would be metal detectors at every school, public and private, mall, sports venue, concert venue, night club, and bar. I would fence every public park in the country and put metal detectors at the entrances. I would take a third of the money we spend on defense in this country and do everything humanly and insanely over the top method to protect our children.

You complain about modern military style civilian rifles, I complain about the simple fact that no matter what the gun is, no one in this fucking country is willing to spend a fucking dime on preventing them from getting into the schools in the first fucking place.

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 12:32:51 PM   
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If it was up to me there would be metal detectors at every school, public and private, mall, sports venue, concert venue, night club, and bar. I would fence every public park in the country and put metal detectors at the entrances. I would take a third of the money we spend on defense in this country and do everything humanly and insanely over the top method to protect our children.

How about extraditing all medical professionals and not treating sexually or amorously trensmitted diseases (including the herpes virusses) and prohibiting the use of condoms and any other means that reduce the promulgation of such diseases? It will save a bundle on medical costs and in about five generations the population will be a lot less barbaric.

(Yes, that will hurt me as well as I have the herpes simplex virus.)


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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 1:23:04 PM   
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If it was up to me there would be metal detectors at every school, public and private, mall, sports venue, concert venue, night club, and bar. I would fence every public park in the country and put metal detectors at the entrances. I would take a third of the money we spend on defense in this country and do everything humanly and insanely over the top method to protect our children.

I have read different things about the events in CT, but the last one I read was that the shooter gained entry by breaking a window.. IF that is true, then metal detectors would not have stopped him..


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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 1:34:18 PM   
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If it was up to me there would be metal detectors at every school, public and private, mall, sports venue, concert venue, night club, and bar. I would fence every public park in the country and put metal detectors at the entrances. I would take a third of the money we spend on defense in this country and do everything humanly and insanely over the top method to protect our children.

I have read different things about the events in CT, but the last one I read was that the shooter gained entry by breaking a window.. IF that is true, then metal detectors would not have stopped him..



There are shatter and break proof window materials available. I put em on my house after the third hail storm of the season busted another batch of new windows.

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 1:43:16 PM   
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If it was up to me there would be metal detectors at every school, public and private, mall, sports venue, concert venue, night club, and bar. I would fence every public park in the country and put metal detectors at the entrances. I would take a third of the money we spend on defense in this country and do everything humanly and insanely over the top method to protect our children.

I have read different things about the events in CT, but the last one I read was that the shooter gained entry by breaking a window.. IF that is true, then metal detectors would not have stopped him..



There are shatter and break proof window materials available. I put em on my house after the third hail storm of the season busted another batch of new windows.

yes of course i know that.. the thing is, when someone is determined he/she will find a way in or to accomplish their goal..

he could have just waited for school to let out and gunned the little kids down in the street as they were leaving en masse.. he might have even killed more of them had he done that.. how exactly would you protect them then?

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 2:00:58 PM   
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tj444, hate to tell you but the sniper thing happened in 1997, two killed, by another student hiding in the trees.

Another school shooter not inside, Charles Whitman.

The only sure fire way I can think of to protect kids in or leaving schools, mall patrons, and every other patron that goes to a sporting event or concert is to put the entire country in head to foot body armor.

Before automatics got in our schools it was the zip gun.

In WW2, Philippine guerrillas made shotguns out of two pieces of pipe, a nail and a block of wood to fight the Japanese.

Another thing about ww2, the British military designed the 9mm sten gun, a submachine gun, made by small machine shops and blacksmiths all over the UK.

And the wonderful internet has everything somebody needs to download and make one.

Hell dont outlaw guns, make the fucking ammo harder to get. You do not need a license to buy ammo, you dont need squat.

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 2:48:02 PM   
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see thats the thing.. I dont see turning every building in the US into a prison as an answer.. i dont see putting everyone in body armor as an answer.. and I dont want to live in a country where I have to ask myself if the person walking down the street towards me is packing a semi in his/her pocket (or where I feel I must carry one).. your whole society and culture needs to change drastically, but I am afraid it never will.. that is my feeling on it.. I dont know what else to say about it..

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 3:15:29 PM   
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see thats the thing.. I dont see turning every building in the US into a prison as an answer.. i dont see putting everyone in body armor as an answer.. and I dont want to live in a country where I have to ask myself if the person walking down the street towards me is packing a semi in his/her pocket (or where I feel I must carry one).. your whole society and culture needs to change drastically, but I am afraid it never will.. that is my feeling on it.. I dont know what else to say about it..



Honestly, I would love to live in a country where the only time a gun is used is by some one in the wilderness shooting at meat for his table, not some Macho He Man wannabe trying for a trophy.

Tell me where such a country is and I will gladly move.

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 3:28:00 PM   
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Honestly, I would love to live in a country where the only time a gun is used is by some one in the wilderness shooting at meat for his table, not some Macho He Man wannabe trying for a trophy.

Tell me where such a country is and I will gladly move.

There is no such country any more. In their unfathomable wisdom the rulers of the western, civilized countries a fair number of decades ago decided to open our borders to immigrants from barbarian countries. Most crimes in The Netherlands are committed by these people and their descendants. (Another ethnic group of high profile criminals are people from the Dutch Antilles.)


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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 3:40:23 PM   
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Honestly, I would love to live in a country where the only time a gun is used is by some one in the wilderness shooting at meat for his table, not some Macho He Man wannabe trying for a trophy.

Tell me where such a country is and I will gladly move.

My father had a rifle when I was growing up on the farm... I rarely saw him use it & none of us kids ever handled it or learned to use it.. it was there for the various reasons farmers have them.. I have never owned a gun, I dont ever see owning a gun..

Canada has gun control, it would be almost impossible to get a permit for a handgun or such that was used in CT.. There has never been a Canadian Prime Minister that has been assassinated.. unlike a few of your Presidents.. its a different culture.. its a different way of thinking.. Now I am not saying you should move to Canada but there are other countries also.. several to choose from..

"In 2005, 75% of the 10,100 homicides committed using firearms in the United States were committed using handguns, compared to 4% with rifles, 5% with shotguns, and the rest with a type of firearm not specified"

"The incidence of homicides committed with a firearm in the US is much greater than most other advanced countries. In the United States in 2009 United Nations statistics record 3.0 intentional homicides committed with a firearm per 100,000 inhabitants; for comparison, the figure for the United Kingdom, with very restrictive firearm laws (handguns are totally prohibited, for example) was 0.07, about 40 times lower, and for Germany 0.2.[43]
For another comparison, Switzerland has one of the highest gun ownership rates in the world, with somewhere between 1.2 to 3 million guns in the private residences of its approximately 8 million citizens. In 2006 there were 34 recorded murders or attempted murders with a gun, representing a firearm homicide rate of 1 per 250,000"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gun_violence_in_the_United_States

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 3:49:35 PM   
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There is no such country any more.

the rate for your country is pretty low.. there are much worse countries than the US too tho.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_firearm-related_death_rate

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RE: Newton Conn.'s incredible burden. - 12/17/2012 4:01:14 PM   
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i am glad this shooting took place in a white community with mostly white victims and a white gunman. Why? Because it is drawing attention to a problem that has existed for a while but that is mostly ignored because most of the victims are black.

Here is the statistic, and it isn't pretty - 8 young people under the age of 20 die each DAY in the U.S. from GUN VIOLENCE.

EVERY DAY.

Oh and for the record, 75 people over the age of 20 die each DAY from GUN VIOLENCE in the U.S.

And I know what some of you are thinking. Well those people were criminals and deserved to die from gun violence.

Sure, like the following:

Chris Foye's son Chris Owens, known as Booba to family, was at West 121st Street and Lenox Avenue in Harlem when he was hit and killed by a stray bullet on April 26, 2009. The shooter was never caught, and the gun was never recovered. Chris was 13.

Nardyne Jefferies's only child, Brishell Jones, was eating pizza with a group of friends when men driving by in a passing car opened fire with an AK-47. She and two others were killed and nine were injured. Brishell was 16.

So while I realize that a mass shooting like this rivets people's attention because of the high fatalities and seeming randomness of the attacks, I just want to remind everyone that the death toll from guns is unbearably high. But we don't tend to think about the death toll overall because most of us do not have to live in dangerous neighborhoods. But regardless of where someone lives, or the color of their skin, dying from gun violence is sad. And something really does need to be done about it.

If this incident draws national attention to the issues of accessibility of guns, particularly assault weaponry, then maybe at least these children have not died in vain. Because every year, many children do, in fact, die in vain from gun violence. Many of these incidents never hit the national news. Most are just another gun violence statistic. Rarely discussed, or noticed, and quickly forgotten.

And for those who think guns are not really the issues: if being crazy were enough to cause fatal violence how come we don't see a rash of slasher killings by the mentally unstable that take down 20 people at a time? Or a random bystander fatal knife attack? How often do those occur?

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