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Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 11:47:45 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SinFix

The same old naked torso in a mirror shot is pretty lame...

and I will add that for me I don't put much stock in pictures cause I know a lot of people that look fab in photo but in person aren't that great or like me aren't photogenic but in person considered attractive...

So how many of you put a judement on a photo as an initial impression? talking looks/attractive wise

I'm one of those who doesn't place much stock in photos. The hottest man I've ever known isn't a beauty; had I judged him on his photo I'd have ruled him out, to my great loss. Unless I see something really extreme in a photo, I don't care much about it. Conversely, an exceptionally handsome photo tends to make me wary, a carryover of past experiences with gorgeous men. Yawn.



fetisheden -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 11:48:11 AM)

nude first pix are always lame.



Phoenixpower -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 11:48:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TheBoyDownBelow

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So how many of you put a judement on a photo as an initial impression? talking looks/attractive wise


A good photo makes me more likely to open a profile. However it is not a must have.


Yep...it's not a must have...some weeks ago I was attracted big time from a picture from a guy (from a different page)...however....at our 2nd phonecall he bore me to death as the only topic he could speak about was his dick [8|] Therefore, we never met and will never meet [:)] As I prefer to date a guy and not just a dick [:)]



kalikshama -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 11:58:55 AM)

This refers to the primary photo on the profile of a man seeking a woman in no particular order as I think they are all lame:

- A picture of a woman
- A BDSM cartoon
- A cock shot

I did, however, really like the picture from the guy seeking profile advice on this thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4333080/tm.htm



TheBoyDownBelow -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 12:01:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower

Yep...it's not a must have...some weeks ago I was attracted big time from a picture from a guy (from a different page)...


Dass tut mir ja leid. Sorry to hear. Was there anything interesting in the profile besides the photo?



FilmWithMistrix -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 12:31:31 PM)

I wont even allow someone with a dick or ass shot to friend me on FL... I just dont care to see it. If that is your primary avatar on any site, or you send me one unsolicited, I just don't wish to engage. I dont have any urge to be associated with dicks and assholes, if that is the best quality you have... well... not for me.

BDSM cartoons? Usually very juvenile and emotionally stunted... I'll consider a pro session, but you likely wont work as a personal play partner

Clearly fake photos.. celebs and the like... cheap attention grabbing tactics.

I'd rather a nice sunset or such from those who are concerned with exposing their real photos here. Not everyone is in the public scene, and sending photos privately is more than acceptable.



needlesandpins -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 12:39:07 PM)

well i take photos of myself in the mirror as i usually have taken them to send to my playmate.....like my avatar. i do have them with my face on, but i don't post it here because i don't want to. were i to be looking i'd eventually let someone see the full pics if we were getting along. however, i don't like the bathroom pic where the flash has obscurred everything.

others would be;
pics of spread open pussy. it's not pleasent for me as a straight woman.
related to that, pics of your ex. she's an ex for a reason so get over it already, and get rid of her. it always makes me wonder if they have permission from the ex to show it. i would also not trust that person in case they did that with mine.
i'm another for the toys thing. why do i want to look at toys you've been shuving up someone else?
trying to pass themselves off as the actor in the pic. you may be stupid, but i'm not dickhead.
the inside of a guys arse. that's just grim.
anything to do with scat.
eta, profiles where the pics are of the person, but taken in such a way as to try and pretend that they are someone else. having multiple profiles like this is a deception so why would you expect me to trust you? you're a liar before anything has even started.

i'm sure there are many more.

needles



Level -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 12:43:01 PM)

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TheBoyDownBelow -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 12:46:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

well i take photos of myself in the mirror ...


I actually like self-taken photos in the mirror. It makes them and the person real. More real than some fetish photos taken in a professional studio, which I totally hate. Too pretentious for me. Bathroom is OK I guess, as long as the toilet paper is moved outside the picture frame, LOL. I have taken photos of myself in the bathroom mirror, and they don't look anything like it.



Level -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 12:54:14 PM)

*wondering where facebook jesus went*

Are there any men that get turned off by a woman showing nudity on a profile? Or is that solely a female thing?



TheBoyDownBelow -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 12:59:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Level

Are there any men that get turned off by a woman showing nudity on a profile? Or is that solely a female thing?


Yes, I do. Don't have a problem with nudity in general, but nude Dommes are IMHO inappropriate for their profiles. The whole purpose of CFnm gets distorted.



needlesandpins -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 1:00:34 PM)

TheBoyDownBelow that would be my thinking too; at least it's them and not some rip off model pic.

i don't mind cock shots, but there are some damn ugly cocks out there. however, those ugly ones remind me of just how lovely my playmate's is [:)] if the person were to want me to take them seriously though they's have to show they are more than just that.

needles



fluffypet67 -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 1:11:00 PM)

i've never understood the bathroom mirror shot. Why not use the camera on your computer? OK, i know not all computers have a camera.

In addition to the no-nos already listed, the pics that turn me off are the ones of men who look to be younger than my son.




Level -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 1:13:12 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TheBoyDownBelow

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

Are there any men that get turned off by a woman showing nudity on a profile? Or is that solely a female thing?


Yes, I do. Don't have a problem with nudity in general, but nude Dommes are IMHO inappropriate for their profiles. The whole purpose of CFnm gets distorted.


Define CFnm please.



TheBoyDownBelow -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 1:15:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: fluffypet67

In addition to the no-nos already listed, the pics that turn me off are the ones of men who look to be younger than my son.


I can say the same for women who look older than my Mom, but claim to be 10-years younger than me, LOL.

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ORIGINAL: Level

Define CFnm please.


clothed female & naked males



sexyred1 -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 1:19:30 PM)

I agree with many here on the photo dislikes.

I am really quite simple in what I like: a face shot. I don't need to see your toys, other women, artwork, dirty home, headless torso, family, pets, etc. People who ask for more photos of me without having any of them; totally lame. And I have zero interest in a cock shot.

Just you preferably smiling. That is what I show because honestly? No one deserves to see me unless I am interested enough in THEM to see the rest of me.

I state clearly in my profile I am a BBW or whatever word you are fond of using. So no one is being fooled unless they don't read a profile. It is actually a qualifying mechanism for me since so many men write me and upon reading their profile, it states they are seeking petite or thin women, so I know they did not read mine clearly.




Level -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 1:28:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Level

Define CFnm please.


clothed female & naked males


Ah, thank you. I can see that nudity would be adverse to your kink. I tend to think that's fairly rare though; even moreso than the number of woman that DO like nude shots.



needlesandpins -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 1:35:24 PM)

another one; men obsessed with being locked up in chastity devices. seriously dude, if i have to lock you up to stop you fucking everything else what use are you to me. if you can't control yourself i want nothing to do with you.

needles



FinDommeXtina -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 2:07:41 PM)

A picture with genitalia is worth a thousand words, beginning with F off!

Basically if your ego is so inflated you must parade your private bits for all to see then I have no interest in you. You're already the neighborhood whore, showing off your no no's.
What else is left to truly become Mine??




Rule -> RE: Profile Photos (12/26/2012 2:24:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
Have you ever seen a profile photo (usually on "who is viewing you") that makes you NOT want to contact someone. I don't mean that the person is or is not physically attractive but that they are doing something so STUPID you think "this person is a tool"

On the other side my search parameters cause female submissive profiles to show when I frequent that side of CM. Some of these profiles I have hidden from my view for either being very explicit or just plain hideous.



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